Jack’s Winning Words 3/22/19
“Smile in the mirror. Do that every morning, and you’ll start to see a big difference in your life.” (Yoko Ono) Have you looked in the mirror today? Was it with a frown or a smile? Do recall a mother saying to a pouting child: ‘If you keep making that face it’s going to stay that way.’ It’s not far from the truth. Have you heard of worry wrinkles or smile lines? Skin experts say that it’s true. It’s like creasing a piece of paper over and over. Now, try smiling! ;) Jack
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Smiling!
Friday, March 22, 2019
Thursday, March 21, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/21/19
“A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don’t want to go.” (Rosalynn Carter) I wonder is Rosalynn was talking about her husband. During his presidency, Jimmy focused on improving education, the environment, brokered a peace deal between Egypt and Israel, worked on improving human rights. Imagine those issues being legislative goals today. Could that be a reason why he only served one term? ;-) Jack
FROM DAZ IN CO: Isn’t it strange that people we thought we duds at the time ( Carter , Truman er al ) now look to have qualities so sadly lacking in DC today. Maybe we’re just getting old. ===JACK: In so many ways...we don't appreciate the good that we had until we compare it to what we have,.Speaking of "old," a common remark that Joan and I often use is one that you taught me... "That's an UNK UNK."
FROM HUNGRY HOWIE: He only served one term because he didn’t provide the enthusiasm and excitement of being an American the way Reagan did. He spoke about our malaise while Reagan talked about morning in America with a raising sun as a visual. Reagan pandered, carter spoke plain truth. Carter was boring but honest, Reagan offered people what they needed to feel good. (So does Trump)===JACK: Politics aside, Jimmy understood the Middle East like no other American leader, because he knew Biblical history. He also knew the military as well as anyone else, because he was an Annapolis grad...and who has done more humanitarian work after his presidency?===HOWIE: No one. He has my respect. Plus his fight with Brain cancer is impressive.===JACK: Let's see... peanut farmer, military veteran, Sunday School teacher, Habitat for Humanity builder. You make the comparison.
FROM RS IN TEXAS: As I remember, the two things that did Carter in were the inability to solve the Iran hostage affair and a sluggish economy with very high inflation, along with dissent in the Democratic Party. Add in Reagan’s Hollywood charisma and that was that. Hopefully the Democratic presidential candidate next year will have those same goals, along with the character, integrity and morals now absent at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. It truly is sad to see so many Americans support and/or tolerate the behavior and makeup of someone like Trump because the economy is doing well. I’m afraid for many of them having more money and stuff is more important than the goals Carter had. In my opinion, Jimmy was one of our greatest leaders because of those goals and who he is as a person. ===JACK: Neither party is what it used to be. Respect for the 3 branches of government has eroded into what's good for the ruling party, rather than what's good for the country. ===RS: it is a war, quite literally. psychological war...Agreed. But at least the Dems seem to be interested in preserving the planet and finding a way to get good quality affordable health care for everyone.
FROM FACEBOOK LIZ: we don’t need a leader as much as we need a person (people) to do the will of the people. we are mostly a reasonable bunch, and it is the our leaders who have led us astray w/their shameless power grabs... spending 20 trillion more of our hard-earned tax dollars than they possessed, pitting us against each other in make-believe battles based on race, gender, sexual orientation. it is heart-breaking to see what america has become in the past decade. and it’s only getting worse...===JACK: It's as though I've gone to sleep and awakened into a world like one I've never seen before.
FROM JT IN SJ: Wow ! Is that thought provoking!===JACK: I'd like to play Follow the Leader, if I could find a leader to follow.
FROM BB IN CHGO: Wonderful; you know my son did his history fair on Carter. I think Carter still struggles with not being able to achieve lasting peace in the middle east despite having two great men at the negotiating table on many occasions. From his books, I think he is still working on these endeavors behind the scenes.===JACK: The peace deal would have gone through, except for an assassination. A lot of "what ifs" were cut short by gun violence.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Jimmy Carter was and is one of the finest men to ever lead our country, and continues today to uphold high morals, work ethic and compassion, still trying to make a difference in our chaotic world. He deserves our appreciation and respect! Our Leadership today is
sadly lacking in all the above plus wisdom to deal with the conditions In our country today. in any satisfactory way.! SIGH===JACK: SIGH SIGH SIGH!...
FROM SUNSHINE: "A leader is best when peoplebarely know that he exists. When his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say we did it ourselves." Lao Tzu===JACK: That's a great quote. Do you know of any leaders such as that?
“A leader takes people where they want to go. A great leader takes people where they don’t want to go.” (Rosalynn Carter) I wonder is Rosalynn was talking about her husband. During his presidency, Jimmy focused on improving education, the environment, brokered a peace deal between Egypt and Israel, worked on improving human rights. Imagine those issues being legislative goals today. Could that be a reason why he only served one term? ;-) Jack
FROM DAZ IN CO: Isn’t it strange that people we thought we duds at the time ( Carter , Truman er al ) now look to have qualities so sadly lacking in DC today. Maybe we’re just getting old. ===JACK: In so many ways...we don't appreciate the good that we had until we compare it to what we have,.Speaking of "old," a common remark that Joan and I often use is one that you taught me... "That's an UNK UNK."
FROM HUNGRY HOWIE: He only served one term because he didn’t provide the enthusiasm and excitement of being an American the way Reagan did. He spoke about our malaise while Reagan talked about morning in America with a raising sun as a visual. Reagan pandered, carter spoke plain truth. Carter was boring but honest, Reagan offered people what they needed to feel good. (So does Trump)===JACK: Politics aside, Jimmy understood the Middle East like no other American leader, because he knew Biblical history. He also knew the military as well as anyone else, because he was an Annapolis grad...and who has done more humanitarian work after his presidency?===HOWIE: No one. He has my respect. Plus his fight with Brain cancer is impressive.===JACK: Let's see... peanut farmer, military veteran, Sunday School teacher, Habitat for Humanity builder. You make the comparison.
FROM RS IN TEXAS: As I remember, the two things that did Carter in were the inability to solve the Iran hostage affair and a sluggish economy with very high inflation, along with dissent in the Democratic Party. Add in Reagan’s Hollywood charisma and that was that. Hopefully the Democratic presidential candidate next year will have those same goals, along with the character, integrity and morals now absent at 1600 Pennsylvania Ave. It truly is sad to see so many Americans support and/or tolerate the behavior and makeup of someone like Trump because the economy is doing well. I’m afraid for many of them having more money and stuff is more important than the goals Carter had. In my opinion, Jimmy was one of our greatest leaders because of those goals and who he is as a person. ===JACK: Neither party is what it used to be. Respect for the 3 branches of government has eroded into what's good for the ruling party, rather than what's good for the country. ===RS: it is a war, quite literally. psychological war...Agreed. But at least the Dems seem to be interested in preserving the planet and finding a way to get good quality affordable health care for everyone.
FROM FACEBOOK LIZ: we don’t need a leader as much as we need a person (people) to do the will of the people. we are mostly a reasonable bunch, and it is the our leaders who have led us astray w/their shameless power grabs... spending 20 trillion more of our hard-earned tax dollars than they possessed, pitting us against each other in make-believe battles based on race, gender, sexual orientation. it is heart-breaking to see what america has become in the past decade. and it’s only getting worse...===JACK: It's as though I've gone to sleep and awakened into a world like one I've never seen before.
FROM JT IN SJ: Wow ! Is that thought provoking!===JACK: I'd like to play Follow the Leader, if I could find a leader to follow.
FROM BB IN CHGO: Wonderful; you know my son did his history fair on Carter. I think Carter still struggles with not being able to achieve lasting peace in the middle east despite having two great men at the negotiating table on many occasions. From his books, I think he is still working on these endeavors behind the scenes.===JACK: The peace deal would have gone through, except for an assassination. A lot of "what ifs" were cut short by gun violence.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Jimmy Carter was and is one of the finest men to ever lead our country, and continues today to uphold high morals, work ethic and compassion, still trying to make a difference in our chaotic world. He deserves our appreciation and respect! Our Leadership today is
sadly lacking in all the above plus wisdom to deal with the conditions In our country today. in any satisfactory way.! SIGH===JACK: SIGH SIGH SIGH!...
FROM SUNSHINE: "A leader is best when peoplebarely know that he exists. When his work is done, his aim fulfilled, they will say we did it ourselves." Lao Tzu===JACK: That's a great quote. Do you know of any leaders such as that?
Wednesday, March 20, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/20/19
“An optimist is the personification of Spring.” (Susan Bissonette) If I had my way New Year’s Day would be March 20, cold turned to warmth, harshness to gentleness, dormant to life. As Susan B. writes, Spring is a season of optimism. The optimist is a person who concentrates on the positive, who has a warmer outlook on life, who sees opportunity. The seed is going to produce a flower. I believe it will; I know it will. Have you seen your first daffodil? ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FL: Love it!===JACK: I know that we've had this discussion before, but experiencing the harshness of winter makes me appreciate the coming of spring so much more...just as the hot weather of summer makes me long for the crispness of autumn.===SF: Doesn’t the contrast cause appreciation? We are so happy to be in the sunshine every day. ===JACK: Do remember the old saying: "Different strokes for different folks?"===SF: Yes I do. ‘Each to his own’, as my mom would say.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Yes I am a cockeyed optimist!===JACK: I've used the word, cockeyed, without bothering to look it up. It means what I thought it meant: Impractical in one sense; crooked, in another.===SHIRL: That is not how I interpreted it! To me it is happy happy happy!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Ah, yes! Spring brings hope and rejuvenation, but I would miss the changing seasons, if it was always warm and sunny! This warmer week in IL will bring crocus and daffodils poking up through the wet earth, I'm pretty sure. Have had some robins at my bird feeder the past two weeks. Reminds me of Natalie Sleeth's song, "In the bulb there is a flower, in the seed, an apple tree..." her Hymn of Promise! Life is full of blessings!===JACK: "I feel so gay, in a melancholy way, that it might as well be spring," (I like that song!)===OAKS: I agree! It's a good one, and oftentimes our gaiety.
in old age can be tinged with bittersweet...
FROM THE SHARK: The Persians celebrated the new year on the first day of spring for thousands of years, They were the 1st nation in history to advocate the freedom of religion. So why is Trump fighting them and praising Kim Jun un of North Korea and MBS of Saudi Arabia?===JACK: When I want to know the truth about what's going on in the MiddleEast, you're my "go to" guy. While you're at it, why don't you tell me what you think of POTUS.===TS: ===TS: Any man who insults someone like John McCain is not a patriotic American and is not worthy of the highest honor in the United States which is POTUS. I believe that good will always overcome evil and Trump bad deeds will not go unpunished. I predict that the better part of the American people will not re-elect him for a second term.===JACK: I didn't think that he's be elected the first time.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Happy Spring! No flower yet but they're coming up!!!===JACK: Do you remember..."Spring is sprung, the grass is riz, I wonder where the flowers iz?”===JUDY: I sure do! I walked around the gardens and grounds today. All I can say is... “I know where the weeds is!”
FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA: Lots of robins just arrived and are singing away. They just know it's coming. 😎===JACK: I haven't seen my first robin, but I did see a black squirrel today.
FROM THE NOVA SCOTIA FISH: from Juliet Blackwell's novel Letters from Paris: "...[M}any things are ugly only to those who cannot see."===JACK: What great Winning Words. I should use you as my researcher.===FISH: you have sensitized me to look for such items. This fictional quote was a response to someone who referred to the (then-contemporary) artist Degas as "ugly" ===JACK I don't like it when people comment negatively on people's looks or how they dress.
“An optimist is the personification of Spring.” (Susan Bissonette) If I had my way New Year’s Day would be March 20, cold turned to warmth, harshness to gentleness, dormant to life. As Susan B. writes, Spring is a season of optimism. The optimist is a person who concentrates on the positive, who has a warmer outlook on life, who sees opportunity. The seed is going to produce a flower. I believe it will; I know it will. Have you seen your first daffodil? ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FL: Love it!===JACK: I know that we've had this discussion before, but experiencing the harshness of winter makes me appreciate the coming of spring so much more...just as the hot weather of summer makes me long for the crispness of autumn.===SF: Doesn’t the contrast cause appreciation? We are so happy to be in the sunshine every day. ===JACK: Do remember the old saying: "Different strokes for different folks?"===SF: Yes I do. ‘Each to his own’, as my mom would say.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Yes I am a cockeyed optimist!===JACK: I've used the word, cockeyed, without bothering to look it up. It means what I thought it meant: Impractical in one sense; crooked, in another.===SHIRL: That is not how I interpreted it! To me it is happy happy happy!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Ah, yes! Spring brings hope and rejuvenation, but I would miss the changing seasons, if it was always warm and sunny! This warmer week in IL will bring crocus and daffodils poking up through the wet earth, I'm pretty sure. Have had some robins at my bird feeder the past two weeks. Reminds me of Natalie Sleeth's song, "In the bulb there is a flower, in the seed, an apple tree..." her Hymn of Promise! Life is full of blessings!===JACK: "I feel so gay, in a melancholy way, that it might as well be spring," (I like that song!)===OAKS: I agree! It's a good one, and oftentimes our gaiety.
in old age can be tinged with bittersweet...
FROM THE SHARK: The Persians celebrated the new year on the first day of spring for thousands of years, They were the 1st nation in history to advocate the freedom of religion. So why is Trump fighting them and praising Kim Jun un of North Korea and MBS of Saudi Arabia?===JACK: When I want to know the truth about what's going on in the MiddleEast, you're my "go to" guy. While you're at it, why don't you tell me what you think of POTUS.===TS: ===TS: Any man who insults someone like John McCain is not a patriotic American and is not worthy of the highest honor in the United States which is POTUS. I believe that good will always overcome evil and Trump bad deeds will not go unpunished. I predict that the better part of the American people will not re-elect him for a second term.===JACK: I didn't think that he's be elected the first time.
FROM DAIRYLAND DONNA: Lots of robins just arrived and are singing away. They just know it's coming. 😎===JACK: I haven't seen my first robin, but I did see a black squirrel today.
FROM THE NOVA SCOTIA FISH: from Juliet Blackwell's novel Letters from Paris: "...[M}any things are ugly only to those who cannot see."===JACK: What great Winning Words. I should use you as my researcher.===FISH: you have sensitized me to look for such items. This fictional quote was a response to someone who referred to the (then-contemporary) artist Degas as "ugly" ===JACK I don't like it when people comment negatively on people's looks or how they dress.
Tuesday, March 19, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/19/19
“Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.” (Art Linkletter) A.L. was born and abandoned in Moose Jaw, Canada. The baby was adopted by a preacher and his wife, and it turned out well for Arthur. Eventually he got into show business, becoming famous for interviewing children Kids Say the Darndest Things. Children’s sermons during church have produced some Ha-Ha moments, too, for me and the worshippers.. ;-) Jack
FROM RI IN BOSTON: I suspect you also remember the radio program Art Linkletter had first, broadcast as "People Are Funny". It was a humorous family show, with audience participation. Our family would sit in front of the radio and enjoy the light-hearted nature of Linkletter and his guests on the program===JACK: I think they we who remember Art (especially on radio) are in an ever-shrinking minority.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: i well recall Art L. and his afternoon TV program.===JACK: I've got an idea...How about "Pastors say the darndest things...a series of misspeaks in the pulpit." I've had my share...and know of friends who have done the same.===SP: this is a true story. a classmate of mine from seminary (David Isaacson) was preaching one morning at his church in Augusta, Maine. he had been sick all week and was on some strong cold medicine. anyway, at some point in the sermon he wanted to use the word organism and instead orgasm came out loud and clear. it was a sermon not easily forgotten by all who were in church that morning.===JACK: I can't top that one---...although a friend of mine was describing how certain religious groups would wear black garments. He muffed it and said black garters instead of black garments.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I'm old enough to remember Art L. very well, and he was great at eliciting family humor! MAYA ANGELOU once said, "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude!" She also had a way with words! Sometimes gracious acceptance of a circumstance is one's only option!===JACK: I think that most parents and grandparents can recall humorous family incidents...and don't realize that they tell the same stories over and over again with the same "laugh."
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Art Linkletter was one of the best men on tv! It was the one program I would wait to watch! He was so great with those children! I bet you heard some funny sad and strange statements from little ones during Children’s Sermons!===JACK: It was Christ the King Sunday and I got some paper Burger King crowns for each child. I pasted "Christ the King" labels over the Burger King logo. I patientently explained what a king was and how Jesus was the REAL king. At the end I said, NOW, what does this crown remind you of?" ...and the kids shouted in unison, "BURGER KING!"
FROM BB IN CHGO: I vaguely remember him and “Kids Say” from my childhood. I never knew his interesting story and love this quote.===JACK: He had a way of "leading the kids on," so that they'd say the darndest things. He was a good M.C.
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“Things turn out best for the people who make the best of the way things turn out.” (Art Linkletter) A.L. was born and abandoned in Moose Jaw, Canada. The baby was adopted by a preacher and his wife, and it turned out well for Arthur. Eventually he got into show business, becoming famous for interviewing children Kids Say the Darndest Things. Children’s sermons during church have produced some Ha-Ha moments, too, for me and the worshippers.. ;-) Jack
FROM RI IN BOSTON: I suspect you also remember the radio program Art Linkletter had first, broadcast as "People Are Funny". It was a humorous family show, with audience participation. Our family would sit in front of the radio and enjoy the light-hearted nature of Linkletter and his guests on the program===JACK: I think they we who remember Art (especially on radio) are in an ever-shrinking minority.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: i well recall Art L. and his afternoon TV program.===JACK: I've got an idea...How about "Pastors say the darndest things...a series of misspeaks in the pulpit." I've had my share...and know of friends who have done the same.===SP: this is a true story. a classmate of mine from seminary (David Isaacson) was preaching one morning at his church in Augusta, Maine. he had been sick all week and was on some strong cold medicine. anyway, at some point in the sermon he wanted to use the word organism and instead orgasm came out loud and clear. it was a sermon not easily forgotten by all who were in church that morning.===JACK: I can't top that one---...although a friend of mine was describing how certain religious groups would wear black garments. He muffed it and said black garters instead of black garments.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I'm old enough to remember Art L. very well, and he was great at eliciting family humor! MAYA ANGELOU once said, "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude!" She also had a way with words! Sometimes gracious acceptance of a circumstance is one's only option!===JACK: I think that most parents and grandparents can recall humorous family incidents...and don't realize that they tell the same stories over and over again with the same "laugh."
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Art Linkletter was one of the best men on tv! It was the one program I would wait to watch! He was so great with those children! I bet you heard some funny sad and strange statements from little ones during Children’s Sermons!===JACK: It was Christ the King Sunday and I got some paper Burger King crowns for each child. I pasted "Christ the King" labels over the Burger King logo. I patientently explained what a king was and how Jesus was the REAL king. At the end I said, NOW, what does this crown remind you of?" ...and the kids shouted in unison, "BURGER KING!"
FROM BB IN CHGO: I vaguely remember him and “Kids Say” from my childhood. I never knew his interesting story and love this quote.===JACK: He had a way of "leading the kids on," so that they'd say the darndest things. He was a good M.C.
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Monday, March 18, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/18/19
“As long as I’m alive, I’ll keep my head up high…because I’m strong in body and smart in mind.” (Run DMC) A new gym opened in our town with slogans like: Planet Fitness may have saved my life and Judgment-free Zone and This is my Temple. Slogans can motivate us to action. To be invited to a judgment-free gym is a non-threatening welcome. Another gym offers this come-on…Everyone needs a tune-up. The Bible refers to the body as “the Temple of God.” Shape it up! ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: ...And laugh a lot! A good sense of humor cures almost all of life's problems. Never underestimate the power of a kind word or caring deed. If we're things to say and do! As Bill used to say after his heart arrest (on the handball court at the "Y" when he was 58) "Today is all you have for sure, make it count!". Time is fleeting...===JACK: I, too, played handball at the Y. It's a really strenuous sport, especially for those of us who are competitive. I probably stopped in my mid-forties. Keep your head up high, because that's who you are. Do you recall the expression, "Down in the dumps?" I don't here that much anymore.
FROM LBP: I am reading this while snacking on a piece of cheese. It's a comfort food weakness that I gave into. OK. Back to my "tidying up."===JACK: Do you have any (motivating) slogans at work? IMB used to have a "THINK" plaque on every employee's desk. I wonder if they still do? ...or if Nike workers told to "JUST DO IT!"
FROM PRAW IN ILLINOIS: And because I am a child of God! ===JACK: Tryggere kan ingen være etc.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I get mY workout with housework and gardening. Can't wait to get out there. I love the idea of a work out gym where they don't judge though. Great idea===JACK: Gyms were for basketball, not workouts, in "my day." Altho when I was in Elementary School we climbed poles and ropes in gym class...and were timed for how long it took to get to the top. FUN
“As long as I’m alive, I’ll keep my head up high…because I’m strong in body and smart in mind.” (Run DMC) A new gym opened in our town with slogans like: Planet Fitness may have saved my life and Judgment-free Zone and This is my Temple. Slogans can motivate us to action. To be invited to a judgment-free gym is a non-threatening welcome. Another gym offers this come-on…Everyone needs a tune-up. The Bible refers to the body as “the Temple of God.” Shape it up! ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: ...And laugh a lot! A good sense of humor cures almost all of life's problems. Never underestimate the power of a kind word or caring deed. If we're things to say and do! As Bill used to say after his heart arrest (on the handball court at the "Y" when he was 58) "Today is all you have for sure, make it count!". Time is fleeting...===JACK: I, too, played handball at the Y. It's a really strenuous sport, especially for those of us who are competitive. I probably stopped in my mid-forties. Keep your head up high, because that's who you are. Do you recall the expression, "Down in the dumps?" I don't here that much anymore.
