Jack’s Winning Words 12/21/22 (Guest authored by Jack’s son Dave Freed)

“Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again.” (William Shakespeare)  It’s the end of an era. After over 20 years of bringing a motivational message to friends and family, Jack’s Winning Words as we know it has come to its end. My father Jack died yesterday in his sleep with his daughters by his side. Five days a week, 50+ weeks per year, for over 20 years means Jack sent out over 5,000 Winning Words messages.  It was a labor of love, and I hope you found the messages valuable. ;-)  Jack 

Funeral arrangements are pending, but the expectation is to have a service sometime in January.

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/20/22 

“Every parting gives a foretaste of death, every reunion a hint of the resurrection.”  (Arthur Schopenhauer)  The largest family reunion was held in France with 4,514 attendees.  Who brought the potato salad?  Our family has a reunion every 5 years…printed T-shirts one year; a family cookbook another; a fridge-magnet, too.  For those who are believers in an afterlife, the sting of death can be eased by imagining the reunion to come.  Will we need name tags?   ;-)  Jack  
(Originally sent on 4/19/19)

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/19/22

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life.”  (Steve Jobs)  God, in his wisdom, gave us free-will, allowing us to make personal decisions, for better or worse.  He gives advice as to the best choices.  He might “nudge” us from time to time; and he’s also there to offer help when things don’t go well.  I wonder if this might be an example for us to follow when we are concerned about someone who is close to us?  “Let us love as he has loved.”    ;-)  Jack 

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/16/22

“Life is full of tough decisions, and nothing makes them easy.” (Martha Beck)  Each day requires that we make hundreds of decisions, and most of them are easy. What to have for breakfast, what radio station to listen to, and what to wear. But sometimes we have to make decisions that aren’t easy. I recently had to make some tough decisions, and in retrospect I’m confident I made the best choices…. so I’m happy with that. Has that ever happened with you?   ;-)  Jack 

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/15/22

“In all honesty, everyone is struggling.  Some are better at hiding it than others.”  (Will Smith)  Harry Golden’s essay, “The Show Must Go On,” tells of a man who was late for work one day and was reprimanded by his boss.  Later in the day, the man quietly said, “My daughter died last night.”  Everyone handles grief and disappointment in a personal way.  Everyone has their struggles.  Try to be understanding today!    ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/14/22

“Today I bent the truth to be kind, and I have no regret, for I am far surer of what is kind than I am of what is true.”  (Robert Brault)  I once knew a man who’d walk into a room and loudly say, “What is truth?” hoping to start a philosophical discussion.  He was a nice guy, but he did more talking than listening.  I think that it might have been more productive to walk into the room and ask, “What is kindness?”  Let me know what happens when you try it.    ;-)  Jack 

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/13/22

“When I am afraid, I put my trust in you.”  (Psalm 56:3)  Some people scream or gasp when they’re frightened.  Some cross themselves.  Others reach out to hug someone.  A child will grab the hand of a parent.  Joan Baez sang, “Put your hand in the hand of the man who calmed the sea.”  By that, she meant what the psalmist meant…“When I’m scared, I put my trust in the Lord.”  During life’s scary times, God’s hand is reaching out for yours.  Take it!    ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/12/22

“Never think that God’s delays are God’s denials.  Hold on; hold fast; hold out.”  (Comte de Buffon)  I saw a cartoon of a man praying, “God, don’t put me on hold again.”  The Lord doesn’t wear a wristwatch, so answered prayer isn’t governed by time.  God responds as would a loving parent.  Sometimes, “Yes,” and sometimes, “No.”  And, “Let’s wait awhile.”  I appreciate the Lord’s Prayer ...."Thy will be done.”    ;-)  Jack  

 Jack’s Winning Words 12/9/22

“When they discover the center of the universe, a lot of people will be disappointed to discover that they are not in it.” (Bernard Bailey)  When I was growing up, the expression, “He’s full of himself,” was used to identify egotists.  Other ways that were used to describe  the braggart were “gasbag” or “blowhard”.  There are other descriptions not fit to repeat. Steering away from politics…Jesus advised humility.  “The humble will be exalted.”  Pride is one of the 7 deadly sins.  Smugness could be number 8.   ;-)  Jack 

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/8/22

“God gave us memory so that we might have roses in December.”  James M Barrie
I’ve used this quote before, but as I look outside the window at the snow on the ground it seems appropriate to bring it back again.  Memory bring us to the past, and can remind us of good times….and bad.  I prefer to focus on the good times.  Even though the roses outside are dormant now, that doesn’t stop me from remembering them in full bloom.  Can you recall events and people that have made life enjoyable for you?  Why not make a list, numbering it 1 through 12?  In that way, we can give ourselves a dozen roses, and the perfect gift for a cold December day. ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/7/22

“December 7, 1941 – a date which will live in infamy.”  (FDR)  I would challenge you to write a definition of infamy without googling it.  Try 1/6/2020, 9/11/2001, 11/22/1963 and 12/7/1941.  How many can you match with the infamous acts that took place on those dates?  Pres Franklin Roosevelt has been well-known and respected for his use of the English Language.  Infamy is a perfect example.  It fits with Pearl Harbor Day, the Insurrection and those other events, too.  We could even examine our personal lives and finds days of infamy…accidents, tragedies, deaths.  I like the words of MLK Jr: “We shall overcome.”  ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/6/22

“I can’t get my hand on it, but we’re just not quite where we should be, as the greatest democracy in the world.  And I don’t know how you correct it, but I keep hoping that there will be a change in my lifetime.”  (Bob Dole)  On every election cycle I have my favorite candidate…and Dole was not mine during his time.  But, over time I have come to admire him as a man and as a wounded veteran.  There never seems to be enough time and enough opportunity to see the whole picture.  It’s no “sin” to make wrong decisions.  We do it all of the time.  That’s why God has given us such a thing as Grace (forgiveness not deserved). I presently have the feeling that democracy has been preserved in my lifetime.  WHEW…!!!  ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/5/22

