Jack’s Winning Words  (11/14/22)

“Carl’s so smart that he can Hula Hoop a Cheerio.”  (Andrew Rudd)  An analogy is a comparison between two things to make a truth more understandable, often in a humorous way.  Can you imagine hula hooping a Cheerio?  A high school student wrote this analogy: “Her hair glistened in the rain like a nose hair after a sneeze”.  Even Jesus used analogies, e.g. “Can a camel go through the eye of a needle?”  I believe that Jesus was like ordinary people, including having a sense of humor.   Somewhere in the back of my mind I recall seeing a picture of a laughing Jesus on a package of toilet paper.  Humor can help make our daily lives more enjoyable. Is there anything in religion that has made you laugh? ;-)  Jack

FROM AR's MOM:  Andrew comes up with some doilies, but Hula Hooping a Cheerio was stellar. Fun to see this WW today! Thank you. ===JACK: You have raised your children well.  Andrew has many fine qualities....and a droll sense of humor, too.

FROM SR RD: It is snowing white diamonds this morning. . .and they are winning over the snow blowers chosen work of making parking lots and sidewalks cleared!!===JACK:  Thanks for the Minnesota weather report.  After the recent election, the skies are sunny, but partly cloudy for some.

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:  we could use more humor in church but some of the kids responses during the childrens sermon are worth a chuckle===JACK:  We had a new family in church on Sunday and a return of the Children's Sermon.  Pastor and children played "Follow the Leader", marchimg aroun the church.  "following Jesus" was the point. 

 Jack’s Winning Words  (11/14/22)

“Carl’s so smart that he can Hula Hoop a Cheerio.”  (Andrew Rudd)  An analogy is a comparison between two things to make a truth more understandable, often in a humorous way.  Can you imagine hula hooping a Cheerio?  A high school student wrote this analogy: “Her hair glistened in the rain like a nose hair after a sneeze”.  Even Jesus used analogies, e.g. “Can a camel go through the eye of a needle?”  I believe that Jesus was like ordinary people, including having a sense of humor.   Somewhere in the back of my mind I recall seeing a picture of a laughing Jesus on a package of toilet paper.  Humor can help make our daily lives more enjoyable. Is there anything in religion that has made you laugh? ;-)  Jack

FROM THE SCIENTIST:  Your parents raised and interesting family, and you seem to be doing the same thing:  S:  Interesting is an interesting word. But I’ll take it :)

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/11/22

“Yes, we can!” (Obama campaign slogan)  The political slogan that  I remember is, “Give ‘em Hell, Harry.”  Maybe that’s because it was the first time I voted.  BTW, can you recall the first time you cast a ballot, and who it was for and why?  "Yes we can” is an example of the power of positive thinking.  I’ve been under the impression that “positive thinking”, and it’s power, was an invention of the minister Norman Vincent Peale.  I also see examples of it in the Bible.  Maybe not in so many words, but the idea of “Yes, You Can!”  It’s even in a child’s book, “I think I can.....I know I can.”  So, when we are faced with some scary situation, we can look for guidance from the Bible, a little engine, or Norman Vincent and say, “Yes, I can!”  ;-)  Jack  

FROM SHARIN' SHARON:  Thought-provoking WW this morning.  I actually can’t remember the first time I voted or even voting at the time we entered into the Vietnam War even though our marriage was so impacted as Jerry was drafted—all past history happened so fast and blurry in my mind.  Though remember distinctly my mom voting for Kennedy.  What’s impressive to me now is knowing some people who were so troubled by Proposal 3 and opposed to it and how they are handling their disappointment—I.e. people have different opinions, keep focusing on Jesus and hoping the lawmakers will tweak it.  That is some kind of “I think I can” perspective too coming from another place than from the place of the voters who voted for the proposal to be passed, both trusting our thinking, discerning and reasoning.  A lot of good advice and teaching comes out of the Bible for some people though I realize also some people can read and interpret the Bible in a less peaceful way too.  I remain hopeful for our country and it’s institutions, positive thinking here.===JACK:  I have trouble seeing Jesus in one of our voting booths.  Some decisions are simply left for us to decide....and be responsible for.

FROM ST PAUL:  i find Peale appalling and Paul appealing:):):)   old joke.  have a good weekend,  Jack.   here is another one:  i would rather have a bottle in front of me than a frontal lobotomy!:):) ===JACK:  Another religious person was gave rathe uplifting biblically appealing messages was Bishop Fulton Sheen.

FROM SMILIN' TERI:  Yes, we can!”   Another quote:  “What if it all works out?” (Melissa Hurley) (Rather than “the sky is falling.”)===JACK:  ....and what if all of our prayers are answered as we pray them?  There's a book: "Come, let us play God."  Would you like to put you in God's placce for a day?

FROM THE SCIENTIST:  I just got an email from my energy company offering carbon offsets to support the 3700 acres of forest they are managing. Glad to see the step, but this will need a big shift. I’m glad for the UN calling us out ===JACK:  In Minnesota, Joan's energy company owns and operates hundreds of solar fields, and customers are given a lower rate because of them.  I have a friend who has covered her roof and side walls with solar panels.  She is aiming, ay sometime, to 100% green.  She already drives an electric car.

FROM BB IN CHGO:  Hmmmm 1980.  I believe I cast my vote for John Anderson.  Probably a mistake?===JACK:  Why a mistake?  Did it make a difference one way or another?  You did what you wanted to do ast the time.  Even this time, if your vote or mine would have gone missing, would it have changed the outcome?  