FROM LBP: I am reading this while snacking on a piece of cheese. It's a comfort food weakness that I gave into.
Friday, March 15, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/15/19
“If you’re lucky, you won’t believe in luck.” (Nick Rodelo) A Michigan couple plays the lottery and in 55 weeks has won $27 million. No lucky numbers; no rubbing a rabbit’s foot. They simply figured out a way to beat the odds. The word, luck, has its origin with the Dutch. It means good fortune or happiness, like when the Publisher’s Clearing House knocks at your door. Real luck? It’s to know that God loves and cares for you and wants the best for you. ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: After a G’s stroke, I exclaimed to Rabbi L how lucky we were. His reply: “You are not lucky, you are BLESSED.” I have stopped saying that I am lucky when good things happen and replacing it with I am blessed! And yes, I am!===JACK: That same conversation has happened in my life recently, as well. I will want to talk with you about that when the "birds" fly back to Michigan.
FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH: However, I also believe that attitude is important; if you feel lucky, you will be lucky. Have a nice weekend and enjoy St. Patrick’s day.===JACK: Speaking of "luck of the Irish," are you who believes that finding a 4-leaf clover will bring good luck...or that some people are luckier than others? or, should I say, "Some people seem to be unluckier than others, regardless of attitude." ...but, you are right. Attitude can make a difference.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: I feel very lucky and count my blessings every day! Right now Ann and I are in Columbus Ohio to celebrate our great grandsons fifth birthday! We drove up yesterday through West Virginia and the Appalachians! What a beautiful country!===JACK: I would comment that you are "blessed." God is good!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I agree with those in your blog today that blessed is a better word than lucky, and like them, I feel truly blessed, in spite of some significant losses in my life.(And who
doesn't experience those, in old age?!) I can't recall which successful person said this, It might
have been Mr. Kraft speaking at Green Lake, WI, AB Conference Grounds, but I remember the quote: "The harder I work, the luckier I get~!" There's a lot of truth in that, and it stuck with me! :-)
===JACK: That quote was a hard one to trace. It is commonly (but falsely) attributed to Thomas Jefferson. The best evidence leads to someone named, Coleman Cox. I agree "Blessed" is a better word than "lucky."
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: Jack, i have always wondered where does the Pub. Clearing House sweepstakes get ALL that money they supposed give away??===JACK: PCH is a big company which sells lots of magazines and lots of ads. Their "orize" money is a drop in the bucket for them.
FROM LBP: Today's happy song: Good to be alive. Though it came out a couple of years ago with the Peanut's movie, I was "lucky" to hear it on my music streaming service. Happy Friday!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L6qQnQUAo0
===JACK: Yes, it is a great day to be alive...depending on your focus.===LBP: There are some really sucky things to focus on. Global warming and predicted destruction in my lifetime is among them. But, if you're just needing a boost, here is another little ditty.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkCyfBibIbI
===JACK: I have some good things to focus on...Thankfully!
FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH: Not particularly. Probably. You can say that. Happy St. Patrick’s day. Our house has lots of green today. Are you a UM and Mich State fan? Do you fill out a NCAA bracket sheet?===JACK: In your home September 29 should be far more important that March 17. I am a solid Univ of Michigan fan. I'm for any team that plays MSU. In fact, I may not watch this afternoon's game. I could not stand a 3-loss season to the Green & White (fans). And, NO, I don't fill out a bracket. Son David and daughter Jeanne are into that stuff. I suppose you do. BTW. Sept 29 is St. Michael's Day. It's also known as Goose Day, and a goose is eaten. There's a saying: "Eat a goose on St. Michael's Day...Want not for money all the year....so eating a goose is luckier for you than finding a 4-leaf clover.
“If you’re lucky, you won’t believe in luck.” (Nick Rodelo) A Michigan couple plays the lottery and in 55 weeks has won $27 million. No lucky numbers; no rubbing a rabbit’s foot. They simply figured out a way to beat the odds. The word, luck, has its origin with the Dutch. It means good fortune or happiness, like when the Publisher’s Clearing House knocks at your door. Real luck? It’s to know that God loves and cares for you and wants the best for you. ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: After a G’s stroke, I exclaimed to Rabbi L how lucky we were. His reply: “You are not lucky, you are BLESSED.” I have stopped saying that I am lucky when good things happen and replacing it with I am blessed! And yes, I am!===JACK: That same conversation has happened in my life recently, as well. I will want to talk with you about that when the "birds" fly back to Michigan.
FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH: However, I also believe that attitude is important; if you feel lucky, you will be lucky. Have a nice weekend and enjoy St. Patrick’s day.===JACK: Speaking of "luck of the Irish," are you who believes that finding a 4-leaf clover will bring good luck...or that some people are luckier than others? or, should I say, "Some people seem to be unluckier than others, regardless of attitude." ...but, you are right. Attitude can make a difference.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: I feel very lucky and count my blessings every day! Right now Ann and I are in Columbus Ohio to celebrate our great grandsons fifth birthday! We drove up yesterday through West Virginia and the Appalachians! What a beautiful country!===JACK: I would comment that you are "blessed." God is good!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I agree with those in your blog today that blessed is a better word than lucky, and like them, I feel truly blessed, in spite of some significant losses in my life.(And who
doesn't experience those, in old age?!) I can't recall which successful person said this, It might
have been Mr. Kraft speaking at Green Lake, WI, AB Conference Grounds, but I remember the quote: "The harder I work, the luckier I get~!" There's a lot of truth in that, and it stuck with me! :-)
===JACK: That quote was a hard one to trace. It is commonly (but falsely) attributed to Thomas Jefferson. The best evidence leads to someone named, Coleman Cox. I agree "Blessed" is a better word than "lucky."
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: Jack, i have always wondered where does the Pub. Clearing House sweepstakes get ALL that money they supposed give away??===JACK: PCH is a big company which sells lots of magazines and lots of ads. Their "orize" money is a drop in the bucket for them.
FROM LBP: Today's happy song: Good to be alive. Though it came out a couple of years ago with the Peanut's movie, I was "lucky" to hear it on my music streaming service. Happy Friday!! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6L6qQnQUAo0
===JACK: Yes, it is a great day to be alive...depending on your focus.===LBP: There are some really sucky things to focus on. Global warming and predicted destruction in my lifetime is among them. But, if you're just needing a boost, here is another little ditty.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkCyfBibIbI
===JACK: I have some good things to focus on...Thankfully!
FROM ME IN NEWPORT BEACH: Not particularly. Probably. You can say that. Happy St. Patrick’s day. Our house has lots of green today. Are you a UM and Mich State fan? Do you fill out a NCAA bracket sheet?===JACK: In your home September 29 should be far more important that March 17. I am a solid Univ of Michigan fan. I'm for any team that plays MSU. In fact, I may not watch this afternoon's game. I could not stand a 3-loss season to the Green & White (fans). And, NO, I don't fill out a bracket. Son David and daughter Jeanne are into that stuff. I suppose you do. BTW. Sept 29 is St. Michael's Day. It's also known as Goose Day, and a goose is eaten. There's a saying: "Eat a goose on St. Michael's Day...Want not for money all the year....so eating a goose is luckier for you than finding a 4-leaf clover.
Thursday, March 14, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/14/19
“To begin, begin within.” (William Wordsworth) I wonder who first came up with the terms, inner self and outer self? As I understand it, what we are inside determines the outside we show to others. It’s the inner self that causes the outer self to get things done. Perhaps you’re facing a dilemma…what to do, or what to say. Listen to that voice inside. Conscience? A little boy’s stomach gurgled. “I think God’s talking to me.” Has your stomach gurgled lately? ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: That reminds me of what my girlfriend, who is a social worker says to me: “Girl, you’ve got to find your inner bitch!” Funny. I have found my voice over the years...hope it’s not my ‘bitch!’ Haha! It’s a relief to express my views when appropriate! I was very quiet for a very long time!===JACK: You have a very wise girlfriend. It's good to be bitchy without being bitchy. Isn't it fun to be with someone when you don't have to wear a mask?
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Neat turn of phrase. Our inner conscience usually guides pretty strongly, if we follow it. But there are times we don't use good judgment, which brings regrets. As the plaque I saw says, "There are four things you can't recover: The Stone after the throw; The Word after it's said; The Occasion after it is missed; The Time after it's gone." Good to remember!===JACK: Intuition or "gut feeling" are other good expressions.
“To begin, begin within.” (William Wordsworth) I wonder who first came up with the terms, inner self and outer self? As I understand it, what we are inside determines the outside we show to others. It’s the inner self that causes the outer self to get things done. Perhaps you’re facing a dilemma…what to do, or what to say. Listen to that voice inside. Conscience? A little boy’s stomach gurgled. “I think God’s talking to me.” Has your stomach gurgled lately? ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: That reminds me of what my girlfriend, who is a social worker says to me: “Girl, you’ve got to find your inner bitch!” Funny. I have found my voice over the years...hope it’s not my ‘bitch!’ Haha! It’s a relief to express my views when appropriate! I was very quiet for a very long time!===JACK: You have a very wise girlfriend. It's good to be bitchy without being bitchy. Isn't it fun to be with someone when you don't have to wear a mask?
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Neat turn of phrase. Our inner conscience usually guides pretty strongly, if we follow it. But there are times we don't use good judgment, which brings regrets. As the plaque I saw says, "There are four things you can't recover: The Stone after the throw; The Word after it's said; The Occasion after it is missed; The Time after it's gone." Good to remember!===JACK: Intuition or "gut feeling" are other good expressions.
Wednesday, March 13, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/13/19
“Don’t confuse being soft with seeing the other guy’s point of view.” (George H.W. Bush) Love him, or not, “H.W.” knew how politics works. You can’t get your way all of the time. “Give a little, take a little.” It’s called compromise. If you think you’re right, it’s hard to give, even a little. But it doesn’t hurt to try and see things from a different perspective. I don’t know much about Henry Clay as a legislator, but I admire that he was called, The Great Compromiser. ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: ‘If you have to choose between being right and being kind, choose kindness. Kindness is always right’.===JACK: You're right!...and you're kind, too. Perfect!
FROM QUILTING CAROL: Yeah! I’m back in the circle again!