“It’s the most wonderful time of the year.”  (Edward Pola and George Wyle)  Andy Williams recorded the song in 1963, focusing on family and togetherness.  Springtime is the most wonderful time of the year for me, with the yellow daffodils peeking through the ground, the birds singing early in the morning, and the warm, spring breeze.  Winter is over and a new season begins.  We each have our favorites.  What are yours?  Seasonal change is somewhat like the changes of life.  What fun when I was able to participate in sports.  It was even more enjoyable when we were able to raise a family and to be a pastor.  And who would have guessed that I’d be remarried in my 90s?  Life?  It’s been wonderful!  ;-)  Jack

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/2/22

“You give without remembering; you receive without forgetting.”  (Chad Hymus)  Within a split second a ranch accident changed Chad Hymas from a man with dreams into a quadrapalegic.  People stepped in to assist Chad with running the ranch so he could do so without the ability to use his arms and legs.  His own attitude made a big difference, too.  I WIIL DO THIS! …and he’s done it.  Not only that, but he’s gone out and given motivational talks on how to overcome problems.  He has not forgotten the help he received along the way.  When you get to feeling sorry for yourself, remember Chad!  ;-)  Jack         

 Jack’s Winning Words  12/1/22

“Children need to be taught how to think, not what to think.” (Margaret Mead)  There is often concern about what children are being taught in school….whether it’s CRT (Critical Race Theory), sex, or literature. But if school teachers are not to do it, where is the teaching done?  On the playground?  In a segregated society?  There’s always a risk when you send your child off to school.  The way some parents try to override what their child is taught denies Margaret Mead’s point….that school should be a place where students learn to think and to discriminate.  I respected my parents, but in school I learned to think for myself.  Thank God for my Chemistry teacher, Mr Ekblad.  Did you have such a teacher?  ;-)  Jack.

FROM SMILIN' TEEI:  As an educator and parent, I AGREE. Have a workshop coming up and going to use this quote. Thanks,===JACK:  I always like it when you use my stuff.  I respect you!  

FROM DANDI SANDI:  Thanks to those teachers who taught me how to think. Their lessons have stayed with me. They have unknowingly mentored me. I am forever grateful to them. ===JACK:  I don't know if I ever had any mentors (teacher's pet), but I did 'unknown mentors" and I'm the better because of them.

FROM RVB:  Yes, my science and drafting teacher’s  Ms. Toromino and Mr. Splitgerber. The first was in elementary and second in HS.===JACK:  Some of my best mentors were not school teachers, but people I me at work and at church. Basically they shaped my entire life values and how I think even today. RVB:  My greatest work and church mentors were:===RVB:  Mr. Ninke (great evangelist), Joe Anderson (successful entrepreneur), Rod O’Neal (great leader), and Ted Daniels (best minister). How, in recent years NONE OF THESE COMPARE TO…====JACFK:  The keyboard is blushing. and keeps reminding me to DELETE.

 JACK FREED - AN AWESOME FRIEND AND COMBINATION OF ALL OF THE ABOVE.

FROM WILLMAR REV:I do . . . I follow His Word daily and have for a lifetime . . . He has added many mentors to my life along the way?1?! 0;-) ===JACK:  IIf God is "real', then He can be a mentor, yoo. ===REV:  Very true point . . . the very existence of Christ proves the truth, way, and life! 0;-)

 FROM JU IN NC:  My mother was my favorite teacher.  She helped guide me how to think by first teaching me what to think.  She taught through words and actions, biblical principles, that provided a safe and healthy boundary of (what), for my (how).===JACK:  Your sister said basically the same thing.  There were some  advantages connected with growing up on a ranch 

FROM GORAN IN SWEDEN:  Your chemistry teacher's name sounds distinctly Swedish. Do you have any idea from where in Sweden he or his family might have come? No big deal but I got curious.  You previously asked me if we had Thanksgiving in Sweden. Now I will ask you if you have Advent in the States? The four Sundays leading up to Christmas we celebrate Advent with gingerbread cookies and mulled wine. Advent means arrival. December 13 we celebrate the saint Lucia, an Italian saint and martyr who died for her faith.===JACK:  Yes, Karl Ekblad had a Sedish backgroup.  His nephew is one of my friends, and I will try to send you more information. 

FROM GF IN FL:  Yes, you!  ===JACK:  I'm humbled.

FROM CPA MIKE:    All of my teachers were great. None of them made me feel guilty for my "whiteness" or tried to convince me to be a girl.   My parents taught me respect for others and pride in myself. Who could ask for anything more?===JACK:  Most of my successwful teachers didn't know much they WERE teaching me.  I would havd "Thank You" more often if I had known.

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/30/22

“Sometimes my feelings creep out of my eyes and roll down my cheeks.”  (Sent by Jackie Beach)  Is it a sign of aging that brings tears when you remember?  An old song can do it, or a picture from the past.  For me, an emotional memory will do it….especially when the memory applies to a truly sad situation.  I like to be in control, but there seems to be a trigger in my mind that ignores the control that I think I have.  A few Sundays ago I was going to tell about the church’s handbells and how they were given in memory of a young church member…and I just couldn’t do it.  My feelings began to creep down my cheeks.  Has that ever happened to you?  ;-)  Jack

FROM WILLMAR REV:  "Dry eyes and fond memories-- constantly wiping my eyes, with my nose running!!" 0;-))===JACK:  And here I thought that it was just me. 

FROM MAGGIE:  > Today is the 2nd anniversary of Mike’s death. My feelings still creep down my cheeks. I miss him so much… Peace to you in your memories.  > Love in Christ our Lord, > Love in Christ our Lord,===JACK:   Of course I don't miss him as you do, as a brother, but I miss him as a church member and as a friend.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  😢===JACK:  You DO have feelings and tears!===LIZ:   why on earth would you think i don't?!?===JACK:  I have my reasons.  Do you like the self you show to others? A YES or NO answer will be enough....or maybe ot. ===LIZ:  i have been insulted for the last time. a shame, truly===JACK:  I certainly did not see it as an insult (just friend to friend talk).  Sorry if I made it seem like an insult.===LIZ: it happens all the time, and i don't understand why. friends don't act like that... enjoy the holiday season===JACK:  My face to face friends and I have no tr4ouble understanding each other.  Computer communication often has the problem of misunderstanding.  I like you anyway.