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/10/22

“Step into the story of what it means to be human.”  (Fetzer Institute Project)  My son’s neighbor Anant is a Hindu scholar and has been invited by the Fetzer Institute to come together with a worldwide group of theologians to consider what it means to be human.  The two of us have enjoyed sitting on the deck and “talking shop.”  I was surprised to learn about the Fetzer Institute.  All I knew of Fetzer is that he owned the Detroit Tigers at one time.  Most of us have more than one life.  Did you know that I was the one who named the Atlanta Hawks basketball team?  In our talks, Anant and I have discovered that in our concept of God we have more in common than we have differences.  What do you think it means to be human?  ;-)  Jack

FROM ST PAUL:  are you now flirting with Universalism,  Jack?:):)===JACK:  I used to be worried about being accused of things like that, but that's no longer on my radar screen.  It is what it is.  I think that if we were to sit down with a face to face, we might come to an understanding.  I have a hard time seeing a God who saves ONLY Christians and ignores the rest of the world.===SP:  i totally agree.  however,  if  you watch many of our so-called TV evangelists,  they LOVE to drive home this ONLY message.  must give them some sense of superiority.  rather sick actually... I used to be worried about being accused of things like that, but that's no longer on my radar screen.  It is what it is.  I think that if we were to sit down with a face to face, we might come to an understanding.  I have a hard time seeing a God who saves ONLY Christians and ignores the rest of the world.===JACK:  TV preachers are in the entertainment business (to bring in cash).  Standing in the pulpit, our task is fmuti-faceted......to educate, to comfort, to motivate, to entertain, to make religion more understandable, to bet like a friend, etc. (and don't too much about money), and don't talk too long.

FROM COPPER COUNTRY BOB:  WheneverI see a hawk circling over our trees, It will remind me of you.===JACK:  I actually name the team, the Blackhawks, but they were commonly known as the Hawks.  Indian Chief Blackhawk was well-known and respected around the Tri-Cities.

FROM LS IN WB:  Wow naming a team !  What a legacy. Love you shared. I only know you in a one dimensional way would love to have the whole story of your lived experiences===JACK:  Each of us has a hidden story.  That's what makes interesting to get better acquainted with each other.

FROM EMT SINGS IN TC:  I would be interested in how you named the Atlantic Hawks basketball team!  I didn't know you as well as I thought! Just goes to show you!===JACK:  Read the blog and get the whole story.

FROM THE SCIENTIST:===JACK:  The furnace is afraid of losing its job if people get serious about climate change.  

FROM CR:  What is the story of you naming the Atlanta Hawks?  Very cool. ===JACk:  What is the story of you naming the Atlanta Hawks?  Very cool.

 

 

 

Jack’s Winning Words  11/9/22 “The two biggest polluters are China and the United States.  We must co-operate or perish.”  (U.N. Head)  How time flies!  Rachel Carson’s bestseller, “Silent Spring” came out in 1962 and warned us of the danger of certain pesticides.  In 1970, over 50 years ago, Gov. Gaylord Nelson of Wisconsin got the Dems and GOPs to agree on declaring Earth Day when we would annually push to protect the environment of our planet.  In 2000 Al Gore ran for President on a platform that including steps to prevent “Climate Change.”  And, now where are we?  It discourages me.  I feel like Sisyphos!   It’s time now for the UN to give it a try – “Co-operate or Perish!”  The Greatest Generation couldn’t do it.  Perhaps yours can.  What do you think?  ;-)  Jack  FROM ST PAUL:  Jack, it is worth noting that when the African continent (more or less)  banned DDT in the 70s and 80s,   the mosquito population exploded and Malaria came roaring back in some countries.   hopefully we can find a non-toxic chemical that kills mosquitoes without harming the environment===JACK:  At least something is being done to address a planet-wide problem...and now that the UN is involved means that it's a step forward.  Still, more needs to be done.===SP:  I agree! China and the U S are huge polluters and the poorest nations of the world suffer with the effects of climate change.  i.e. floods,  drought, etc. ===JACK:  No wonder Jesus said that the poor will always be with us. FROM CPA MIKE:  I'm a climate change denier but I could be wrong. What do you think we should be doing right now that we aren't?===JACK:  Usually climate change deniers are science deniers.  I don't see you as a science denier, so I must assume that it's a political issue for you.  "Silent Spring", IMO, was not written for political reasons.  It simply showed the results of pesticides on the bird population...and the book made a difference.  For me, it brought to my attention the harm that we were doing to the planet.  Things affecting climate are only one of them. ===M:   I think you're right on this. My thoughts go to poor Al Gore who is trying to guide me on this while he flies all over on his jet to his multiple residences. Makes me laugh and I certainly will not be influenced by a screaming teen who knows nothing about the science. Give me a panel free from political influence and I can assure you that I would be in sync with you.===JACK:  I haven't been keeping track of Gore, except that he is one know for calling attention to Climate Change.  Greta may or may not be a "no nothing" buts she certainly a spokesperson for her generation...and the planet will be their's in the future longer than it is ours.  She's entitled to her opinion just as much as you are and I am. FROM SMILIN' TERI:  🌻”When someone shows you who they are, believe them:  the first time!”  (Maya Angelou)  TRUE ===JACK:  I can't remember who the teacher was, but one of mine would say: Think, Think, Think, when I couldn't come up with the answer....and...it worked! FROM JU IN NC:  Lynn and I have created a lifestyle that enables us to avoid fast food lines, enjoy a home with moderate room temperatures, chunking shopping to include unnecessary trips to the store and appreciating the beauty within our local environment. Our electronic gadgets are not the latest technology but provide what we need.  In other words SLOW DOWN. So will the wear and tear of our planet as well.===JACK:  Whatever works!  But, sometimes it's a balancing act.  Most people gradually move toward making major changes in their life.  In order to accomplish one thing you might have to give up on another.  Choice of one over the other is not to be done lightly. FROM TRIHARDER:  Per capita, it isn't even close. US pollutes more. Sad.===JACK:  I've never had to try and give up something, such as smoking or drinking, so I can't comment on the difficulty of cutting back.  My son and his wife are firm composters.  I know that it's a good idea, but the desire to start is not on my horizon. FROM DS IN SOCAL:  I think God is in control as he always has been.===JACK:  There's a danger, too, in blaming God for the bad things that happen.  God's plan id ultimately for the good.  i've discovered that sometimes that the bad can turn into good.  Perspective works in art.  It also works in life. FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  actually, we aren't===JACK:  You're entitled to express your opinion, but it seems as though the world is coming to a different conclusion.  There will always be deniers.===LIZ:  again, you did not do your homework, but name call me a "denier." are you lazy intellectually?===JACK:  I did not call you a denier.  I resent being called, lazy.  As for not doing homework, that might be true, but I do what I think is necessary. FROM SR RD:  If we could overcome some of our over-consumption and our over- polluting of lakes, oceans, etc.  IF. . . .===JACK:  How does monastic living participate in helping to stop climate change? FROM WILLMAR REV:  Certainly have seventy-five years of experience dealing with it?!?! 0;-)===JACK:  I was just a spring chicken when I was your age.  I have learned soooo much more since then.            .

