Monday, November 10, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/10/08
“A winner is someone who recognizes his God-given talents, works his tail off to develop them into skills, and uses these skills to accomplish his goals.”
(Larry Bird) Bird wasn’t the smoothest of players, but he could really play basketball. A winner doesn’t always have to be a star. Each of us has something we do well. “It isn’t by size that you win or you fail—Be the best of whatever you are.” ;-) Jack


FROM R.I. IN BOSTON: My follow-up to Larry Bird's quote would be that the really important thing is WHAT goals were accomplished. MORE: I attach low level importance to sports-oriented goals (most RBI's, yardage gained, points scored, etc.). My admiration is to those players who encouraged or convinced young people to stay in school and graduate, to avoid gang life and drug abuse, to cherish team participation, etc.My problem with Bean-town fans is that achievement means to win win win win win. Or as that famous somebody (I'll bet you know who it was) said, "Winning isn't everything...it's the ONLY thing." JACK'S RESPONSE: Vince...but that statement of his was only meant to motivate his players. His life and his faith showed something else, Of course, enigma could be a middle name for all of us. We all have talents of one sort or another. If it's playing basketball, then use that talent to the best of your ability; if it's drawing lines on a paper, use that talent to the best of your ability; if it's leading a congregation of people, use that talent to the best of your ability. Remembering that we all sin and fall short.....

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Don't kid yourself. Larry was smooth as they come. He just looked awkward.

FROM PR F.M. IN WI; Try every day - I have learned that a task to do should be done well, not quickly

Friday, November 07, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/7/08
“Kindness is contagious. Catch it!”
(Seen on a poster) I think I saw this poster in a school. Lessons are taught in many places and in many ways. They’re taught on tee shirts and on bumper stickers. What good teaching lessons have you seen in strange places? I’d like to put them on the blog. ;-) Jack


FROM A.M. IN MI: Here are a few favorite sayings I devised during my walk. I often use them in my talks with those in recovery. I hope you find them useful.
"A life full of exceptions is not truthful. But, a life full of truth is certainly exceptional."
"God doesn’t move at the speed of light. GOD MOVES AT THE SPEED OF LIFE!"


FROM R.I. IN BOSTON: Two bumper stickers seen on a car yesterday: Stop the War (and next to it) When Jesus said "Love your enemies" I think he probably meant don't kill them."

FROM COPPER COUNTRY PR B.L.: Returning from Antigo on Monday there was this billboard outside of Eagle River which had no advertizing on it:
SINGLE' WHITE BILLBOARD
SEEKING LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.


FROM MY SON IN MN: Preachers Have Altar Egos.


FROM CJL IN OH: "Christ is the answer. What is the question?"

FROM MOLINER C.F.: I saw a sign once on a street corner that said "STOP". Great advice. Have noticed several since, so somebody else must also think it is a good idea.

FROM M.L. IN IL (A NURSERY SCHOOL TEACHER): when children at school hurt each other in any way, i ask them if that was the kind thing to do. they always respond in the appropriate way-children are compassionate beings. kindness is a diminishing word in our vocabulary. listen to those around you, you'll see. i like exposing the next generation to the word as well as the concept.

FROM L.L. IN MI: I didn't necessarily see this lesson in a strange place, but one of my favorites is: No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.

FROM J.B. IN WI: If God is your Co-pilot - swap seats!

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet
is fighting some kind of battle.






Thursday, November 06, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/6/08
“My parents brought me up to persevere, work hard, to keep your mouth shut and your eyes and ears open.”
(Bob Feller) This Hall of Fame pitcher turned 90 the other day. He still tries to live according to the values his parents taught him on the family farm in Van Meter, Iowa. I suppose that all of us can look back with appreciation for the values we learned at home. My pastor once wrote: “Virture is learned at mother’s knee. Vice is learned at other joints.” ;-) Jack

FROM M.L. IN IL: i may have shared this with you before. mark's mother raised four boys with this creed. "stand up straight, smile, and be pleasant". we used it when raising our children and have passed it on to others. by the way...her boys, all four, grew up to be great men!