 FROM ST PAUL:  i do think we become  more emotional as we age.   we may well feel things more deeply than in our youth.  it's also a part of being human,  growing older,  and we should not be ashamed of it.    was this at Holy Spirit LC in MI?  ===JACK:  I would like to think that with agong comes understanding rather that emotional ism.===SP:   His mother put on a Birthday Party for him, and my son and I were the oly ones who showed up.===JACK:  I'm simply referring to my own experience.

FROM MATT V:  It happened when I tried to speak at my mother’s funeral. ===JJACK:  It happened a couple of weeks ago when I began to talk about a young man who committed suicide.===MV: That would be a difficult one. I’m sorry for his family.===JACK:  His mother put on a Birthday Party for him, and my son and I were the oly ones who showed up.===MV:  Very sad. Reminds me of a story of a young man who was clearing out his books from his locker at school one day. He was walking home and was bullied by some kids-knocking the books out of his hands and him to the ground. Another young man saw this and went to the bullied child, helped him up and carried his books for him. They became friends and the bullied child grew up to be a productive member of society. At graduation he told the story of the person who came to his aid. He said he cleaned out his locker and was going home to kill himself. This kind person stepped in and became his friend and changed the course of his life. I’m sorry it didn’t work that way for the person you knew. It was a kind gesture by you and your son.===JACK:  Sometimes you do the right thing...and sometimes you wish that you had of...and then it's too late...WOULDA, SHOULDA, COULDA!

 ROM LS IN WB:  When my emotions are triggered I try to remember I have a choice: I choose to focus on my audience,  what do I want them to remember ? My tears or my message.  I want them to experience the their own tears or experience the story in another way unique to them.  If I am able, rehearsing helps, repeatedly feeling the emotion,  even in silence, in my mind with visualization.  Having written this, I have gotten choked up ( several times ).  Once I recall, recently, upon delivering a painful personal experience to a group that knew me ( business well).  I reminded myself that the message I wanted to deliver, was of great importance to me, for them to understand and feel my pain and gratitude I was sharing with them.  

FROM EMT SINGS IN TC:  Almost every day!===JACK:  You can't do much better than that.

…….. I  took a breath ( or 2 - a moment of pause) and continued successfully, able to refocus and continue by the grace of God and lots of work before getting up to deliver my passionately written words. 

 This practice is yet another tool in communication.  A gift  - an art, delivering a story heard by all, letting it be their experience in the hearing not making it seeing me react in my experience.   Let them focus on the words and what they mean to them not on me and my reaction.  Instead of tears we can learn to use pauses, body language, eye contact, setting of our intention as we deliver words to be heard, felt as unique by those we are communicating with.  Toastmasters taught me this skill among so many others.  Practice, practice, practice with intention, accepting failure as a possibility, and an opportunity to forgive myself and embrace my imperfections with my loving energy for learning.  Sometimes, I am my best teacher ❤️. ===JACK:  It appears as though you have a plan that works.  If it works, go with it. 

 FROM JU IN NC:  Not as often as I would like.===JACK:  Think back!  You've shed your share...and MORE!  GIE: 

FROM SHALOM JAN:    My feelings creep down my cheeks at almost every Baptism I do.  Baptism is the foundation for our relationship with God through Christ Jesus.  It is THE MOST IMPORTANT of sacraments.  I am particularly touched when a teen or an adult desires to receive Baptism after hearing of God's love.  "Welcome to the family!" is what I have often said to such people.===JACK:  Funerals do it for me.===SJ:Same for me, sometimes.  That's also when the "child of God" of baptismal faith comes in strongly, too.

 FROM CM IN CA:  Love this one , keep up the good work.===JACK:  It's always good (and a surprise) when I hear from you.

FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA:  All of the time 😊

 

 

Jack’s Winning Words 11/29/22 “I am not a fatalist; I’m an optimist who worries a lot.” (Margaret Albright)  I’m a charter member of our community’s Optimist Club which began over 50 years ago.  For half a century we’ve been closing our weekly meetings by saying together the Optimist Creed which begins: “Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can destroy your peace of mind.”  Try saying that over and over again…during an election cycle…when someone you love is having surgery…when we see pictures and read about starving people in the world…when a close friend unexpectedly dies.  I’m an optimist, but I also have feelings.  Is there such a thing as a Realist Club?  ;-) Jack  FROM PEE WEE:  So maybe the line should read?  “I am not a fatalist; I’m an optimist who worries a lot because I'm a realist." ===JACK:  tHE REALITY IS THAT it's hard to be an optimist in a pessimisitc world. FROM ST PAUL:  FOR a long time i thought that Creed was kind of corny but it really does have some value and validity.  if nothing else,  it reminds us that we do have some control over happiness in our daily lives. ===JACK:  I'm not so sure that the "modern wording" of the Creed and the Prayers really speaks to me.  Am I becoming as old-fashioned as the people I used to criticize?===SP:  i think some of the modern wording is not helpful.   there is a new creed out now that has a very strong gay/lesbian slant to it.  will send it if i can find it again.   also,  sotv is not using the international lectionary series this year.   last Sunday there was only one text from Isaiah,  the one about sword/spears and pruning hooks.  we sand only one Advent hymn and we will be focusing on a new book that attempts lift up night and darkness as being good and holy  (some strong racial overtones here too).   so don't we get to hear about Mary and Joseph,  John the Baptist,   Zachariah and Elizabeth,  the angelic visitation,  the wise and foolish virgins,  Simeon and Anna?????   not sure i am happy about this.  we have had a very strong theme of social justice,  racial justice,  and gay/lesbian justice for the past 6 months or so.  i hope they don't overdue it.  we have already lost some members of coursJACK:  I'm not saying one is better than another.  I was only making a comment on my own feelings. FROM DAZ IN CO:   Promise yourself to be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. ===JACK:  Not as easy as it sounds! FROM JEFF P IN MERRILL:  I was a member of our optimist club for about 20 years, after I aged out of Jaycees.===JACK: Did the Optimist Creed help you to deal with your recent accident?  I suppose there were some times when you needed positive thinking.   Optimists is still one of our most active service clubs.===JP:Oh yeah, and I still need the positive thoughts. I've progressed remarkably well, but certainly have a way to go to be able to do many of my normal activities.  I believe having so many people praying for me helped my recovery. BTW, I used to know both of those creeds by heart but now only recall portions.===JACK:  Over 50 years of saying the Optimist Creed is almost like going to church and being asked to say the Lord's Prayer. FROM CHIEF FITZ:  It often happens out joy or happiness for someone accomplishing something monumental (monumental for them) or listening to powerful music.  So yes, it happens sometimes.  Hope your Thanksgiving was wonderful.===JACK:  I've noticed it, too.  I like reading your responses.  They make sense (just like my WWs !  HAHA)   FROM ST5 PAUL:  o see my blog