I agree that many of our today’s politicians can’t even try to see another person’s point of view…and I’m beginning to see some non-political people leaning that way also. We can’t all be right all the time. Marriage is one BIG compromise. Wonder if that is a big reason why so many don’t last these days. Have an exploring day!===JACK: You hit the nail on the head,, as the saying goes.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: if i recall, he was also a staunch defender of slavery leading up to the Civil War. ===JACK: While slavery was a significant issue, I think that the underlying issue was state's rights. When there are multiple sides to an issue, whatever it is, compromisers are needed.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: As Alan Simpson (former U.S. Sen.) said in the Boston Globe: "Those who take the high road of humility in Washington DC are not bothered by heavy traffic." Our country is in such a Quagmire, that compromise is a dirty word! Good manners and kindness will always be the mark of a decent human being. And often the "opposition" might have a valid point, if
we listen hard enough!===JACK: It's not just in politics...it's in religion, too...and in family situations, also. Learning and practicing compromise is not always an easy lesson. Each of us has to work at it.===OAKS: That reminds me of an incident when we were first married. I said that I'd always heard the 1st;year of marriage was difficult; so many adjustments and compromises had to
be made....I hadn't noticed it was that hard....Bill slyly suggested that maybe that was because I hadn't made most of the adjustments! :-) OOPS!===JACK: Thanks for the advice.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Mother was a republican- she worked for them and Dad was a Democrat-a strong union man! They were marrried for almost 73 years. So it definitely czar work to compromise! ===JACK: I think that it would be more of a strain these days. The Trump Divide is like nothing I've seen before.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Oh how we need compromise! So many needed issues could be worked on and perhaps even fixed!!!===JACK: I'm usually optimistic, but I've learned that there are limits. Right now, I'm depending on God to bring about judgment.
FROM HUNGRY HOWIE: Read about the Missouri comprise===JACK: Yes, Henry had feet of clay, but I admire anyone who seeks to help people understand one another and work for a common good.===HOWIE: Hahahahaha good pun. I agree that he did his best at compromising and maintaining A common good. The problem through arises when something so repugnant and evil such as slavery exists, compromise seems in itself morally bankrupt. It’s a difficult decision to know when to compromise and when to stay firm in your position Most always compromise will work. But there are times that it just won’t===JACK: When people refuse to compromise, this can lead to conciliatory divorce, or to war. While slavery appeared to be the issue, states rights was the real issue...and it's an underlying issue, still! Too much guvermint!.
FROM QUILTING CAROL: I agree that many of our today’s politicians can’t even try to see another person’s point of view…and I’m beginning to see some non-political people leaning that way also. We can’t all be right all the time. Marriage is one BIG compromise. Wonder if that is a big reason why so many don’t last these days. Have an exploring day!===JACK: The Boomers (born: 1946-1964) have been called the "Me Generation." Narcissism (it's all about ME!) DJT was born in 1946. Should we be surprised? But, there are exceptions to generalities.
“Don’t confuse being soft with seeing the other guy’s point of view.” (George H.W. Bush) Love him, or not, “H.W.” knew how politics works. You can’t get your way all of the time. “Give a little, take a little.” It’s called compromise. If you think you’re right, it’s hard to give, even a little. But it doesn’t hurt to try and see things from a different perspective. I don’t know much about Henry Clay as a legislator, but I admire that he was called, The Great Compromiser. ;-) Jack
FROM SF IN FLA: ‘If you have to choose between being right and being kind, choose kindness. Kindness is always right’.===JACK: You're right!...and you're kind, too. Perfect!
FROM QUILTING CAROL: Yeah! I’m back in the circle again!
I agree that many of our today’s politicians can’t even try to see another person’s point of view…and I’m beginning to see some non-political people leaning that way also. We can’t all be right all the time. Marriage is one BIG compromise. Wonder if that is a big reason why so many don’t last these days. Have an exploring day!===JACK: You hit the nail on the head,, as the saying goes.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: if i recall, he was also a staunch defender of slavery leading up to the Civil War. ===JACK: While slavery was a significant issue, I think that the underlying issue was state's rights. When there are multiple sides to an issue, whatever it is, compromisers are needed.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: As Alan Simpson (former U.S. Sen.) said in the Boston Globe: "Those who take the high road of humility in Washington DC are not bothered by heavy traffic." Our country is in such a Quagmire, that compromise is a dirty word! Good manners and kindness will always be the mark of a decent human being. And often the "opposition" might have a valid point, if
we listen hard enough!===JACK: It's not just in politics...it's in religion, too...and in family situations, also. Learning and practicing compromise is not always an easy lesson. Each of us has to work at it.===OAKS: That reminds me of an incident when we were first married. I said that I'd always heard the 1st;year of marriage was difficult; so many adjustments and compromises had to
be made....I hadn't noticed it was that hard....Bill slyly suggested that maybe that was because I hadn't made most of the adjustments! :-) OOPS!===JACK: Thanks for the advice.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Mother was a republican- she worked for them and Dad was a Democrat-a strong union man! They were marrried for almost 73 years. So it definitely czar work to compromise! ===JACK: I think that it would be more of a strain these days. The Trump Divide is like nothing I've seen before.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Oh how we need compromise! So many needed issues could be worked on and perhaps even fixed!!!===JACK: I'm usually optimistic, but I've learned that there are limits. Right now, I'm depending on God to bring about judgment.
FROM HUNGRY HOWIE: Read about the Missouri comprise===JACK: Yes, Henry had feet of clay, but I admire anyone who seeks to help people understand one another and work for a common good.===HOWIE: Hahahahaha good pun. I agree that he did his best at compromising and maintaining A common good. The problem through arises when something so repugnant and evil such as slavery exists, compromise seems in itself morally bankrupt. It’s a difficult decision to know when to compromise and when to stay firm in your position Most always compromise will work. But there are times that it just won’t===JACK: When people refuse to compromise, this can lead to conciliatory divorce, or to war. While slavery appeared to be the issue, states rights was the real issue...and it's an underlying issue, still! Too much guvermint!.
FROM QUILTING CAROL: I agree that many of our today’s politicians can’t even try to see another person’s point of view…and I’m beginning to see some non-political people leaning that way also. We can’t all be right all the time. Marriage is one BIG compromise. Wonder if that is a big reason why so many don’t last these days. Have an exploring day!===JACK: The Boomers (born: 1946-1964) have been called the "Me Generation." Narcissism (it's all about ME!) DJT was born in 1946. Should we be surprised? But, there are exceptions to generalities.
Tuesday, March 12, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/12/19
“Bacchus has drowned more men than Neptune.” (Thomas Fuller) Do you get the irony? Bacchus was the Roman God of wine and Neptune, the God of water. Alcoholism is no laughing matter. Ask someone who’s lived with it. In fact, substance abuse of any kind can be a real home wrecker and job destroyer. Most communities have available help…AA or NA meetings. There’s help, too, for those living with the abuser. Is today the day to decide? ;-) Jack
FROM JB IN OLV: As a daughter of an alcoholic mother. The damage alcohol does not only to the drinker but to everybody around them is beyond description. I pray that you post will move a reader that might be on the fence about getting help-to take action and attend a meeting.===JACK: Alcoholism in my family, too. Not fun!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Seeing the look on his mother's face when his brother came home tipsy (A Sr. in H.S.), Bill vowed never to be responsible for doing that to her...he was a teetotaler and often took the brunt of jokes because of it in the service, and college, but he was also respected for it.
His experience in the ministry validated that decision, when he dealt with family situations concerning alcohol. So much misery caused by its misuse, or overuse! When our sons would question why one beer would matter, his reply was, "I've seen so much misery caused by the use of alcohol, I wouldn't support it with one nickel of my money." We enjoyed a great life without imbibing... Bacchus has drowned a great many unfortunately. A clever warning in WW today. ===JACK: I wonder what is the tipping point between social drinking and becoming an alcoholic? I don't want to test it...so I'll take some 7-UP. BTW, 7-UP was first marketed as seven ounces compared to ONLY 6 ounces for Coca Cola. Pepsi Cola came on the market offering "12 full ounces,,,twice as much for a nickle, too."
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: Jack, will forward a piece from Concordia College. Scroll down for an interesting article about Coya Knutson. A CC grad and the first women from MN to be elected to Congress. Her hubby was a raging alcoholic but it was not made public until much later. a good read....."Although Knutson desired to start a family, she suffered two miscarriages and was unable to conceive thereafter. She hoped that having a child in her home would ease the tension in her marriage and turned towards adoption. Her husband, Andy, was against the idea initially, but begrudgingly relented, and Knutson brought home seven-year-old Terrence “Terry” in 1948. Upon their arrival in Oklee, Andy drunkenly regarded the young boy with an unwelcome statement: “Go back where you came from - we don’t want you around here.” Although Knutson was disappointed with her husband’s reception of their new son, she promptly accepted that raising Terry would be her own responsibility - one she took on willingly and wholeheartedly."===JACK: Many tears, I'm sure!
“Bacchus has drowned more men than Neptune.” (Thomas Fuller) Do you get the irony? Bacchus was the Roman God of wine and Neptune, the God of water. Alcoholism is no laughing matter. Ask someone who’s lived with it. In fact, substance abuse of any kind can be a real home wrecker and job destroyer. Most communities have available help…AA or NA meetings. There’s help, too, for those living with the abuser. Is today the day to decide? ;-) Jack
FROM JB IN OLV: As a daughter of an alcoholic mother. The damage alcohol does not only to the drinker but to everybody around them is beyond description. I pray that you post will move a reader that might be on the fence about getting help-to take action and attend a meeting.===JACK: Alcoholism in my family, too. Not fun!
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Seeing the look on his mother's face when his brother came home tipsy (A Sr. in H.S.), Bill vowed never to be responsible for doing that to her...he was a teetotaler and often took the brunt of jokes because of it in the service, and college, but he was also respected for it.
His experience in the ministry validated that decision, when he dealt with family situations concerning alcohol. So much misery caused by its misuse, or overuse! When our sons would question why one beer would matter, his reply was, "I've seen so much misery caused by the use of alcohol, I wouldn't support it with one nickel of my money." We enjoyed a great life without imbibing... Bacchus has drowned a great many unfortunately. A clever warning in WW today. ===JACK: I wonder what is the tipping point between social drinking and becoming an alcoholic? I don't want to test it...so I'll take some 7-UP. BTW, 7-UP was first marketed as seven ounces compared to ONLY 6 ounces for Coca Cola. Pepsi Cola came on the market offering "12 full ounces,,,twice as much for a nickle, too."
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: Jack, will forward a piece from Concordia College. Scroll down for an interesting article about Coya Knutson. A CC grad and the first women from MN to be elected to Congress. Her hubby was a raging alcoholic but it was not made public until much later. a good read....."Although Knutson desired to start a family, she suffered two miscarriages and was unable to conceive thereafter. She hoped that having a child in her home would ease the tension in her marriage and turned towards adoption. Her husband, Andy, was against the idea initially, but begrudgingly relented, and Knutson brought home seven-year-old Terrence “Terry” in 1948. Upon their arrival in Oklee, Andy drunkenly regarded the young boy with an unwelcome statement: “Go back where you came from - we don’t want you around here.” Although Knutson was disappointed with her husband’s reception of their new son, she promptly accepted that raising Terry would be her own responsibility - one she took on willingly and wholeheartedly."===JACK: Many tears, I'm sure!