 Jack’s Winning Words 11/8/22

 “I’m going to have to supercharge my optimism to arm myself for the battle ahead.”  (Rebecca Bloom  This seems to be a perfect quote for Election Day.  It’ll be a battle, whichever side you’re on,  And if the recent past is any measure, the loser might declare himself the winner, regardless of the vote count.  Do you remember the old song, “It’s a Strange World We Live In, Master Jack”? The song lyric says what I believe: Ours is a puzzling world!.  Why don’t we use our brain and THINK?  It is sooo obvious!  The curtain has been pulled back.  The Wizard is in plain sight.  Perhaps you noticed that I didn’t mention a particular cause or poliiical party?  When casting a ballot, be sure to us your brain!  ;-) Jack 

FROM JAY BEE:  I am beginning to think that there is a parallel universe!  ===JACK:  If not that, something else seems to be going on in our country.  I've seen better days.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  glad you agree abt the wizard! ===JACK: There's more to the movie than just a children's story.  Some see it as a story of the Jews getting their own land, Israel...somewhere over the rainbow.===LIZ:  never heard that one before...===JACK:  Neither had I, but the source seemed reliable at the time.

FROM CZB IN NH:  And your heart ❤️===JACK:  Thanks for that IMPORTANT reminder.

FROM LS IN WB:  God Bless America and God Bless You Thank you ! ===JACK:  ...and God bless the world, because He is God of all...the poor, the hungry, the homeless...and, yes, the USA, because we are a crossroads.

FROM JU IN NC:  Sounds like if you were running, I would vote for you! ===JACK:  I think that we need a new party...THE INTEGRITY PARTY.  Liz Cheney would head the ticket...and I'd be there to support her.  We're at a point now when we're left to vote for politicians, rather than issues.

FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH:  Why politics have also been a huge disappointment in my lifetime.  Putin strategy is clear as to how he seeks to “divide the West” into neoclassical liberals like the US and traditional Christian, like most of Europe.===JACK:  My view has evolved into the Liz Cheney view: Maintain your integrity, regardless...   I refuse to vote for anyone who makes deals with North Korea and Russia, for personal gratification. 

FROM ST PAUL:  always good advice,  Jack.  ===JACK:  Right now, I'm talking to the mirror.

FROM BLAZING OAKS:  INDEED!

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:  Your ww sounds like good election advice

 

Jack’s Winning Words 11/7/22

“Practice any art, music, singing, dancing acting, drawing painting, sculpting, poetry, fiction, essays, reporting, no matter how well or how badly, not to get money and fame, but to experience becoming, to find out what’s inside you, to make your soul grow.”  (Kurt Vonnegut)  In 2006 members of a high school English class  were assigned to write to a famous to see who might respond.  Vonnegut, at age 84, was the only one to do so.He encouraged the students to “grow their soul.”  Contrast that with another high school clas that organized a public burning of all Vonnegut books.  I know what teacher I’d like to have.  How about you?  Was there a teacher  who made your soul grow?  ;-)  Jack

FROM CR:  Love this. Thank you. ===JACK:  Is their any art that you enjoy more than others?  For me, I enjoy seeking after the meaning (source) of words.

FROM GUSTIE:  I had so many teachers—High School especially—that made my soul grow.  They pushed me in ways I did not know I could go.  And I thank God for them.===JACK:  How about college?  How about your singers?  I found that I learned from a few special people, profs and some non-academics. ===G:   Not so much.  I was a little fish in a big ocean.===JACK:  Big pond?  Think of being at the U.  I still think that there's a place for a small church college.  It sounds as though yours wasn't the greatest of experiences.  Did you meet Clem at GA?

FROM SR RD:  Several, dear Jack: S. Margretta, Liliosa, Linnea and Mary Minette; Fr Francisco; Mr Vincent Smiles. . .among others===JACK:  You're one of mine.

FROM BLAZING OAKS:  My supervising teacher when I, married and a mother of four, did my practice teaching! Lucille is her first name, or Lucy as she was usually called, and she was kind, but diligent. I still see her on the golf course: She's probably as old even older(?) Than me! She was a Jewel!! :-)===JACK:  Isn't it great to remember....and to give thanks?

FROM THE FISH IN NOVA SCOTIA:  Did you happen to see the Rodney Dangerfield movie Back to School? In it he becomes a very senior student at a college and tries to cheat his way through, eventually being redeemed through his love for a professor there. There are a number of scenes I enjoyed, including one where he didn't want to wait through the long lines at the first signup session for classes, and had his uniformed chauffeur/bodyguard walk through the hall playing pied piper, holding up a sign that said "Bruce Springsteen". The lines evaporated as all the students left to follow him. Later, he took a literature course and hired Kurt V himself to ghost-write his paper. He got it back with something like "The writer obviously has no clue about the writings of Kurt Vonnegut." .  Rodney turned to his chauffeur and said, "stop that check!"===JACK:  Thanks for reminding me of a funny, funny movie and favorite comdeian of mine.  How about those eyes?

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/4/22  

I’ve learned that money doesn’t buy class.”  (Andy Rooney - died 11/4/11) Most of my favorites are no longer on the air…Harry Reasoner, Morley Safer, Johnny Carson, Groucho Marx, and Andy Rooney.  IMO, Andy was the best, especially when he closed 60 Minutes each week with his wry humor.  Andy and I have never admired people who thought that money made them important.  “Money doesn’t buy class!”  Here are a couple of others that make me miss Andy even more: “Elephants and grandchildren never forget.”, and  “A writer’s job is to tell the truth.”  People define “class” in different ways.  Wealth? Integrity? Manners? Can you name some people with class? ;-)  Jack  

FROM RS IN TEXAS:   People with class  -  Jimmy Carter, Walter Cronkite, MLK, John Lewis..  .. Another line I like....."Being a gentleman doesn't make you better than someone else. Being a better person helps make you a gentleman."===JACK:  Who else, but Jimmy Carter, is a respectable (classy) person today?  Why should we have to search ouir brain for a name?O come up with Liz Cheney.