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/28/22

 “Cleanliness is next to Godliness.”  This well-known saying is often used to justify keeping things neat and tidy. But I can see it as symbolism behind Baptism: to wash away (symbolically) the stain of sin.  In the Baptist Church the pastor immerses the whole body to bring about cleanliness.  I once was asked to baptize a baby by immersion, using a large pottery bowl filled with water. It worked.  Since then, I’ve learned that that was the only time the bowl has been used. How many pastors do you know have such a story to tell?   ;-)  Jack

FROM WILLMAR REV:  My immersed baptism was in a farm pond in Kansas that had its share of cow pods sprinkled around its perimeter . . . 'the physical setting' was more like that feed trough in Bethlehem that day?! 0;-) ===JACK:  How old were you at that time?  What kind of statement of faith did you make?===WR:  5th or 6th Grade…benefits of being raised in a high-level participating family of faith since pre-school age and had raised my hand to accept ‘Jesus’ into my life around the age of 7…church services were well attended every time the doors were open. 0;-)===JACK:  "Gove me that old-time religion...It was food for our fathers and it's good enough for me."

FROM COPPER COUNTRY BOB:  Warm greetings, Jack. Thanks..... I've heard the phrase a thousand times but never connected it to Baptism.   Zowii! Nope, I have no such story to tell.  Thanks for sharing this jewel of a story with us. Bob  ===JACK:  Did you ever baptize someone by immersion?  Was it in the winter? 

FROM ST PAUL:  Luther said to recall your baptism each time you wash your face.  Pr. Chris Smith went out to a country church some years ago to do a baptism.  the building had actually be unheated all week and the water in the font was frozen solid.  no lie!   someone ran home and came back with a pot of boiling hot water.   soo many stories to tell...===JACK:  How about the time when there was no wine left for the deacon to fill the communion glasses....so, he used whiskey,===JACK:  I'm saying tha mixed with water?  No lie!===SP:   

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/25/22

“Did you say $100 million?”  (Dolly Parton to Jeff Bezos)  The news today was that Bezos intends to give away most of his fortune.  When is enough, enough?  What would it take to make you comfortable for the rest of your life?  In my case, I’d like to be able to write a check and not worry about the bank balance.  Bezos won’t have to worry about that, but he seems to think that Dolly will use his money in a way that he approves of.  Dolly cares about people, because she knows what it is that poor people really need.  She’d do a lot better than most politicians…and me, too.  Sociologists probably have some good ideas.  If Jeff offered you $100 million, what would you do with it?  ;-)  Jack

FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA:  I would invite all of the people I've met in my life who care about others to help me decide the best way to distribute the money. Wouldn't that be fun! (and complicated 🙄)===JACK:  Before you do that, you're going to need to Jeff's phone number.

FROM RS IN TEXAS:  Probably give most of it to Lutheran World Relief. They seem to address basic needs for survival around the world. I will admit I would use some to make sure we were OK financially and would put in a safety net for our kids and grandchildren. Hope you and Joan had a wonderful Thanksgiving- are you in MN or MI?===JACK:  

FROM MY LAWYER:  I’d make sure your checkbook balance was meaningless!!!===JACK:  I don't think that Bezos would choose a lawyer...or even a preacher.

FROM WILLMAR REV:  Someone was asked this recently with the 2-billion-dollar Powerball Lottery, what would you do with it? His answer was, "No one around me would be poor! I would move over to a richer part of the city!" 0;-)) ===JACK:  I have no one around me who's really poor, so I'll have to buy my own ticket.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  you know what? i am very sick of hearing abt poor people and money... as if money is all that matters. there is too much emphasis on money. no one in this country really suffers much bc of lack of money. we have education available, jobs to be had, freebies galore.  there is more to life than MONEY, and wishing that other people had more MONEY.===JACK:  Then, there's no sense in having you ask Jeff for any money, let alone 100 million. ===LIZ:  80-Year-Old 'Mr. Thanksgiving' Hosts Holiday Feast for Thousands in Decades-Long Tradition  https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/offbeat/80-year-old-mr-thanksgiving-hosts-holiday-feast-for-thousands-in-decades-long-tradition/ar-AAR8bRI===JACK:  ...right up your alley!

 

 Jack’s Winning Words 11/23/22

A TABLE PRAYER FOR THANKSGIVING:
God, thank you for bringing us together today. While it's sometimes hard to make time to be together, we pray you will help us to enjoy these next few hours together. We are reminded that today is about relationships, not just a meal, but the people you have brought together. Help us to enjoy the laughter, conversations, and memories we make on this day. Thank you for the day off that makes this possible. Thank you also for the hands that have prepared the meal, and we pray the energy we receive from it will empower us to do what is pleasing to you and speak your love, grace, and mercy to others. Amen.

FROM CHIEF F IN KH:   Great Thanksgiving prayer which could be applicable everyday, we should be giving thanks to Him like that everyday.  Happy Thanksgiving, hope your holiday is safe and blessed.===JACK:  It is too bad that we limit our celebration to one day.  There's nothing wrong with saying "Thank You" everyday.

FROM TL IN MI:  Thank you for that beautiful prayer.  That’s a saver!  I hope you feel all the blessings of being with your family.  Happy Holidays,===JACK:  I hope that it will be a prayer that you can use tomorrow.

FROM BLUE SUE:  Good Morning I love the message.  We will be saying this prayer at the table tomorrow!  Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family!  GO BLUE! ===JACK: We have much for which to be thankful.  Your friendship is an important one!