Monday, March 11, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/11/19
“Something to keep in mind… When one thing comes to an end, another thing begins.” (From the movie, Love Happens) These words were said as the Jennifer Anniston movie was ending…a great wrap-up of the story. It happens in real-life, too. Tragedy isn’t always the end. The song, “Look for the Silver Lining” was written after WW 1. Enough of that war stuff…and the Roaring Twenties came along. Having a bad day? A new and better day is ahead! ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Jan and I used to sing that old song "Look For...Lining" way back in H.S. when we'd go out to do programs for Rotary, or Kiwanis, etc. Memories s of long ago. The something that begins after something ends, especially, where love is concerned, can be quite A different life....satisfying in many ways, but never the same...Still, every age has its blessings. It is wonderful that you can continue your WW (in any; way that works!) . I enjoy chatting with you every day. Kind of late in the day today! Had my garage door fixed, a dental app't. for cleaning (always thankful that's all I needed!), take money to a friend who lost her glasses, and didn't have the means to replace them, dinner with John and Jan, who are doing well, now that Martha's funeral is over and all our family has left, as of last night. I needed to put my feet up and catch up with the 3 newspapers I haven'[t had time to read this past weekend! :-) Stay well, dear Jack! Enjoying the milder weather! ===JACK: Songs are great when they have a catchy tune, but even better with meaningful lyrics. "look for the Silver Lining" is a perfect example. "When You're Smiling" is another. So many!
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: The sun is shining, I woke up and I’m where I want to be! God is Good!===JACK: I like seasonal weather...it makes me appreciate the comings and goings of winter, spring, summer and fall. No snowbirding for me.
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Enjoy each day!===JACK: From what I recall, you learned that lesson from your mother.===SHIRL: Probably and just from living for a long time!
“Something to keep in mind… When one thing comes to an end, another thing begins.” (From the movie, Love Happens) These words were said as the Jennifer Anniston movie was ending…a great wrap-up of the story. It happens in real-life, too. Tragedy isn’t always the end. The song, “Look for the Silver Lining” was written after WW 1. Enough of that war stuff…and the Roaring Twenties came along. Having a bad day? A new and better day is ahead! ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Jan and I used to sing that old song "Look For...Lining" way back in H.S. when we'd go out to do programs for Rotary, or Kiwanis, etc. Memories s of long ago. The something that begins after something ends, especially, where love is concerned, can be quite A different life....satisfying in many ways, but never the same...Still, every age has its blessings. It is wonderful that you can continue your WW (in any; way that works!) . I enjoy chatting with you every day. Kind of late in the day today! Had my garage door fixed, a dental app't. for cleaning (always thankful that's all I needed!), take money to a friend who lost her glasses, and didn't have the means to replace them, dinner with John and Jan, who are doing well, now that Martha's funeral is over and all our family has left, as of last night. I needed to put my feet up and catch up with the 3 newspapers I haven'[t had time to read this past weekend! :-) Stay well, dear Jack! Enjoying the milder weather! ===JACK: Songs are great when they have a catchy tune, but even better with meaningful lyrics. "look for the Silver Lining" is a perfect example. "When You're Smiling" is another. So many!
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: The sun is shining, I woke up and I’m where I want to be! God is Good!===JACK: I like seasonal weather...it makes me appreciate the comings and goings of winter, spring, summer and fall. No snowbirding for me.
Friday, March 08, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/8/19
“That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Shakespeare) Sydney J. Harris wrote a book, Things I Learned While Looking Up Other Things. In researching the Shakespeare quote, I learned that German Chocolate Cake didn’t come from Germany, but from a baker named, German…that the term, Big Bang Theory was a sarcastic remark. The real name of the theory is the Primeval Atom. Do you know of anyone who goes by a name other than their given name? ;-) Jack (John)
FROM TA,PA SHIRL: That is all very interesting! No I cannot think of anyone like that! ===JACK: Not even grandchildren or great-grandchildren? No nicknames? Do you remember Lavern "Stinky" Trevarrow? We used to call him "Stink."
FROM HONEST JOHN: Everyone who is anyone knows that German Chocolate Cake comes from Germany....I call this a blatant case of anti-Deutschlandism....I, frankly, am not surprised that you pass on myths such as this!!!!===JACK: You're wrong, because I read that "fact" on the internet. For once, you are the dupee."===JOHN: I am going this evening to a friend's house who will be serving us sauerbraten.....she grew up in Germany and is a wonderful cook. I will tell her about the abomination that I read today in your WW column. Only someone from Moline would suggest that. What next?..... That lutefisk is from Spain?===JACK: My son-in-law's boss is Joe Swedish. I think that his wife's recipe is used to make Swedish Pancakes.
FROM VW MARY: Are you seeing the sunrise? Spectacular!!!!!===JACK: My office is on the west side of the house. I just see sunsets.
FROM EMT SINGS: I especially enjoyed your WW today. I am currently writing my memories in a little book entitled "Uniquely Eunice" It is very fun and intended to be for my family. It includes many of the things I have written over the years: poems, inspired epiphanies, and some really profound thoughts for the day! Who knows--you may make my book!===JACK: You are certainly a gregarious person, so many people have walked life's path with you. I'm glad to have been one of them.
FROM SPARTY JS: Yes, me! Joey.😂===JACK: Joey could be a nickname for...Joelle Josephine, Joanna, Johannah, Johnna, Jolene, Jolie, Jordyn, Jovanna, Joy, or some other.
FROM MARMAR: Just wondering: do you know why it is that men named John often go by the name Jack?===JACK: In my case, I was named after my Uncle John. In order to avoid confusion, I was nicknamed, Jack. Now, probably more than you wanted to know...Jack is thought to have originated in medieval times as a common derivative of the name John. The diminutive of Jack is thought by some to have hailed from the earlier Jackin (from the name Jankin)., it may be derived from the name Jacques, the French form of the name James or Jacob. There is also a theory that it is Celtic in origin, meaning "healthy, strong, full of vital energy" (compare the Welsh word iach, "health"), from a putative Ancient British Yakkios. Whatever its origins, both the name and the word "jack" were long used as a term to refer to any man, especially of the common classes.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: We loved Sydney Harris's column in the newspaper, and his books! Mark was called "Oaksie" by all his friends, and that was part of his name in his obit. (Mark "Oaksie" Oaks....) John was, and is, "Joker" to his friends. His reputation for practical jokes initiated it. Sarah is "Sooz". Fred has been "Fredo"" (Fraydo) in the family...started when some book we were reading had characters ending in "o". Might have been "The Hobbitt". The twins were usually Mar and Jan...
Enjoyed the WW today.===JACK: Isn't it fun to reca;; some of the nicknames from the past? Of course some would be politically incorrect today...but that was then, and now is now..
“That which we call a rose by any other name would smell as sweet.” (Shakespeare) Sydney J. Harris wrote a book, Things I Learned While Looking Up Other Things. In researching the Shakespeare quote, I learned that German Chocolate Cake didn’t come from Germany, but from a baker named, German…that the term, Big Bang Theory was a sarcastic remark. The real name of the theory is the Primeval Atom. Do you know of anyone who goes by a name other than their given name? ;-) Jack (John)
FROM TA,PA SHIRL: That is all very interesting! No I cannot think of anyone like that! ===JACK: Not even grandchildren or great-grandchildren? No nicknames? Do you remember Lavern "Stinky" Trevarrow? We used to call him "Stink."
FROM HONEST JOHN: Everyone who is anyone knows that German Chocolate Cake comes from Germany....I call this a blatant case of anti-Deutschlandism....I, frankly, am not surprised that you pass on myths such as this!!!!===JACK: You're wrong, because I read that "fact" on the internet. For once, you are the dupee."===JOHN: I am going this evening to a friend's house who will be serving us sauerbraten.....she grew up in Germany and is a wonderful cook. I will tell her about the abomination that I read today in your WW column. Only someone from Moline would suggest that. What next?..... That lutefisk is from Spain?===JACK: My son-in-law's boss is Joe Swedish. I think that his wife's recipe is used to make Swedish Pancakes.
FROM VW MARY: Are you seeing the sunrise? Spectacular!!!!!===JACK: My office is on the west side of the house. I just see sunsets.
FROM EMT SINGS: I especially enjoyed your WW today. I am currently writing my memories in a little book entitled "Uniquely Eunice" It is very fun and intended to be for my family. It includes many of the things I have written over the years: poems, inspired epiphanies, and some really profound thoughts for the day! Who knows--you may make my book!===JACK: You are certainly a gregarious person, so many people have walked life's path with you. I'm glad to have been one of them.
FROM SPARTY JS: Yes, me! Joey.😂===JACK: Joey could be a nickname for...Joelle Josephine, Joanna, Johannah, Johnna, Jolene, Jolie, Jordyn, Jovanna, Joy, or some other.
FROM MARMAR: Just wondering: do you know why it is that men named John often go by the name Jack?===JACK: In my case, I was named after my Uncle John. In order to avoid confusion, I was nicknamed, Jack. Now, probably more than you wanted to know...Jack is thought to have originated in medieval times as a common derivative of the name John. The diminutive of Jack is thought by some to have hailed from the earlier Jackin (from the name Jankin)., it may be derived from the name Jacques, the French form of the name James or Jacob. There is also a theory that it is Celtic in origin, meaning "healthy, strong, full of vital energy" (compare the Welsh word iach, "health"), from a putative Ancient British Yakkios. Whatever its origins, both the name and the word "jack" were long used as a term to refer to any man, especially of the common classes.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: We loved Sydney Harris's column in the newspaper, and his books! Mark was called "Oaksie" by all his friends, and that was part of his name in his obit. (Mark "Oaksie" Oaks....) John was, and is, "Joker" to his friends. His reputation for practical jokes initiated it. Sarah is "Sooz". Fred has been "Fredo"" (Fraydo) in the family...started when some book we were reading had characters ending in "o". Might have been "The Hobbitt". The twins were usually Mar and Jan...
Enjoyed the WW today.===JACK: Isn't it fun to reca;; some of the nicknames from the past? Of course some would be politically incorrect today...but that was then, and now is now..
Thursday, March 07, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/7/19
“I can dream of the old days…Let the memory live again.” (Webber/Nunn) I have a fond memory of being in Toronto and seeing the musical, Cats. 4th row on the aisle. Great show and great music, especially the song, Memory. One of life’s blessings is to be able to recall… the good times, the people. How sad when the memory fades. Today, why not spend some time dreaming about the old days. What comes to your mind? Let the memory live again! ;-) Jack
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: My first trip to California in 1946 and moving to the Bahamas in 1958 and then to Ann Arbor in 1961 and finally to Florida in 1963! It has been a great journey.===JACK: Yes, you have worn your traveling boots quite often. Your Eastern experience certainly has made it easier, too.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: a very happy and carefree childhood in Ferguson, MO, (of all places). it was wonderful. almost every memory makes me smile. take care, Jack. and you TOO are a good memory of mine from as far back as 1972!===JACK: The first days of ministry bring back good memories, don't they? ...at least for me.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: The huge family parties on Saturdays. There would be my two sets of grandparents, and 5 sets of aunts and uncles and 29 kids all ages. We had a huge double lot and had a full baseball diamond on the grassy lot. The Tiger Baseball game would be on and all of us kids, except the babies, played baseball. Then we’d have a water game, play games, climb trees, play in the empty count ditch. We were outside all day. There were big tubs of ice...one filled with beer and one filled with pop and juice. More often then not, there were friends and neighbors over too. What a wonderfully blessed time!!!===JACK: No wonder they're called "the good old days. They really were.