FROM JU IN NC:  Liz Cheney,Colin Powell ===JACK:  You're reading my mind.

FROM SHARIN' SHARON:  Good morning, Pastor Freed, I always appreciated Mr. Rogers and also the advice column by Ann Landers.  Some common sense and consideration for others and not just busy with making an impression on others, not just star power.  I like your list and miss Andy Rooney too and also Harry Reasoner, a real gentleman.===JACK:  You're classy, Sharon.

FROM BB IN CHGO:  Have you ever watched Trevor Noah on comedy central?  I love his South African take on our culture and politics.  He’s resigning (after 7 years?) on December 8^th but worth a listen if time allows.===JACK:  Late shows are too late for me anymore.  I watch Colbert re-runs on You Tube a day late.

FROM CPA MIKE:   I have not seen any incidence where skin color influenced immigration. ===JACK:  Maybe it's in the perception, but I see most of those at the border being of a brown skin.  Poorer economic situation seems to be prevalent, too.  

FROM G 7:  Condoleezza Rice!!===JACK:  Whatever happened to her?  Oh, that 's right.  That classy woman went back to teaching at the university.  Sometimes we make choices that best for us and for society.

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:  I thought Ronald Reagan had a lot of class. ===JACK:  Some people thought that being a movies star tarnished the class.  But he did not seem to be an equivicator.===DAZ:  He was a good old school politician which is out of style. Also, l think he was too honest.===JACK:  He had experience directing the Screen Actors Guild. 

FROM EEFC:  Dad, YOU’re classy <3

===JACK:  That's nice for you to say.  Thanks

FROM HUNGRRY HOWIE:  You Jack, you have class. ===JACK:  If I have any, it must come hangong around with people like you...and rubbing off.

FROM VW MARY:  One person with class: John Freed…===JACK:  I remember the first time I met you in the St Stephen's parking lot.  I said to myself, "Now there's a lady with class.

FROM BS IN ENGLAND:  You Pastor Freed!===JACK:  Can anyone be classier than a lady from England with a lovely British accent...who is smart, too?

FROM SR RD:  JESUS, Joshua, Jack Freed, Joan Thralow and their names all begin with the same letter!?===JACK:  I must opt out.  I don't belong in a grouping that included Jesus.  However, when it come to "the the religious", you're right up there with Mother Teresa.  Now, that's classy.  I can almost see the halo that shines over your head.

  Jack’s Winning Words  11/3/22

“True democracy makes no enquiry about the color of the skin or the place of nativity.”  (Salmon Chase)  How did a quote mentioning nativity creep into Winning Words at this time?  Christmas seems to be “advertised” earlier and earlier these days.  Joseph, Mary and their baby would have a hard time immigrating into America these days, with politics often creating barriers. There were no barriers in Bethlehem at that time, and if today’s churches do it right they have no barriers either.  Salmon Chase was well respected as Chief Justice of the Supreme Court right after the Civil War.  He saw that “skin color” should not be a negative when it comes to democracy or to religion.  Welcome, Holy Family!     ;-)  Jack 

FROM CPA MIK::  ""I may not agree with what you say but will defend to my death your right to say it." Should be in the hallways of educational institutions. Nobody has the right to silence anyone else.   I did not agree with the results of the 2020 election and will defend to the death my right to question it.====JACK:  If we don't have elections, what do we have?  Dictatorship..  If we claim that elections are invalid?  What replaces them? ===M:  All that I can ask for is an honest election. If I witness or sense malfeasance I should not be labeled as an "Election Denier"===JACK:  I rely on my local election officials to run a fair election I trust them; so I trust the election.  I don't have enough in formation to make a judgment beyond my local situation.

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:  .Chase was also Lincoln's Sec of Treasury and Is given credit for financing the Union during the Civil War . He also started the first income tax during the war. ===JACK:  We know too little about some influential "shadow" people.  ....and it's said by some that we spend to much time teaching history.  Bunk!  Do you know who said, "bunk?".===DAZ:  The Navy Chief in boot camp when he was referring to my bed.===JACK:  Was Harry Truman your chief?

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:    *hardly anyone===JACK:  It appears as though America is becoming more brown in color, or is it just my failing eyesight? ===LIZ:  16% hispanic  15% white===JACK:  I thought that you didn't believe in statistics as being reliable.

 

 Jack’s Winning Words 10/31/22

“We make up horrors to cope with the real ones.”  (Stephen King)  I never finished watching “Silence of the Lambs.”  Too scary for me.  The Exorcist is supposed to be the scariest of all movies, although the Shining is on the list, too.  Stephen King’s scariest novel is said to be, Pet Cemetery…a story of the dead coming back to life.  I like films where humor is mixed with horror…like Young Frankenstein.  I’ve noticed that Halloween has evolved more into a night of fun.  Even the scary costumes tend to make you laugh…they’re so weird.  Is there one that scares you as well as makes you laugh  ? ;-)  Jack

FROM FUNNY ALAN:  ALL THE LEADS IN THE MOVIE ARE DECEASED.  ONE OF THE TOP FIVE===JACK:  ...starting woth Mel Brooks.

FROM SR RD:  Jack, the first thing that comes to mind is  technology which I  

 find wildly scary and never makes me laugh!😝🤑===JACK:  I remember the dropping of the first atomic bomb and see the destruction if caused.  The world has not been the same since.  So many possibilities for good, but used for evil  The dropping of the bomb prevented more death and destruction.  Talk about scary!!!!

FROM BB IN CHGO:  I should upload a few I took on Saturday night.  There was a great “Jesus” costumed in white with a red sash, like the Jesus “action figure” you can buy for your dashboard.He was a robust black man with a nice, trimmed beard and a great long curly wig.  Many people wanted their photo taken with him.  He was very reverent and kind.  Made me smile.  An hour later another costumed Jesus walked into the bar, this time the light-skinned, blonde haired and bearded Jesus of my childhood books.  They saw each other at a distance (after the new guy passed the security/bouncer) and they gave one another a big friendly hug.  It was the funniest and sweetest thing we saw all night.===JACK:      What a great live sermon.  Yes, you should have downloaded it.  Opportunities pass, not to come again.

FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA:  Young Frankenstein is the best and I could not watch "Silence of the Lambs" at all  Happy Halloween!  We saw a pumpkin carver last weekend. My kind of scary===JACK:  I like funny rather than scary.

FROM ST PAUL:  i think we have almost ruined Halloween for the smaller kids.   i have seen some yard displays that are just horribly graphic and bloody.   dumb!! ===JACK:  Trtck or Treat was spoiled by a few for the many by putting razor blades or other bad stuff into the candy===Ghoulish yard displays are nothing compared to passing out contaminated food.

FROM WILLMAR REV:  The ones the politicians wear on the House and Senate floors calling out their causes, and even presidential rhetoric nowadays chastising their opponents . . . so much for the old saying, "Praise in public, wrestle, debate, and come to grips together with the issues in private?!?! Someone once said, ". . . if a house [family] be divided against itself, that house [family] cannot stand."  0;-)  ===JACK:  You've reminded me....Politics is alot like Halloween.... SCARY!!!!!!!!!!!!

FROM DANI D T:  The exorcist is very scariest. But for me Ken Burns Vietnam was even more frightening.====JACK:  Yes, reality, at times,  can be more frightening  that the manufactured kind.

 

 ===JACK:   FUNNIST MOVIES.  WE'LL DISCUUSS IF WE HAVE AGREEMENT ON THE OTHER FOUR.

 Jack’s Winning Words 11/1/22  

“Most people are good.  They may not be saints, but they are good.”  (Jimmy Wates)  On this All Saints Day, how do you feel about this?  Are most people good?  I suppose it depends on our definition of good.  The Grade School I attended had a report card where E meant Excellent.  VG stood for Very Good, while G represented Good.  Among other things, I learned that P on the card stood for Poor.  Along with that I learned a new word - Deportment. On this All Saints Day, let’s take the time to look for the good in people. Is there anyone in your life you didn’t care for at first…but eventually found the good in them? ;-)  Jack

FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH:  My cousin Fred Rudy and tennis player Andre Agassi.===JACK:  I want to hear the rest of the story.

FROM GOOD DEBT JON:  Likeability, increases with most everyone I meet, once you know their story. Sometimes you meet someone so vivacious and beautiful that you assign a halo status. You have to hope these work out or the cognitive dissonance of giving up that image is difficult.  Of course some people diminish in esteem with age or as soon as they speak.===JACK:  Jesus said to "be wise as serpents and harmless as doves."  In my work I've met many people for the first time and, because of that, I've had to make judgments.  Oftentimes. these were good meetings, because we looked for the good in each other.===JON:   Two looking for good rarely fail.===JACK:  And the reverse is true, also.  I'd rather look for the good in people....such as you. 

 

 

 

Jack’s Winning Words  11/2/22 You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change.”  (Zig Ziglar)   Zig and I were contemporaries, and I “met” him through some of the many books he wrote on the secrets of selling. A friend and I would discuss some of his popular sayings.  He was widely sought as a speaker at business seminars.  A woman came to him once saying that she couldn’t ’get along with people. He advised her to look for the good things in her life situations and for the good things in life.  Several years later, they happened to meet again, and he asked how things were going.  She replied “You can’t believe how much things have changed for the better.”  I've found that when I make the choice  to change, things around me change.  ;-)  Jack FROM DANDI SANDI:  Years ago, I read a book called ‘Women Who Run with the Wolves’. A quote in the end was life-changing:  “Go out into the woods. If you never go out into the woods, nothing will ever happen, and your life will never begin.”  Twenty-five years ago, I decided that we should ‘go out into the woods’ and buy the house on the lake. A new chapter of life began and continues to this day!   I think of this quote often when I consider taking a scary ‘leap’ in my life! Helps me be brave! 🥰===JACK:  ...and that has not been the only "change-risk" in your life.  As far as I've been able to see, life has been good for you.  Part of it is due to how you have dealt with change.  Another HUGE part of it is due to the Grace of G-d. FROM ST PAUL:  i recall hearing a portion of one of his talks on a cassette tape years ago.   he did have a lot of good things to say and was actually quite inspiring. ===JACK:  I know of an ELCA pastor who left the ministry to become a motivation speaker and made BIG bucks.  You were able to do that without leaving the ministry.  CONGRATULATIONS FROM SR RD:  Right on, Jack!  that's my experience, too!!===JACK:  Symbiotic!  www.jackswinningwords.blogspot.com to see my blog FROM ER IN SJ:  One of Kevin's mentors is Zig Ziggler! How funny that you should mention and be familiar with him, too. ===JACK:  No wonder he's successful.....reading ZZ stuff and puttomg ot onto action....

 Jack’s Winning Words 10/28/22

“RULES OF LIFE: Let it be – Ignore them – Give it time – Don’t complain – Stay calm – Smile”  (Meriam Bellina)  I sometimes find surprises when I search for information about WWs.  For example, Who is Meriam Bellina?  She was born in West Java and dropped out of high school to become a model and singer.  Look at today’s Rules of Life!  Can you imagine them as being written by a “Sex Bomb,” But they were – and one of her most famous songs is: One Day at a Time Sweet Jesus.”  I’ll add another rule: Don’t be so quick to judge.”  OOPS!  Meriam already has listed that:  “Give it time.”  How about you?  Do you have any rules to add-- rules that have made your life better?  ;-)  Jack

FROM JOE ANN:  Just relax! Listen first-talk second. Sing everyday!Laugh everyday! =-==JACK:  Those are good rules, too.  Meriam would like...Sing every day.  I always try to begin the day with a song.  One that I especially like is: Roll out of bed in the mornin' with a great bog smile and a good, good mormin'......

FROM MAGGIE:  A rule I’ve learned is be willing to apologize…===JACK:  Do you ever apologize when you know that you are right and "they" are wrong?