FROM SMILIN' TERI:  I am going to share this…did you write it? ===JACK:  I researched many prayers before I found one I liked.  Share it with love.

FROM PROUD MARY:  I am so thankful for you.✌🏼❤️🦃===JACK:  ABSENCE MAKES THE HEART GROW FONDER.

FROM LS IN WB:  I am grateful for your writing each day.  I look forward to reading and pondering your Winning Words as I begin my day.  My morning continues with a reading from another book that gives me a thought  and a prayer, setting intention and knowing I shall not want.  I stretch and eat a healthy breakfast before walking out the door of our home, my sanctuary to touch the lives of those brought to me.  Happy Thanksgiving my dear friend. ===JACK:  Sometime we don't remember enough the friends that we have and how they influence us.  You are one of them  Thank you for your friendship. 

FROM KLM:  Beautiful prayer. Happy Thanksgiving and many blessings for you ===JACK:  I've recently had conversation with Cousin  Mike.  He tells me of a fall that Cousin Joannie recently had.  I give thanks to God for friends, like the Petersons who I met while being the pastor of Bethany in Irma.

FROM JL IN WB:  That is a very lovely prayer. Thank you for sharing those words. Wishing you and Joan and your extended family a healthy and delicious Thanksgiving. May this holiday season treat you all well.===JACK:  Sometimes we take so much for granted.  We need a Day of Thanksgiving to shake us up to reality.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  🍁🦃❤️===JACK:  How do you celebrate Thanksgiving?  Just you and your daughter?  Or, do you invite others to your home....or go to the home of others?  Just wonderin'.===LIZ:  spatchcocking a duck, grilling... w/blueberry sauce. wild rice and mushroom casserole. gisela is bringing whatever else she likes. my friends w/o families have all died. her dad is invited, but he usually volunteers to carve at the huge free thanksgiving dinner that mr thanksgiving has held here for like 30 years. google it!  how about you? your daughter's house?===JACK:  tYPICAL TORKEY AND TRIMMINGS AT MY DAUGHTER'S HOME.

FROM MS IN MI:  Hi Jack. That was beautiful wishing you your family and friends a blessed Thanksgiving Holiday.===JACK:  Didn't you once tell me that you had considered studyomg to become a rabbi?  Any regrts?

 FROM SR RD:  .and I am so grateful for you!!  Have a Happy Thanksgiving!!😍 ===JACK: 

FROM BB IN CHGO:  Amen!  Truer words have never been spoken.  Thanks for sharing this interesting quote.  I wish I could re-do college and H.S. as now I’d have experience and be more willing to pay close attention.===JACK:  There are many things I'd do over if do-overs were part of the game.  Just remember that God still loves you NOW as He has loved you in the PAST.  Be thankful for that.

FROM JOE ANN:  And I think to myself What a Wonderful World. ===JACK:  That song could be used as a Thanksgiving prayer, too.

FROM BS IN EBGLAND:   Thinking of you and wishing you and Jo a happy and blessed Thanksgiving.  With love and prayers===JACK:  DO YOU HAVE ANY DAY CIMPARABLE TO tHANKSGIVING dAY IN ENGLAND?

FROM JU IN NC:  She has grandchild from las Vegas and son and grandkids from Charleston..  we are making smores in our fire pit tonight.  Temp. Will be in the 40$.  How about you guys.===JACK:  We'll be with one of my daughters and her family (4 grandchildren, a grand daughter, another daughter and two children in-laws. No s'mores, but plenty of turkey.

FROM SKF:  Very nice Prayer. We will use it today! Happy Thanksgiving to all of you in Detroit. ===JACK: Daughter Beth placed a sheet of paper under each place setting. Only one had the Prayer on it, and that person was the Prayer

FROM G 7:  Yes! Count your Blessings name them one by one! Count your Blessings see what God has done!  🎼🎵🎶🎵🎶🎵===JACK:  I learned that song in Sunday School.  Where did you learn it?===G7:  In Sunday School.

 Leader.  It worked well. 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/22/22

“The most compelling reason to get a good education is that it makes the inside of your head an interesting place to spend the rest of your life.”  (Judith Shapiro)  As I reflect on my education, the most interesting stopping places were a course on American Values, an English class in Creative Writing, and Basic Christianity.  Philosophy was good, too.  A lesson that I have referred to over and over is this: When you are trying to explain Bible lessons to people, CONNECT IT UP WITH LIFE.  Try to help the people see that the Bible is relevant to their daily life.  I hope that you’re having a wonderful time inside of your head, too!  ;-) Jack

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  this is why i love the internet... i learn a ton of new stuff every day. the library is right here on my phone! (i would not know you otherwise.)===JJACK:  Your mind is better than any library.  It tells you how to use the library.  Thank God today for the ability to think.

FROM COPPER COUNTRY BOB: Our village council is dysfunctional. In an effort to have them think differently I spoke to them last evening and sent the enclosed as a letter to the editor this morning.===JACK:   iF EVER THEREWERE A CHEERLEADER FOR HIS COMMUNITY...you are it !  

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/21/22

When you’re dead, you don’t know you’re dead.  The pain is felt by others.  The same thing happens when you’re stupid.  (Ricky Gervais). Ricky is a famous British comedian.  Who else, but someone with weird sense of humor could make a comedy about a suicidal man whose wife has died of cancer?  There are different types of comedians, such as Steve Martin, Jonathan Winters and Milton Berle, as well as different types of humor.  I like humor that has us read between the lines to truly get the point.  Is there a comedian who you truly appreciate?  I remember one…Yakov Smirnoff.  “America, what a country!”  ;-)  Jack

FROM CL IN CIM:  This may be the best one ever!===JACK:  I like it, too.

FROM SMILIN' TERI:  🌻”When someone shows you who they are, believe them:  the first time!”  (Maya Angelou)===JACK:  You can't go wrong quoting Maya.

FROM DANDI SANDI:  That’s funny!!!===JACK:  I've found that friends are friends because they understand each other...and our sense of humor.