FROM MPPD: I always liked that song. Did you ever see the original 1982 movie Blade Runner? As he is dying at the end, Rutger Hauer has this fairly famous line referencing memories: ===JACK: I've got to check that out. Isn't it interesting how memories come back to us at strange times? Today is poignant for me.
FROM MY LAWYER: At the moment, March Madness!!!===JACK: So many hopes that the beginning...and only one survives to cut down the nets....and, the, it's "wait 'til next year."
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Memories ARE so precious! I witnessed this firsthand when my twin had the stroke that wiped out her memories. It was devastating for her, and the entire family...not to
remember growing up with siblings, having and raising your children, your marriage...having to re-learn everything...What a blessing to recall and relive highlights in your past! I agree that Cats is one the most innovative musicals ever written, and "Memory" is a great song. It is being presented in Springfield again in late March, and I'll be there! :-)===JACK: I can't imagine what it's like, not to be able to recall. We that so many things, like memory, for granted. We are blessed in so many ways. I remember one time when I was on a hayride with the twins. They were the life of the party!
“I can dream of the old days…Let the memory live again.” (Webber/Nunn) I have a fond memory of being in Toronto and seeing the musical, Cats. 4th row on the aisle. Great show and great music, especially the song, Memory. One of life’s blessings is to be able to recall… the good times, the people. How sad when the memory fades. Today, why not spend some time dreaming about the old days. What comes to your mind? Let the memory live again! ;-) Jack
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: My first trip to California in 1946 and moving to the Bahamas in 1958 and then to Ann Arbor in 1961 and finally to Florida in 1963! It has been a great journey.===JACK: Yes, you have worn your traveling boots quite often. Your Eastern experience certainly has made it easier, too.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: a very happy and carefree childhood in Ferguson, MO, (of all places). it was wonderful. almost every memory makes me smile. take care, Jack. and you TOO are a good memory of mine from as far back as 1972!===JACK: The first days of ministry bring back good memories, don't they? ...at least for me.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: The huge family parties on Saturdays. There would be my two sets of grandparents, and 5 sets of aunts and uncles and 29 kids all ages. We had a huge double lot and had a full baseball diamond on the grassy lot. The Tiger Baseball game would be on and all of us kids, except the babies, played baseball. Then we’d have a water game, play games, climb trees, play in the empty count ditch. We were outside all day. There were big tubs of ice...one filled with beer and one filled with pop and juice. More often then not, there were friends and neighbors over too. What a wonderfully blessed time!!!===JACK: No wonder they're called "the good old days. They really were.
FROM MPPD: I always liked that song. Did you ever see the original 1982 movie Blade Runner? As he is dying at the end, Rutger Hauer has this fairly famous line referencing memories: ===JACK: I've got to check that out. Isn't it interesting how memories come back to us at strange times? Today is poignant for me.
FROM MY LAWYER: At the moment, March Madness!!!===JACK: So many hopes that the beginning...and only one survives to cut down the nets....and, the, it's "wait 'til next year."
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Memories ARE so precious! I witnessed this firsthand when my twin had the stroke that wiped out her memories. It was devastating for her, and the entire family...not to
remember growing up with siblings, having and raising your children, your marriage...having to re-learn everything...What a blessing to recall and relive highlights in your past! I agree that Cats is one the most innovative musicals ever written, and "Memory" is a great song. It is being presented in Springfield again in late March, and I'll be there! :-)===JACK: I can't imagine what it's like, not to be able to recall. We that so many things, like memory, for granted. We are blessed in so many ways. I remember one time when I was on a hayride with the twins. They were the life of the party!
Wednesday, March 06, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/6/19
“Remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.” (Genesis 3:19) As someone got on the elevator, one of the riders said, “You’ve got some dirt on your forehead; let me wipe it off.” It was Ash Wednesday, and the “dirt” was ashes put on the person’s head by a priest as a reminder that, “as we live, we shall also eventually die.” We need to be reminded that there is a finiteness to life…that we are to make the best use of the time that is ours. ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: My pastor son Fred quoted that same passage today, as we remembered Bill's 92nd b.day. He reminded us, too of a poem his dad once used in his sermon and which he has since used. It's pretty memorable!
There are many men who creep into this world to eat and sleep, And know no reason why they're born Save only to consume the corn Devour the cattle, bread and fish and leave behind an empty dish. And if their tombstone when they die were not to flatter or to lie, The best thing then, which could be said is that they've eaten up their bread, drank up their drink, and gone to bed. :-(
Hopefully we can spend our lives for Something that will change the world a little bit! As John Pavlovitz wrote (Hope and Other Superpowers: A life-affirming, Love-defending, Butt-kicking, World-Saving Manifesto) "At the end of our time here, the world will either be more, or less kind, compassionate, generous, funny, creative, and loving because of your presence in it---And YOU get to choose!" Good thought to keep in mind!===JACK: Some pastors (related to you) have been able to paint beautiful pictures with words.:
FROM OP MV: I went to church this morning, got the ashes and the same message.===JACK: Did anyone comment on the ashes? Did you see them on other people?===MV: No comments. I saw them on several others.
“Remember that you are dust and to dust you shall return.” (Genesis 3:19) As someone got on the elevator, one of the riders said, “You’ve got some dirt on your forehead; let me wipe it off.” It was Ash Wednesday, and the “dirt” was ashes put on the person’s head by a priest as a reminder that, “as we live, we shall also eventually die.” We need to be reminded that there is a finiteness to life…that we are to make the best use of the time that is ours. ;-) Jack
FROM BLAZING OAKS: My pastor son Fred quoted that same passage today, as we remembered Bill's 92nd b.day. He reminded us, too of a poem his dad once used in his sermon and which he has since used. It's pretty memorable!
There are many men who creep into this world to eat and sleep, And know no reason why they're born Save only to consume the corn Devour the cattle, bread and fish and leave behind an empty dish. And if their tombstone when they die were not to flatter or to lie, The best thing then, which could be said is that they've eaten up their bread, drank up their drink, and gone to bed. :-(
Hopefully we can spend our lives for Something that will change the world a little bit! As John Pavlovitz wrote (Hope and Other Superpowers: A life-affirming, Love-defending, Butt-kicking, World-Saving Manifesto) "At the end of our time here, the world will either be more, or less kind, compassionate, generous, funny, creative, and loving because of your presence in it---And YOU get to choose!" Good thought to keep in mind!===JACK: Some pastors (related to you) have been able to paint beautiful pictures with words.:
FROM OP MV: I went to church this morning, got the ashes and the same message.===JACK: Did anyone comment on the ashes? Did you see them on other people?===MV: No comments. I saw them on several others.
Tuesday, March 05, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/5/19
“No matter how you pronounce ‘pÄ…czki’ just don’t call it a donut.” (Unknown) The day before Ash Wednesday is known as Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday), a day to use up all the lard, sugar, eggs and fruit in the house, because their consumption was forbidden by fasting practices during Lent. PÄ…czki Day is a BIG deal around Detroit. POONCH-key (or PAUNCH-key for dieters) are deep-fried jelly or custard filled donuts (I eat two)…a fun and tasty religious custom. ;-) Jack
FROM BS IN ENGLAND: Absolutely! I remember delicious paczki. We would send Roger, Ramelle's husband to Detroit to buy them. Today in England is called Shrove Tuesday and pancakes will be made using flour, eggs and milk. Butter is melted in a hot frying pan and a little of the mixture cooked on one side then flipped over and cooked on that side. Once cooked they are spread with whatever one likes. I prefer lemon juice and sugar rolled and eaten! Yummy! Tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and I will attend a Holy Communion service in which the Imposition of Ashes, from last years palm crosses, will be signed as a cross on our foreheads. Lent begins then.===JACK: Tonight my daughters and I will go out for a pancake supper...a tradition of ours. Did you ever participate in the race where women in Olney run while flipping a pancake in a frying pan? You'd probably do well in that race (senior dividion).===BS: No! I have never participated in a pancake race but the choir boys of Norwich Cathedral do in full robes. A sight to see!
FROM A ROSE IN BOSTON: Happy Fat Tuesday! I had the hardest time finding Paczki in Boston, but was able to order some from a deli in the Polish Triangle in Dorchester and get them delivered this morning! A delicious tradition at an important time of year; glad to be able to get that taste of home today.===JACK: When I get your, and other WW responses out of the way, it will be off' to Busch's for a raspberry and a custard. It's a great custom, isn't it?
“No matter how you pronounce ‘pÄ…czki’ just don’t call it a donut.” (Unknown) The day before Ash Wednesday is known as Mardi Gras (Fat Tuesday), a day to use up all the lard, sugar, eggs and fruit in the house, because their consumption was forbidden by fasting practices during Lent. PÄ…czki Day is a BIG deal around Detroit. POONCH-key (or PAUNCH-key for dieters) are deep-fried jelly or custard filled donuts (I eat two)…a fun and tasty religious custom. ;-) Jack
FROM BS IN ENGLAND: Absolutely! I remember delicious paczki. We would send Roger, Ramelle's husband to Detroit to buy them. Today in England is called Shrove Tuesday and pancakes will be made using flour, eggs and milk. Butter is melted in a hot frying pan and a little of the mixture cooked on one side then flipped over and cooked on that side. Once cooked they are spread with whatever one likes. I prefer lemon juice and sugar rolled and eaten! Yummy! Tomorrow is Ash Wednesday and I will attend a Holy Communion service in which the Imposition of Ashes, from last years palm crosses, will be signed as a cross on our foreheads. Lent begins then.===JACK: Tonight my daughters and I will go out for a pancake supper...a tradition of ours. Did you ever participate in the race where women in Olney run while flipping a pancake in a frying pan? You'd probably do well in that race (senior dividion).===BS: No! I have never participated in a pancake race but the choir boys of Norwich Cathedral do in full robes. A sight to see!
FROM A ROSE IN BOSTON: Happy Fat Tuesday! I had the hardest time finding Paczki in Boston, but was able to order some from a deli in the Polish Triangle in Dorchester and get them delivered this morning! A delicious tradition at an important time of year; glad to be able to get that taste of home today.===JACK: When I get your, and other WW responses out of the way, it will be off' to Busch's for a raspberry and a custard. It's a great custom, isn't it?