FROM SHARIN'  SHARON:  A psychiatrist advised me 25 years ago—try to stay around positive people and get some exercise every day, it will help you sleep better.  Enjoyed Meriam’s advice too.===JACK:  Do you remember the character from L'le Abner, Joe Btfsplk, the guy with a black cloud over his head?  Stay away from people like that.

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:   Don't Complain is interesting advice. I keep getting a card on the Dining room table here that says +tell us about the dining experience which includes rating the food. Do they really want to know when the meat is tough  and the vegetables cold. Is that complaining or feedback. ===JACK:  Just for fun, try writing something about the the food.  "Were those potatoes Idaho Russets, or were they from Maine?  The meatloaf you served was just like mom used to make.  She'd get her hamburger especially ground at Wenzel's Butcher Shop. in Milwaukee.  Have you ever been to Milwaukee and seen  and bought meat at Wenzel's?  Milwaukee is famous for beer, but I don't think that they'd let you serve it here.  If they did, I give the meal a 5 star rating."  How do y0ou thing the people in the kitchen wouyld like what you wrote?  

 Jack’s Wnning Words  10/27/22

“Every positive thought that has passed between us makes room for more light.”  (John Lewis)  O, how I long for John Lewis or someone like him!  He served 17 terms in Congress representing Georgians.  As the saying goes: We are who we were.  Raised “dirt poor’,  John was fortunate to have a teacher who advised him to read, read, read.  He did!  He wanted to become a preacher and was inspired by Billy Graham.  He was inspired by MLK Jr, met him, walked with him, was there on Bloody Sunday.  Lewis  never became a preacher – but maybe he did.  We each have our opportunities to share positive thoughts with words and actions..  All preachers don’t necessarily wear robes.  ;-)  Jack

FROM SK IN SJ:  Being Positive gives us hope and courage to face the future day by day. We know the Lord will not let us down. So we March on in hopes of good things to happen. Love to you and Joan. Skfsj ( aka Sharon)===JACK:  Each day presents a battle to be positive among negativity and a battle to remain faithful to God amidst so many situations to entice us to lose our faith.  With God's help, we will win the battle.

FROM BLAZING OAKS:  That is true.  My son John is one of them! Son Fred is a preacher; They both have spheres of influence!! Both are asked to pray at public functions often and give invocations at meals.===JACK:  The world changes.  I find that during these pandemic days (and even before) that people have3 become less "religious" and more "spiritual."  That goes for my family, too.  ....and I'm not necessarily sad over that - just aware that God's world includes not only the church.  For me, the Church becomes is a gathering place, a school, a "holy" place and much more.  We each find God in our own way.

FROM DR J:  I love this post… and John Lewis. Both bring me hope and peace! ===JACK:  Sometimes we don't really appreciate someone until they're gone.

FROM SAN DEE BEE:   Have you read Jon Meacham’s book, “His Truth Is Marching On: John Lewis and the Power of Hope?” I was fortunate to meet  Congressman Lewis at a campaign rally for a candidate here in Michigan about four years ago and was inspired by his speech about how he rose from deep poverty to become a powerful public servant dedicated to causing “good trouble” to reform our society.===JACK:  No, I have not read the book nor met Johmn Leis in person.  You're two up on me.

 

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  10/26/22

(Linus writing to The Great PumpkinL  “Everyone tells me you are a fake, but I believe in you.  P.S. If you are a fake, don’t tell me.  I don’t want to know.”  Cartoonist Charles Schulz never hid the fact that he was a church member and it often showed that in some of his strips (like today’s).  Just because someone is a church member doesn’t mean that they sometimes have their doubts.  I remember the time when a father brought his son to Jesus for healing.  Jesus asked him if he believed, and he responded, “I believe.  Help my unbelief.”  As Linus says, while writing to the Great Pumpkin, “I believe.  Help my unbelief.”  Do you ever feel that way sometimes?  You’re not alone.  ;-)  Jack

FROM WILLMAR REV:  think the words of Linus can be helpful but should i feel guilty eating a ===JACK:   piece of Pumpkin Pie??  ===JACK:  ALL have sinned and fallen short....so join the crows and enjoy your pie.

FROM DR J:  I do have that feeling sometimes… I’m glad to know I’m not alone! ===JACK:  What costume are you wearing this year?  Margery Taylor Greene?

FROM  CPA MIKE:  Hispanic congresswoman from Texas "we believe in  God more than government"===JACK:  "Render to Caesar that which is Caesar's and to God that which is God's.  The Texas Congressman got it right.

FROM DAZ IN COLORADO:  A lot of philosophy there. So True. ===JACK:  Could it be that there is as much philosophy and theology in Halloween as there is in Christmas and Easter?  Please don't notify the "Religious Police" about what I wrote. 

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  10/25/22

“Without music life would be a mistake.”  (Friedrich Nietzsche)   Nietzsche, like most of us, was a self-taught musician.  He did have the advantage of being friends with Richard Wagner. God was having a good day when He invented music.  I love the soft sound of a harp when it plays a Christmas lullaby, or the rousing sound of trumpets at Eastertime.  Bach’s  Toccata and Fugue in D Minor being played on a pipe organ brings me into another world.  I like the Beatles, and I like Hank Williams.  My hearing has diminished, but not my love for the language if music.  How about you?  What kinds of music make your world a happy place?  ;-)  Jack

FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH:  : Chuck Berry’s Nadine.  John Fogarty’s Centerfield.  Anne Murray’s Tennessee Waltz.  John Denver’s Rocky Mountain High and almost any Bocelli song are a start===JACK:  We attended a Bocelli Concert in Detroit last Christmas.  OUTSTANDIND!  By contrast, I like Tina Turner, too..