FROM THE SCIENTIST:  MI enjoy a variety of comedy. I suppose right now it’s mostly things that make me laugh at myself of the situation. It helps to keep perspective. Some are more silly. Some are more clever. As a pastor, have you heard of the TickTok/YouTube comedian, Adrian Bliss? I recommend you google Adrian Bliss and Noah’s ark. Or Adrian Bliss and Jesus. ===JACK:  I'm old fashioned.  I've never did an Tik-Tok.  Stphen Colbert is my favorite comedian.

FROM CCS:  😂🤣😂🤣===JACK:  We're on the same page.

FROM WILLMAR REV:  "I've been told on occasions that I'm a big joke?!" 0;-)) ===JACK:  I'd be surprised if everybody liked you.  Even Jesus had his enemies.

FROM ST PAUL:  i always liked Bob Newhart and some of his early records.   also,  Shelley Bermann. ===JACK:  Thanks for the reminder of some othe good ones.  I like the Steve Martin movies, too.  

FROM IKE AT THE MIC:  In my opinion,humor is one of the most powerful tools if PROPERLY used in communication.It can used by a talented  surgeon or an incompetent butcher. I miss comedians such as Jack Benny,Sam Levinson  & most comedians of that era,because they practiced self deprecating humor & shared their personal observations of the funny incongruities of daily life without offending anyone. On the theme of "stupid" I'm reminded of the saying:"If you see 2 people arguing & one of them is stupid,make sure that one of them is not you"===JACK:  Why do you suppose that so many comedians are Jewish?===IKE:  It's interesting that you ask,because I've had numerous discussions on that topic with my jewish friends & we've come to the conclusion that humor has been one of the most effective defense strategies that Jewish people have used to deal with the numerous pogroms & Nazism. In fact,one of the most popular Jewish jokes during the holocaust was: "One of the inmates in one of the concentration camps whispers to another one:"I just heard that Hitler is going to die on a Jewish holiday.The other inmate asks excitedly which one? The first one answers,any day that Hitler dies is going to be a Jewish holiday"====JACK:  I always thought that Jewish humor had its roots in the Yiddish tradtion.  

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/18/22

“Pray for the dead.  Fight like hell for the living.”  (Unknown)  This quote is on the website of the Peoples Church in Bemidji, MN, that serves the Native Americans of that area.  For the last couple of years I’ve spent a day there working and observing. The church building serves like home for those in need.  Food is provided.  Pews often are used for sleeping.  A Prayer Group Prays at Stations of the Lost, at the jail, the food bank, places where people commit suicide, where the homelesss sleep in tents, etc.  Recently the pastor was arrested for trying to stop an officer with an open gun from running after someone in the church.  Reread the quote!   What’s your opinion about Sanctuary Laws?  :-)  Jack

FROM G7:  Our Native Americans should not have to be categorized for a Sanctuary City.. They are not illegals coming into out country.  More money should be given to our Native Americans to help them in ALL  ways. Thank you Jack for your daily blog!===JACK:  There's enough blame to fit many situations.  Live among the native Americans and you will se life in a new way.  I don't want anyone running through my church with an open gun.  A church is called a sanctuary for a reason.

FROM FACEBBOK LIZ:  sounds like a mess. why are natives seemingly unable to live productively?===JACK:  It's a long story going back to why their land was taken away from them...and why the slaves became slaves, unwillingly.  There's a lot of unfairness in our history.===LIZ:  that is what my mother always said. ===JACK:  I know that she had an impact on your life, as did your father, also.  How old were you when she died?

FROM PL IN WB:  Both of the following have the potential of seeking sanctuary: An undocumented migrant seeks sanctuary by going into a church or reside in a “sanctuary city.” An American citizen breaks into the Capital building and injures one or more police officers and is called by some  a  “political prisoner” and seeks sanctuary. Are  “sanctuary places” a matter of perspective or do they have a moral obligation to keep people safe?===JACK:  I have not heard the Capitol buolding ever referred to as a Sanctuary, such as are places of worship.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  was reading abt the nords' conquest of their indigenous people... to build the societal utopian some would have us emulate ===JACK:  There's enough blame to be spread in many places...Take the Church for example when attempts were made to civilize, Christianize the native people, and/or the natives of Africa.

FROM GUSTIE:  : At first thought—If the person is a killer or has come across the border illegally I think they are wrong.===JACK:  You and I might have trouble with love for that kind of person, but I believe in a God who loves the unlovable....even some church attendees.  Have you even sung the song, The love of God is greater far than tongue or pen can ever tell etc?

FROM CPA MIKE:  The government does not do a good job for the disadvantaged and should not encourage them to seek sanctuary.  Sad but true, other than charity and community I see no help for them.===JACK:  Ideally, the populace would help the needy because they care about them.  I appreciate health care for all, because it benefits me.  Because I have SO much Social Security doesn't mean as much to me as it means to someone with no other income. Proper4 government tries to help all of its constituents. ===JACK:   Yeah but we're addressing whether sanctuary cities are a good concept. I think not.===JACK  I think that Sanctuary (places) was an idea put forth by the Church to protect those who were being unfairly persecuted by the government.  I'm all for it. ===M:  Good idea for the Church bad idea for the government to create and promote squalor.===JACK:  You're interest os in mismanaged government and my interest is in taking care of those who need care, regardless of where they live in the world.  I know that it's idealism....BUT my BEST college course was a study of American Ideals.  America was built on idealism.===M:  Is it wrong to idealize honest and competent government? They should be helping so much more with the resources of our nation. Imagine people being held accountable. ===JACK:  Government means that there different "sides" to issues.  There will be no coming together.  Idealism doesn't seem to fit there, nor does it seem to fit with the Chuch and its limited financial resources.  So, idealism remains an ideal.  Jesus said, "The poor you will always have with you."  What do you think that means? ===M:  Whomever is entrusted with charitable resources needs to be a good steward as the poor will  always be needing our charity. To steal from them just might be the greatest sin. When the fruits of our labors are entrusted to others they must be held accountable===JACK:  I  see no satisfactory answer to the problem.  Taking care of the needs of the poor, first of all, depends on a definition of who are the poor.  Do those waiting at any country's border fall into the category of poor/needy?  It depemds - so the cdorcle is endless and the pood and needy wait. ===.M:   Don't be so tough on yourself. You brought so many people to see the light including me.  Did Jesus say anything about those who scorned the needy person?===JACK:  Read again the story of the rich man and Lazarus.