FROM TRIHARDER: My mother used to make them -- generally minus the filling.===JACK: I remember how my mother would deep-fry donut holes and how I'd wait impatiently for them to be done. When I was growing up, there wasn't a Fat Tuesday in our community, and jelly-filled donuts were called, Bismarks.===TH: I don't remember "fat Tuesday" until I became an adult, despite having several Polish-Catholic friends as a teenager. I think JP McCarthy's radio show introduced me to it. He also introduced me to "pie in the sky."===JACK: Generations younger than yours probably don't know who JP was. Do you remember "Night Flight 760." I liked that "all-nighter." The host was a WB resident.
FROM JE IN WLSD: FULL confession: I ate a half of chocolate paczki – split it with Liza. I bought six at the Bakery this morning. Enough. My friend Chuck, used to say: “Anyone who gives you a donut is not your friend.” Good to find out that a paczki is NOT a donut.===JACK: I'm glad that my doctor said that I'm at the right weight and that a few more calories won't hurt.
FROM VW MARY: Went to the senior center to get some this morning…I wanted raspberry, but they were gone, even though I was there about a minute after they supposedly went on sale…life is tough sometimes..(had to settle for strawberry)…got a couple for Denise and Pastor that I’ll take to church now, although they probably have a stash of their own already….Happy Fat Tuesday! ===JACK: The secret of being able to eat paczki, is pledging to do a Lenten fast...no more sweets.
FROM SHALOM JAN: Not sure if eating paczki is a religious tradition, but they sure taste good!
By the way, Paczki is plural. And, the Poles I went to school with at SS. Cyril & Methodius Seminary in Orchard Lake as well as the Polish member of Emmanuel, Ypsilanti, and a good friend in interim ministry taught me to say "paunch-key" with a sort-of Southern drawl. "Poonch-key" is for amateurs!===JACK: If you're so smart. can you spell the word without looking it up? and while you're at it, why is the bunny connected with Easter?===JAN: I don't know how to get the tail on the A===JACK: That's pretty hard to do, since the tail belongs on the c, but Google can do almost anything. The Polish alphabet includes certain letters with diacritics: the kreska or acute accent (ć, ń, ó, ś, ź); the overdot or kropka (ż); the tail or ogonek (ą, ę); and the stroke (ł).
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: Interesting! Never heard of that! Ann and I r having hot dogs at the Magic kingdom!===JACK: No more hot dogs for 40 days. What else are you giving up for Lent?
FROM AMcC: happy Mardi Gras===JACK: Have you ever been to New Orleans for Mardi Gras? We were there a week or two afterward, and there were still beads on the ground and in the bushes.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: better than Dunkin' Dounts???===JACK: One weighs about as much as a half dozen DDs.===SP: sounds like a real artery clogger for sure:):):)
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I've never heard of a Paczski!! I can tell I'd like it!! I am indulging in some home-made cinnamon rolls which are DELICIOUS from a friend who brot "sympathy" treats to John, Jan, & I. Anxious to hear more about your "friend"~! Glad to hear their is one! Makes life more fun and interesting, for sure.Tomorrow would have been Bill's 92nd b.day. I will have a
memoriam in the paper. No "friend" on this end...:-(===JACK: I think that the various ethnic customs are some of what makes America great. I think that I've told you before that there are over 60 different languages spoken in the homes of our high schoolers. Sameness can be blah! Re: your newspaper remembrance....
I used to dream that I would discover
The perfect lover someday,
I knew I'd recognize him if ever
He came 'round my way.
I always used to fancy then
He'd be one of the God-like kind of men
With a giant brain and a noble head
Like the heroes bold
In the books I've read. But along came Bill
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I didn’t realize eggs were forbidden. Why were those items chosen? ===JACK: You'll probably have to ask a priest. Some Catholics downriver in Monroe Country enjoyed eating muskrat, but were forbidden by the priest to do so during Lent. They contacted the archdiocese and explained to the "higher-ups" that since the muskrat spent more than 50% of his life in the water, he should be called a fish...and it was done. The muskrat is a fish...so I've been told.
FROM JE IN WLSD: FULL confession: I ate a half of chocolate paczki – split it with Liza. I bought six at the Bakery this morning. Enough. My friend Chuck, used to say: “Anyone who gives you a donut is not your friend.” Good to find out that a paczki is NOT a donut.===JACK: I'm glad that my doctor said that I'm at the right weight and that a few more calories won't hurt.
FROM VW MARY: Went to the senior center to get some this morning…I wanted raspberry, but they were gone, even though I was there about a minute after they supposedly went on sale…life is tough sometimes..(had to settle for strawberry)…got a couple for Denise and Pastor that I’ll take to church now, although they probably have a stash of their own already….Happy Fat Tuesday! ===JACK: The secret of being able to eat paczki, is pledging to do a Lenten fast...no more sweets.
FROM SHALOM JAN: Not sure if eating paczki is a religious tradition, but they sure taste good!
By the way, Paczki is plural. And, the Poles I went to school with at SS. Cyril & Methodius Seminary in Orchard Lake as well as the Polish member of Emmanuel, Ypsilanti, and a good friend in interim ministry taught me to say "paunch-key" with a sort-of Southern drawl. "Poonch-key" is for amateurs!===JACK: If you're so smart. can you spell the word without looking it up? and while you're at it, why is the bunny connected with Easter?===JAN: I don't know how to get the tail on the A===JACK: That's pretty hard to do, since the tail belongs on the c, but Google can do almost anything. The Polish alphabet includes certain letters with diacritics: the kreska or acute accent (ć, ń, ó, ś, ź); the overdot or kropka (ż); the tail or ogonek (ą, ę); and the stroke (ł).
FROM AMcC: happy Mardi Gras===JACK: Have you ever been to New Orleans for Mardi Gras? We were there a week or two afterward, and there were still beads on the ground and in the bushes.
FROM ST PAUL IN MESA: better than Dunkin' Dounts???===JACK: One weighs about as much as a half dozen DDs.===SP: sounds like a real artery clogger for sure:):):)
FROM BLAZING OAKS: I've never heard of a Paczski!! I can tell I'd like it!! I am indulging in some home-made cinnamon rolls which are DELICIOUS from a friend who brot "sympathy" treats to John, Jan, & I. Anxious to hear more about your "friend"~! Glad to hear their is one! Makes life more fun and interesting, for sure.Tomorrow would have been Bill's 92nd b.day. I will have a
memoriam in the paper. No "friend" on this end...:-(===JACK: I think that the various ethnic customs are some of what makes America great. I think that I've told you before that there are over 60 different languages spoken in the homes of our high schoolers. Sameness can be blah! Re: your newspaper remembrance....
I used to dream that I would discover
The perfect lover someday,
I knew I'd recognize him if ever
He came 'round my way.
I always used to fancy then
He'd be one of the God-like kind of men
With a giant brain and a noble head
Like the heroes bold
In the books I've read. But along came Bill
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I didn’t realize eggs were forbidden. Why were those items chosen? ===JACK: You'll probably have to ask a priest. Some Catholics downriver in Monroe Country enjoyed eating muskrat, but were forbidden by the priest to do so during Lent. They contacted the archdiocese and explained to the "higher-ups" that since the muskrat spent more than 50% of his life in the water, he should be called a fish...and it was done. The muskrat is a fish...so I've been told.
Monday, March 04, 2019
Jack’s Winning Words 3/4/19
“Don’t let yourself forget what it was like to be sixteen.” (Unknown) Can you remember back to when you were 16? What comes to mind? Songs? Foods? People? For me, 16 was probably the most significant year in my life …but that’s another story. George Burns sang, “I wish I were 18 again.” Has there been an “I wish age” in your life? I’ve read that music and the smell and taste of certain foods can aid dementia patients in bringing back memories. ;-) Jack
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: I just remember being busy all of the time and many good lifelong friends! ===JACK: Yes, we grew up together during that time...and I remember that you were a busy-body (in the best sense of the phrase) at that time.
FROM EDUCATOR PAUL: 16??? On one condition... “If I knew then what I know now!” ===JACK: Oooohh...I don't know if your teen-age brain and emotions would have been able to handle that. And, you are TODAY what you were THEN!
FROM LG IN CT: And Frank Sinatra's "It Was A Very good Year"
When I was seventeen
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for small town girls
And soft summer nights
We'd hide from the lights
On the village green
When I was seventeen
When I was twenty-one
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for city girls
Who lived up the stair
With all that perfumed hair
And it came undone
When I was twenty-one
When I was thirty-five
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for blue-blooded girls
Of independent means
We'd ride in limousines
Their chauffeurs would drive
When I was thirty-five
But now the days are short
I'm in the autumn of the year
And now I think of my life as vintage wine
From fine old kegs
From the brim to the dregs
And it poured sweet and clear
It was a very good year
It was a massive good year
===JACK: Isn't it interesting how songwriters are able, so often, to capture our feelings?
FROM HONEST JOHN: For me the best age was four....could play all day....had a great family with me at home....old enough to join in a bit...could even learn .....no worries or concerns...could go to my Dad's feed store and on trips to relatives.===JACK: For me...being 4 yrs old is a nice place to visit, but I'm not sure I'd like to live there. I'm happy with the here and now...relatively..
FROM BB IN CHGO: Inquiring minds want to know…did you meet Mary when you were 16?
I’m not sure there was anything much remarkable then for me. I don’t look back and wish for 21 again either, or 30. Perhaps I cannot remember enough anymore?===JACK: I was 27, married at 29, and 60 years of marriage. At 16, no girlfriends, no parties or days, just school, sports at the YMCA and work.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Ah! Our "Sweet Sixteen" birthdays were VERY special in our gang of girls! And "Crutch" C. got up his courage and kissed me goodnight on my sixteenth! (We'd been dating for awhile, but no nice girls allowed a kiss on the first few dates when I was growing up! Really innocent times compared to now! Every age has its perks and its challenges, but am very thankful to have been blessed with an adoring husband, and 4 great kids who grew to be good, productive citizens; not to mentions those "grands" and "greats"! I just read a good book. "The older you get, the more you appreciate cancelled plans, early nights, thunderstorms and alcohol that's on
“Don’t let yourself forget what it was like to be sixteen.” (Unknown) Can you remember back to when you were 16? What comes to mind? Songs? Foods? People? For me, 16 was probably the most significant year in my life …but that’s another story. George Burns sang, “I wish I were 18 again.” Has there been an “I wish age” in your life? I’ve read that music and the smell and taste of certain foods can aid dementia patients in bringing back memories. ;-) Jack
FROM TAMPA SHIRL: I just remember being busy all of the time and many good lifelong friends! ===JACK: Yes, we grew up together during that time...and I remember that you were a busy-body (in the best sense of the phrase) at that time.
FROM EDUCATOR PAUL: 16??? On one condition... “If I knew then what I know now!” ===JACK: Oooohh...I don't know if your teen-age brain and emotions would have been able to handle that. And, you are TODAY what you were THEN!