FROM WILLMAR REV:  I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever,  I will sing, I will sing, I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever,  I will sing of the mercies of the Lord.   With my mouth will I make known   Thy faithfulness, Thy faithfulness,   With my mouth will I make known   Thy faithfulness to all generations,   I will sing of the mercies of the Lord forever,   I will sing of the mercies of the Lord.  (I Will Sing Of The Mercies Of The Lord, James H. Fillmore, Public Domain) 0;-) ===JACK: Do you sing songs other than religious ones?  Not that there's anything wrong with that, but there is just so many kinds of music and so little time.  I can imagine that one of your favorites is: HOW GRETA THOU ART.===REV:  I have become so embedded with church hymns, choruses, and southern gospel quartet over the years, they naturally pop up to memory when thinking of a corresponding song for what might be called for or for a moment or two wanting to be consoled by prayerful song or praise song for any reason. I also have a little bit country appreciation for the CMA popular songs, old and new. 0;-)===JACK:  How about Leonard Cohen's Hallelujah?  Is there room in your mind for a Jewish person to sing a song such as that?  My mother-in-law was music director at a large church.  On an Easter Sunday they had a Jewish guest soloist sing, "I Know that My Redeemer Lives.  She wondered to me about that.===REV:  I believe I would be open somewhat to those kinds of opportunities . . . I remember using many prayers out of an old, discarded prayer book at Temple Kol Ami. 0;-(===JACK:  My point, exactly.  Our faith is a combination of beliefs.  It may not be perfect, but it gives a snapshot of where we are in search to know the unknowable.  You are a better person for where you have been and what you have experienced.

 FROM KK:  The harmonies of barbershop===JACK:  I imagine that you not only like the singing, but the social interaction, too.  Are you part of a quartet or just a member of the larger group?

FROM ST PAUL:  i like this phrase:  he who sings prays twice.===JACK:  The sermon hymn one Sunday was, I LOVE TO TELL THE STORY, and the congregation sang it as they usually sing old favorites.  There was a stranger in church that Sunday.  At the door, after the service, he introduced himself and said that he was so glad that we had sung, I LOVE TO TELL THE STORY, because it was written by his great grandmother,, Katherine Hankey.  What are the chances of that?===SP:  Fred N. was also an atheist.  i wonder how he "processed" all this marvelous Christian music over his lifetime?   a curiosity question for sure:):===JACK:  Don't be so hard on Fred.  He was an atheist toward way that religion was being presented in his time.  Perhaps he (and not the religious experts in his day) the right was of interpreting God. ===SP:  indeed,  God loves atheists every bit as much as he loves you and me...===JACK:  Perhaps you missed my point.  Everyone who calls himself an atheist or is labeled one is not necessarily one.  Given the kind of interpretation of God that those people received, you and I might be atheists, too.  Atheist is a term given by others, not necessarily by God.===SP:  i can accept your premise.   surely the human race has come up with all kinds of understandings of God over the centuries and many are not helpful at all. ===JACK:  I've talked with people who claim to be atheists who, upon deeper conversation, are not ungodly.  They simply reject the way that the Church presents God. 

FROM SR RD:  I didn't review what I had sent to you earlier today when I sent the little song as a response to someone's having sent me an inspiring quote of John Lewis and a tree full of light!, so let me try again  🙃  You are all we have;  You give us all we need;  Our lives are in your hands, Oh Lord;  Our lives are in your hands.

FROM BLAZING OAKS:  I like 30's and 40's Big band music, and most classical pieces. Schehazade is a particular favorite, maybe because it tells a story. Not a rap or jazz fan.===JACK:  I like soft piano jazz combo.  BTW, whatever happened Rogers and Hart (style)...and people who can compose and play like George Gershwin?  Sooooo much good music in the past!

FROM GUSTIE: I agree with him.  I like all kinds of music but not the stuff they sing now that sounds like they are hoarse from the beginning—can’t understand the words or the tune.  ===JACK:  Not even Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen?

FROM SALON SUZY:  Amen to that! Just did the Grand old Opry tour🎶 ===JACK:  I'm an old, old Op'ry fan....even when it was held in the old Ryman Auditorium and Cousin Minnie Pearl was there.  When I was a teen I would listen to it every Saturday night on the radio.

FROM EMT SINGS IN TC:  You may recall that a harpist played at our wedding.  In fact we had a CD of hers.  I will have to find that.  So many  nice memories!===JACK:  You might look up Christa Grix.

FROM SNOWBIRD SUE:  I also love all types of music! Country, jazz, Pop, classic rock, new age, R&B, etc. (but maybe not opera).  Music makes me happy.  Sorry I didn’t get to say good bye. We left on the 20th and went to Nicole’s in Charlotte NC for 4 nights. So good to see our grandkids.  Hope you and Joan have a happy and healthy winter!===JACK:  I'd like to have a Hoe-Down Day sometime at the church....when we could play religious songs in the "country style."  Maybe it could be arranged when you fly north again.===FROM SBS:  That sounds like fun.===JACK:  It's not a sin to have fun in church.  Starts making a list of some sings.

 

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Jack’s Winning Words  10/24/22 “Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply.”  (Stephen Covey)  I was curious to learn what it was that made Stephen Covey such a successful writer, lecturer and businessman.  I wasn’t surprised to discover that he was influenced by Peter Drucker, but I hadn’t realized that Mormon Church values played such a role in his life..  Covey’s success also came, because he was such a good listener, being alert to pick up good ideas,  He was also good at developing worthwhile habits.  Take some advice from Stephen - as you listen to people -  instead of trying to formulate a reply, try to understand what’s being said.  ;-)  Jack FROM ER IN SJ:  Very wise words that cause one to stop and mull them over.===JACK:  Covey wrote a best-seller...I think that the titl was 7 Habits, or something like that.  Perhaps you've read it. FROM GUSTIE:  Clem listened like that.  I have to concentrate to do that.===JACK:  Most  successful people have listening skills like thst.  FROM TRIHARDER:  Ironically, I would like to consider that more carefully while listening to others.===JACK:  We should seek to be discimination both in hearing and speaking.  It's surprising how much I've learned by really listening. ===TH:  I've had to learn to distinguish between those looking for a response and those who weren't, most often friends. It's annoying when those listening to me want to inject their response when I'm merely looking for an ear. JACK:  I've found that true friends are not looking for an argument, bu nt are listening to understand.  At least, that's been my experience. FROM SR RD:  AMAZING WOD FOR TODAY.      You are all we need  You give us all we need  Our lives in in your hands, Oh Lord  Our lives are in your hands. ===JACK:  The hymn, Amazing Grace,  comes to mind. ===RD:  .A wonderful response, dear Jack!  Of course, it's a new day and God is with us! FROM BB IN CHGO:  So true and I had no id4ea he was Mormon. ===JACK:  You must have referred to Covey a time or two in your work...or in your work's preparation.  I've discovered that Mormons are often very moralistic people....in a different way than other church members.   .