 

FROM SHALOM JAN:  The dead are gone.  I can pray for the living as well as contribute toward the well-being of those living in distress.===JACK:  Are the dead really ever dead with God?  Why have a Memorial Day if the dead are really gone?  There seems so little that we can personally do for the distressed. ===SJ: :I mean to support organizations that are looking for cures, or that are caring for the homeless, or that feed the hungry, or ....  I can contribute money, volunteer my time/efforts, help educate people about their needs, etc.  It's personal but not often "in person"===JACK:  I see you as an idealist (and that is good), but I tend to mix in realism with my idealism.===M:   I agree.Its not that we don't have the financial, human and technological resource to solve  problems We've  accepted malfeasance and mismanagement to the detriment of the needy. Going back to the beginning of our  discussion, one might ask why are we inviting more and more people into our country?===JACK:  One of Jeanne's friends went to Guatemala to see conditions there and how she might help to make things better.  She met a mother who asked her to adopt her newborn which she did.  She raised the child as her own daughter, and now the child is a college graduate.  Is that the way it should be done?

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/16/22

“Civilization is always in danger when those who have never learned to obey are given the right to command.”  (Fulton J Sheen)  In the mid-50s a TV show called “Life Is Worth Living” hosted by Cardinal Fulton J Sheen, was one of my favorites.  The flowing red cape, large cross, those piercing eyes…it was “must see TV”.  He was ahead of his time.  Witness today’s quote which seems “fresh as a daisy!”  Don’t take this as political, but one reason I could vote for Liz Cheney is because I believe that she is ethical, meaning that I believe she knows right from wrong.  I’d rather have ethical leaders than political ones.  Jimmy Carter is another example.  You or I might never be commanders, but we can be ethical when the opportunity arises.  ;-) Jack

from daz in co:  I always like FJS and his commentary.

FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA:  👍😊

FROM DR JUDY:  Hey Jack. Integrity is the key isn’t it??!! I got the same impression that she would pick integrity over party. Tat’s why I’d vote for her if I wasn’t thrilled for the competition. And maybe it’s my way of thanking her for standing up for what’s right.===JACK:  I'd choose integrity over politics every time.  Now, if I were to choose between two honest people, that be a horse of a different color.===JUDY:  I completely agree. Integrity over politics. However, The ability to select between 2 honest politicians sounds like it would be a delightful opportunity! 🤪😂===JACK:  In the large scheme of things, does my ONE vote mean anything?  It gives me satisfaction to talk about integrity when it comes to politics or to any other situation where it is called for.===JL:  I, too, value integrity! Also, authenticity and truth. I guess they really are all kind of the same thing.

FROM SR RD:  I totally agree with you, Jack!  As a child, we listened to Fulton Sheen and today, I support Liz Cheney. . .and would have voted for her for President, had she been given a chance to run!===JACK:  ...but she was not running for President.  She was serving on a bi-partisan committee and was simply doing her job with integrity.  We need more politicians like that.  I feel somewhat the same about the Secy of transportation (I can't spell his name, but he seems to be doing his job with integrity.

 

 Jack’s Winning Words  11/17/22

“Bees do it…Let’s do it.  Let’s play with toys.”  (Sami Galpayage –London Scientist)  Last week I read an article about how bees often stop on their way back to the hive to play with toys (things that amuse them).  We have more in common with nature than we think.  Let’s Do It was a 1928 hit song by Cole Porter that received some prudish complaints (“It’s too suggestive!”) I especially liked the lines “Even ed-u-cated fleas do it!” and “even bugs in your rug do it”.  So whether it is playing with toys, eating, sex, making choices…this world is more alike than we think it is.  What interests you most about this world of ours – and makes it worth saving?  ;-) Jack 

FR4OM ST PAUL:  we have also now recorded octopuses throwing things at each other.  they have 8 arms after all.  but how do you throw something underwater??? :):) ===JACK:  We've learned to shoot torpedos.  I'm anxious to learn what other things God's creatures can do...things that we're unaware of?

FROM SR RD:  I love your Winning Words, dear Jack, , , and I never knew that bees play!  Now what makes me want to save this world?  All the BEAUTY that is here both WITHOUT and WITHIN us. . . .===JACK:  God knows more than just about bees.  No wonder that He wants to save the world, the whole world.  I commented recently on the book, Your God Is Too Small.

FROM DAZ IN CO:  One reason to save the world is you and us and our friends are in it. But there’s more===JACK:  We want this beautiful world saved for the generation that follows ours.

FROM ER IN MN:  You bSheesh, Jack! This one is a little racy for you!! I am blushing 😊 ===JACK:  You blushing?  Now I've heard it all.  

FROM WILLMAR REV:   Ask me again in about twenty years from now, as I am sure I will have a more complete answer?! 0;-)  I’ve been told "Everything in the world is about to be wrapped up, so take nothing for granted. Stay wide-awake in prayer. Most of all, love each other as if your life depended on it. Love makes up for practically anything. Be quick to give a meal to the hungry, a bed to the homeless—cheerfully. Be generous with the different things God gave you, passing them around so all get in on it: if words, let it be God’s words; if help, let it be God’s hearty help. That way, God’s bright presence will be evident in everything through Jesus, and He’ll get all the credit as the One mighty in everything—encores to the end of time.” (1 Peter 4:9-11 The Message Bible)  ===JACK:  Every generation has been told to be ready...The end of the world is near.  Just becauise it never came soon fter the warning by Jesus, does not mean that it isn't relevant.  "It will come when we least expect it, so "ready or not, here I come."  Jesus must have liked the game, Hide and Go Seek."===REV:  Been awhile over here!! 0;-))===JACK:  I'm not prying.

FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  that's pretty cool abt bees! i often wonder what birds and squirrels do when they're not at my feeder... apparently they play mahjong! ====JACK:  Where do you think baby squirrels come from?