FROM LG IN CT: And Frank Sinatra's "It Was A Very good Year"
When I was seventeen
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for small town girls
And soft summer nights
We'd hide from the lights
On the village green
When I was seventeen
When I was twenty-one
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for city girls
Who lived up the stair
With all that perfumed hair
And it came undone
When I was twenty-one
When I was thirty-five
It was a very good year
It was a very good year for blue-blooded girls
Of independent means
We'd ride in limousines
Their chauffeurs would drive
When I was thirty-five
But now the days are short
I'm in the autumn of the year
And now I think of my life as vintage wine
From fine old kegs
From the brim to the dregs
And it poured sweet and clear
It was a very good year
It was a massive good year
===JACK: Isn't it interesting how songwriters are able, so often, to capture our feelings?
FROM HONEST JOHN: For me the best age was four....could play all day....had a great family with me at home....old enough to join in a bit...could even learn .....no worries or concerns...could go to my Dad's feed store and on trips to relatives.===JACK: For me...being 4 yrs old is a nice place to visit, but I'm not sure I'd like to live there. I'm happy with the here and now...relatively..
FROM BB IN CHGO: Inquiring minds want to know…did you meet Mary when you were 16?
I’m not sure there was anything much remarkable then for me. I don’t look back and wish for 21 again either, or 30. Perhaps I cannot remember enough anymore?===JACK: I was 27, married at 29, and 60 years of marriage. At 16, no girlfriends, no parties or days, just school, sports at the YMCA and work.
FROM BLAZING OAKS: Ah! Our "Sweet Sixteen" birthdays were VERY special in our gang of girls! And "Crutch" C. got up his courage and kissed me goodnight on my sixteenth! (We'd been dating for awhile, but no nice girls allowed a kiss on the first few dates when I was growing up! Really innocent times compared to now! Every age has its perks and its challenges, but am very thankful to have been blessed with an adoring husband, and 4 great kids who grew to be good, productive citizens; not to mentions those "grands" and "greats"! I just read a good book. "The older you get, the more you appreciate cancelled plans, early nights, thunderstorms and alcohol that's on
sale." I'm not much of a drinker, but definitely don't have to have big plans every day or night anymore, An early dinner with family & a couple of games, A recliner, good book or interesting TV show, all warm and cozy, will do! :-)===JACK: You weren't one of those "run-arounds", were you? Are you now one of those "sit-at-homes"? No, I think that we should give you a new moniker.
===OAKS: I don't think anyone would describe me as a Sit-at-home; the comment I usually get is, "You're never home!" I'm going while the going is good...Know there will come a time when I can't...& that may not be a long way off, at my age! It's frigid here today, and this week, so not as
anxious to be out and about ! We just lost John's mother-in-law on Sunday morning (she had lived
with John and Jan over 20 years (blind and 92) & was in hospice care at home for a little more than
a week.) So will be busy, and have family coming in.===JACK: ...and so it goes. We live; we die; we await God's judgment...relying on His grace. BTW, so you're now a senior run-around. More power to you.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: My teen years were wonderful! I loved high school and life was so good! But, you can’t do this to your faithful followers! What happened when you turned 16??? ===JACK. Bad: I contracted polio and had to stay home for a year. Good: I don't think that I would have become a pastor, except for that experience.
===OAKS: I don't think anyone would describe me as a Sit-at-home; the comment I usually get is, "You're never home!" I'm going while the going is good...Know there will come a time when I can't...& that may not be a long way off, at my age! It's frigid here today, and this week, so not as
anxious to be out and about ! We just lost John's mother-in-law on Sunday morning (she had lived
with John and Jan over 20 years (blind and 92) & was in hospice care at home for a little more than
a week.) So will be busy, and have family coming in.===JACK: ...and so it goes. We live; we die; we await God's judgment...relying on His grace. BTW, so you're now a senior run-around. More power to you.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: My teen years were wonderful! I loved high school and life was so good! But, you can’t do this to your faithful followers! What happened when you turned 16??? ===JACK. Bad: I contracted polio and had to stay home for a year. Good: I don't think that I would have become a pastor, except for that experience.
Friday, March 01, 2019
Jack’s
Winning Words 3/1/19
“It’s not the
love that you make, it’s the love that you give.” (Nikola Tesla) On this day in 1893, Tesla made the first
demonstration of a working radio. He was
a great inventor of electric-related devices…some say, greater than
Edison. His “love-quote” is ironic,
because there was no love lost between those contemporary inventors. We may not “love” certain people, but that
doesn’t mean that we can’t respect them.
Does anyone similar come to your mind?
;-) Jack
FROM HONEST JOHN: A lot of people feel that to build up Tesla we have to knock Edison....why not praise both?===JACK: Yes, you're right about that. But, people tend to get a bit testy when they think that someone has stolen something (ideas) from them. AC vs DC was part of the animosity. Confession and forgiveness don't always come easily.
FROM PEEWEE: Why do you always make me think so hard?? Thank you!!===JACK: It's like going to school. Learning comes from having to think. Sometime it seems like hard work, but that's what education is all about. If there were no hard lesson we'd spend our lives in Kindergarten.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I’m not sure respect is the word to use. Perhaps tolerate them would be better. Respect is something earned not given. There are people who deserve respect but because they earned it.===JACK: I guess it comes down to the definition of respect. You can choose one or the other, or both.
1 - Respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. synonyms: esteem, regard, high regard, high opinion, acclaim, admiration, approbation, approval, appreciation, estimation, favor, popularity, recognition, veneration, awe, reverence, deference, honor, praise, homage
2 - Respect: due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. "young people's lack of respect for their parents" synonyms: due regard, consideration, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, politeness, courtesy, civility, deference
FROM JK IN IL: The “giving” aspect of “love” is key (at least for me) on how to live according to God’s will. A recent interview with Bishop Michael Curry (by Judy Woodruff @ PBS News Hour) resonated strongly; this excerpt by Rev. Curry clarifies that love is not simply the “opposite of hate” but the opposite of “it’s all about me and the heck with you”
But I used to think of the opposite of love is hate. And, on some levels, that makes sense. But what I'm beginning to see is that, if you look at love as the New Testament talks about, as Jesus of Nazareth talks about it, he talks about love most consistently as he's about to give up his life.
And at one point, he even says, greater love has no one than this, but that they give up their life for their friends. The opposite of love is not simply hatred. The opposite of love is selfishness, self-centeredness, which the religious traditions have always identified as the root source of all the dilemmas that are created by human beings, this selfishness. Love is the opposite of that, the antidote to that, if you will. And the reason it's difficult for us is, healthy self-respect and self-love can quickly become selfishness, if we let it. You need healthy self-respect, but the selfishness, when I become the center of the universe, and you're the periphery, it's all about me, and the heck with you.
And that even includes God. If I'm the center of the universe, well, God's on the periphery too.”
For transcript of interview go to https://www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/show/bishop-curry-on-love-poetry-and-the-royal-wedding.===JACK: WOW! That sound like a lecture that might be given in a seminary.
FROM DS IN SOCAL: Tough subject. Bible of course very clear, Love is most important. However, I find it hard to love people I don't respect...but I'm trying.===JACK: I would suggest that you first figure out what "love" means. Do you think that Jesus LOVES us because he respects all the things we do? Today's blog has some interesting responses that you might want to read. :Love is more than "like." Martin Luther said that 3 things will surprise him when he gets to heaven, 3 things will surprise. 1- He won't see some people that he expected to see. 2- He will see some people that he never expected to see. 3- ...and most surprising of all, he'll see that he's there, himself. Think about that. I'm glad that you're trying to understand.===DS: I'm a work in progress...very slow progress. 😇===JACK: At least, in in progress. Good for you...and keep it up.
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FROM HONEST JOHN: A lot of people feel that to build up Tesla we have to knock Edison....why not praise both?===JACK: Yes, you're right about that. But, people tend to get a bit testy when they think that someone has stolen something (ideas) from them. AC vs DC was part of the animosity. Confession and forgiveness don't always come easily.
FROM PEEWEE: Why do you always make me think so hard?? Thank you!!===JACK: It's like going to school. Learning comes from having to think. Sometime it seems like hard work, but that's what education is all about. If there were no hard lesson we'd spend our lives in Kindergarten.
FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I’m not sure respect is the word to use. Perhaps tolerate them would be better. Respect is something earned not given. There are people who deserve respect but because they earned it.===JACK: I guess it comes down to the definition of respect. You can choose one or the other, or both.
1 - Respect: a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities, or achievements. synonyms: esteem, regard, high regard, high opinion, acclaim, admiration, approbation, approval, appreciation, estimation, favor, popularity, recognition, veneration, awe, reverence, deference, honor, praise, homage
2 - Respect: due regard for the feelings, wishes, rights, or traditions of others. "young people's lack of respect for their parents" synonyms: due regard, consideration, thoughtfulness, attentiveness, politeness, courtesy, civility, deference
FROM JK IN IL: The “giving” aspect of “love” is key (at least for me) on how to live according to God’s will. A recent interview with Bishop Michael Curry (by Judy Woodruff @ PBS News Hour) resonated strongly; this excerpt by Rev. Curry clarifies that love is not simply the “opposite of hate” but the opposite of “it’s all about me and the heck with you”
But I used to think of the opposite of love is hate. And, on some levels, that makes sense. But what I'm beginning to see is that, if you look at love as the New Testament talks about, as Jesus of Nazareth talks about it, he talks about love most consistently as he's about to give up his life.
And at one point, he even says, greater love has no one than this, but that they give up their life for their friends. The opposite of love is not simply hatred. The opposite of love is selfishness, self-centeredness, which the religious traditions have always identified as the root source of all the dilemmas that are created by human beings, this selfishness. Love is the opposite of that, the antidote to that, if you will. And the reason it's difficult for us is, healthy self-respect and self-love can quickly become selfishness, if we let it. You need healthy self-respect, but the selfishness, when I become the center of the universe, and you're the periphery, it's all about me, and the heck with you.
And that even includes God. If I'm the center of the universe, well, God's on the periphery too.”
For transcript of interview go to https://www.pbs.org/newshour/amp/show/bishop-curry-on-love-poetry-and-the-royal-wedding.===JACK: WOW! That sound like a lecture that might be given in a seminary.
FROM DS IN SOCAL: Tough subject. Bible of course very clear, Love is most important. However, I find it hard to love people I don't respect...but I'm trying.===JACK: I would suggest that you first figure out what "love" means. Do you think that Jesus LOVES us because he respects all the things we do? Today's blog has some interesting responses that you might want to read. :Love is more than "like." Martin Luther said that 3 things will surprise him when he gets to heaven, 3 things will surprise. 1- He won't see some people that he expected to see. 2- He will see some people that he never expected to see. 3- ...and most surprising of all, he'll see that he's there, himself. Think about that. I'm glad that you're trying to understand.===DS: I'm a work in progress...very slow progress. 😇===JACK: At least, in in progress. Good for you...and keep it up.
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