 Jack’s Winning Words 10/21/22

“If I didn’t drink or smoke, I’d win twenty games every year.  It’s easy when you don’t drink or smoke or horse around.”  (Whitey Ford)  One of the first questions asked when the doctor gives a physical exam is: “Do you drink or smoke?” –now adding, “or use drugs?”  Evidence shows that “horsing around” also affects your health.  Whitey Ford was a great pitcher, but what might he have been?  Are there ways in which your performance in life might have been enhanced?  I could have eaten more balanced meals.  I could have spent more time with homework instead of “my type of horsing around.  I truly wish that I had paid better attention to what my professors had to say.  C’est la vie!  ;-)  Jack

FROM KK:  Thanks so much!===JACK:  The song, Wishing on a Star, says that "We can be better than we are>"

FROM CPA MIKE:   I often think about whether the past, present or future is of most importance in looking at one's life satisfaction.   There are always could'ves and should've but we knew back then how our actions might result and chose the moment. Looking back I never regret and looking forward I never worry.===JACK:  Looking back, I'm able to put mistakes and successes into perspective.  Looking ahead, I'm able to ac, having learned from the past.

FROM GOOD DEBT JON:  Is asking what could have been productive? It reminds me of the Proverb about a dog returning to its vomit. I suppose it is the lowest form of learning. When my doctor asks if I am on drugs, I respond only to the stuff you’ve hooked me up with.===JACK:  Looking at the vomit doesn't mean that I have to re-eat it.  The recovering alcoholic said that God had performed a miracle in his life.  He had turned beer into furniture..  For each of us: We may not be perfect, but by comparison, we can be better than we were.  I wonder if your doctor understands your sense of humor...unless he/she is a psychiatrist.===GDJ:  My M.D. is a very sarcastic young man.  He understands.  Eating the vomit is another level; my point is even looking at it (often) is unproductive.===JACK:  I'll bet you generate some in-house comment after your appt is  over and you've walked out the door.  You are one-of-a-kind!

 FROM JU IN NC:  I am enjoying more of what I don't do by seeking what I can do.  Focus on God and quote scriptures throughout the day. It is simply amazing what a difference that makes.===JACK:  Challenges are good, too -challenges that can be accomplished.  To strive for unreachable goals is frustrating.  It's like with exercising...You start with what you can do, gaining strength to do what you once were unable to do.  What Bible verse inspires you today?  How about: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"?

FROM R LEEN:MG:   Thank you for winning words they help me through each day as I go on without Joe.===JACK:  Those were good old days when I was your temporary pastor.  Time passes and that bring change with it.  But, the God who cared for you then, is the same God who cares for you now. 

FROM ST PAUL;:  i surely resonate with your comment about all your profs.  if i was back in college today,  i would be 3X the student i was back in the 1960s.===JACK:  More horsing around, or less?===SP:  the older we get,  less.....sometimes much less:):):)===JACK:  Now they seek out the old stallions for advice.  Luther Sem still calls on you once in a while, don't they?===JACK:  once in a great while.   usually when they need a donation $$$  ===JACK:  Is your book required reading?  I'm sure that they could get some good pastoral advice from it.===SP:  sorry to hear about your vision issues.   i have noticed that my vision has also changed as of late and not for the better.   its remarkable how well you do with WWs.  i will now appreciate them more than ever.   have a good weekend,  Jack.  our weather today is amazing.  in the mid 70s this afternoon with lots of sunshine. ===JACK:  Things could always be worse.  I've found that, with the right attitude, bad things can have a way of turning into good.  Of, course we have to "push ourselves" to see that.

FROM SR RD:  ?????  I can't quite imagine your NOT paying attention to your professors, dear Jack. .===JACK:  You should have known me in my "horsing around" days.  No...it's better that you didn't.  In The Souind of Music movie it appears that all of the sisters weren't "goody-two-shoes."  Is that correct?. ===RD:  You are absolutely correct, Jack.  Not then and not now!

FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH:  Amen to that.  But the horsing around was a lot of fun too.===JACK: Billy Martin and Ford were pals, so you can imagine what horsing around they did..  BTW, few people know that Whitey's first name is Edward.

FROM BLAZING OAKS:  Well I don't drink or smoke, and not much chance to -horse around, so what*s me excuse=.===JACK:  Maybe your halo gets in the way.  Did you think that, as a pastor's wife, you had to act differently?  Did you know that Whitey was only 5' 7"tall?..

FROM BB IN CHGO:  I am smiling.  We now have theories of knowledge or giftedness (outside of the church) i.e. you may have been gifted with superior intellectual skills or insight or “emotional intelligence”; people now see Michael Jordan or leBron James as having giftedness too – beyond their physical prowess, they’re able to “read plays” or quickly see and respond things on the court that others simply do not.  From my perspective, you have a gift of compassion and communication as well as insight.  I don’t know if more academic “work” would’ve enhanced your abilities or not.  These days we’re talking often about how much a. we don’t remember from school and b. how much we simply were not taught.  I learned almost nothing about the struggle for civil rights, the indignities suffered in the 20^th century by indigenous people, etc.  I’m linking (below) an article I enjoyed by Jamelle Bouie.  I should read the book he cites, Walter Stahr’s biography of Salmon Chase but doubt I’ll find/make the time.  I had no idea how many subgroups and theories there were about abolition and anti-slavery during the 19^th century or that women’s suffrage was in any way paired with or tied to these ideals (the “Garrison” group).  I truly don’t think I slept through these classes although I may have. mayhave?  ttps://www.nytimes.com/2022/10/15/opinion/slavery-politics-salmon-p-chase.html    ===JACK:  I happen to think that more time in the classroom would have spoiled me....or led me in another direction.