FROM PL IN WB:  Great thoughts, Jack!  Maybe people need more fun in their lives and less judgement from others about other’s fun! Great thoughts!❤ ===JACK:  I like new thoughts, like bees playing with toys, or first finding the song, "Birds do it, bees do; even educated fleas do it.===PL: You are all about that, Jack!===JACK: I like to learn of the miraculous, like seeing that bees play with toys.  Tell me of more miracles such as that.  That's what makes life interesating..===PL:  > I like to learn of the miraculous, like seeing that bees play with toys.  Tell me of more miracles such as that.  That's what makes life interesating..===JACK:  Read the background of the song, Bees Do It.

> ️FRIM BLAZING OAKS:  So much beauty in it, and so many delightful relationships to enjoy, and always, always something new to learn!! I cherish every single day!!! :-)===JACK:  Right now I'm looking at the day in my mind and trying to enjoy the good things...and they are there.

FROM CPA MIKE:  Democrats tried to impeach Republicans now it looks like Republicans want revenge and will try to impeach Democrats. What's the point? Is this all political or do you see a baser instinct in today's humanity of "dog eat dog?"===JACK:  Right now I couldn't care less about politics.  Maybe in 2 years.  There are more important things in life.

FROM WILLMAR REV:  I just watched the documentary posted below and saw sexual intercourse displayed throughout the insect and animal kingdom . . . I was wondering early on if I was going to view the bodies of our male and females sexually cohabitating but ended with just the above. Interesting to watch. 0;-)===JACK:  I'll let you7 in on a secret...."Humans do it, too." 

 

 

 

Jack’s Winning Words  11/15/22 “Goodnight stars.  Goodnight air.  Goodnight noises everywhere.”  (Margaret Wise Brown)  Brown has been called “The Laureate of the Nursery” because of her skill at writing books…like Goodnight Moon and the Runaway Bunny…for children.  I’m proud to have had a confirmation student who is not only an English prof, but also an author of books for children.  Another friend who was a Kindergarten teacher recently read me a favorite book of hers by holding it up before my eyes and pointing to the words and pictures (just like I was back in K).  She was reading about Louis Armstrong’s song “What a Wonderful World” as a CD of the song played in the background. I loved it.  I wish that you could have been there.  ;-)  Jack. FROM MK IN WL:  The boys loved finding the mouse in Goodnight Moon. I miss those day of cuddling at night & reading to them. I think I need to bring out a book & read to them again!===JACK:  If I can enjoy a Kindergarten reading of It's a Wonderful World, I think that the boys will enjoy a re-reading of Goodnight Moon. FROM THAT KINDERGARTEN TEACHER:  Thank you.===JACK:  and the Vikings won on Sunday.  Life is good.  And the Lions lost.  What's new? FROM KA LIVING UP NORTH:  Good morning, Pastor Freed!  I always enjoy reading your blog posts and was especially delighted to see today's topic of children's books.  As many young readers and adults do, I love Goodnight Moon and have editions in various languages, along with a few silly parodies, on my shelves.  Correct me if I'm wrong, but perhaps the Engish-prof children's-author is moi? If so, thank you for mentioning me! ===JACK:  I'll never forget the story of you and you dad reading the Want Ad pages.  God had a plan for you that pleased you.  Congratulations on making the most of it.   FROM ST PAUL:  the Runaway Bunny is Margaret's all time favorite book for children.  she has given away over a dozen copies to friends over the years. ===JACK:  Have you ever preached a sermon on the theme of that book.  I could make it work, and you should be able to do it, too.===SP:  No, I haven't.   at least not directly.  but it sure is a gospel centered story.   a God who never stops looking for his lost children. ===JACK:  The Lost Sheep comes close.  FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  ❤===JACK:  Evidently you've said "Goodnight" to the moon and remember it.===LIZ:  of course i am.  that is why i want to help people as much as you do. but i do not look upon others as poor stupid losers to be pitied and propped up...  i see everyone as valuable. i want to see them educated, productive and content.  the dems' social experiment of the past 50 years is an epic failure in every respect===JACK:  You're making some assumptions.  It's a societal issue, not a political one.  It's frustrating when we try to get people to come together politically to solve the problems you list. FROM DANDI SANDI:  Wish I could have been there too! What a beautiful experience. As an elementary principal, I always kept a rocking chair and a personal children’s library in my office. I loved reading to groups of kids, esp if they were there because they were naughty!! I recently donating my collection. Sorta miss it, but I know that others are enjoying my special books. 🥰📚🤓===JACK:  A friend of Joan's served as a Rocking Chair Grandma in a nearby school.  It was a blow to the whole school when she died suddenly.  A rocking chair area has been set aside so that the tradition can continue.===DS:  A beautiful tribute to her.===JACK:  I received a call from her today, thanking ME>===JACK:  I want to thank her and all the others who have given themselves to the profession.   FROM WILLMAR REV:  Interestingly for us, our new neighbor, recently retired art teacher from Bemidji, MN, has written and published a couple of children's books . . . Fran purchased them as gifts for our grandsons in Rochester===JACK:  What better gift than a book to give to a grandchild.  I hope that you wrote a message inside. FROM PROUD MARy:  one of my favorite margaret wise brown books is "the little island". it reminds me of an island up in manitowish waters, wisconsin...(god's country). it's a sweet and quirky book about a kitten's adventure in nature on the island. i would love to read it to you one day. ===JACK:  There's still time to reread it. FROM WILLMAR REV:  We did . . . and in years passed when Fran was working at Hallmark Cards, she would buy some of the Christmas stories with ways to record Grandpa and Grandma's voices telling the story. 0;-)  ===JACK:  What a neat idea.  I always liked shopping for Hallmark cards. FROM FACEBOOK LIZ:  "nite nite moon  nite nite street lite"  as my dad held me up to the window each nite 😇===JACK:  You're a SOFTIE, after all. FROM GD JC:  Thanks for gifting Kya’s library that book!===JA CK:  The CD goes with it.  I hope that when she learns to sing, she'll like bith the book and the music. FROM ER:  Goodnight Moon was one of my favorite books to read my boys. They loved "finding" the mouse on every page. I just gave that book to Kevin's daughter at her baby shower.===JACK:  The old becomes new.  Maybe you can read it to the "nw" baby, too.