FROM M.E. IN CA: Like this one.

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: My, you know how to make a person feel old - Bob Feller was one of my baseball heroes - he can't be 90! I recall pictures of him in his youth throwing a baseball out by one of their barns! He learned baseball in the barn yard - not a bad place to pick up some learning's!

FROM D.S. IN SAN DIEGO:Bob Feller was one of my boyhood heroes, Jack. What a great guy. I can truly believe those were his values having grown up in the Midwest.

Wednesday, November 05, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/5/08
“That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind.”
(Neil Armstrong) I remember well man’s first step on the moon. It was awesome. We each have events that are etched in our memories. Republican or Democrat, we will always remember the presidential election of 2008. As my mother-in-law used to say to her piano students: “The longest journey begins with a single step.” ;-) Jack


FROM M.L. IN IL: we're not in kansas anymore! MORE: some of my dearest friends are on the other side of my political rainbow. a bit of trivia...do you know that abraham lincoln did not cast a ballot for the office of president when he was candidate? he did not think it fair and just to vote for himself. i love and understand that concept. a great human being. my husband and i are waiting for the moment tonight to open a very special bottle of champagne that we have been saving for a very special occasion.

FROM AN OHIO GOPer, L.K.: Again, my heartiest congrats. Enjoy the day!

FROM ANOTHER OHIOan, J.H.: hip hip hurray! REPLY: It good to cheer for something other than a football team.

FROM D.S. IN MI: Yes we will.

FROM R.I. IN BOSTON: Your words today are an apt comparison with what has occurred in this country with this election.

FROM MOLINER G.S.: I voted against Obama. I hope we don't rue the day he was elected.
MORE: Yesterday was one large step for socialism

FROM B.G. IN MI: This is, indeed, a giant leap for all Americans. I have been especially moved by the comments of Congressman John Lewis. Given all that he has lived through, he is gracious to the core and still has hope. What a wonderful role model! Yes, we can! Congratulations to President-elect Barack Obama.


FROM S.G. IN MI: As does every journey that is worth taking. Your mother-in-law was wise.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: How dare you make political stride out of Armstrong's feat!!!!

FROM D.S. IN SAN DIEGO: I'm not happy, BUT, I am hopeful that in some way this will bring our country together in a way that we have not seen since President Reagan.I pray that Obama will have the wisdom and the people around him as well to lead us at a time when the world is falling apart in front of our eyes.It should be an interesting 4 years, and I hope at the end, I will say "he was right".

FROM MOLINER LIZ: Glad for you that your candidate won. He's got a lot to tackle-- I think he's up to the task. Congratulations! REPLY: He's OUR president, and he will need the prayers and support of all who care. I like the way that you have looked upon what has takem place. Life goes on.

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: One giant step yesterday!

FROM J.C. IN HONG KONG: Just think ... a year from now all the violence in the world will be blamed on Obama instead of Bush.

FROM PR G.C. IN SAN DIEGO: It was a pretty astounding day and night! Wow!Herren valsigne Senator Obama! REPLY: Did you know that Obama's grandmother had some Swedish blood in her? That's why some Nowegians didn't want to vote for him.

FROM J.T. IN MI: I am thrilled with the great amount of young people and minorities that voted in this election. It is encouraging to know that so many Americans cared enough about this country to vote. I was very disappointed that Proposal 2 passed but unfortunately there were not enough people who voted as I did. God bless all of us as we begin anew. Hopefully some day elected politicians will realize a lot of people don't care about the classifications "Democrat" and "Republican", just citizens, ALL citizens.

FROM BBC IN IL: All I could think this morning was "Great is Thy Faithfulness, Almighty Father….morning by morning new mercies I see…. all I have needed Thy hand has provided….

Tuesday, November 04, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/4/08
“There’s always one moment in life when the door opens and lets the future in.”
(Graham Greene) That moment, for me, was on a Sunday night in 1946. Has there been a moment that has changed your future? There are Democrats and Republicans who look upon this election as such a moment. And life goes on! ;-) Jack


FROM MOLINER LIZ: Do you think it's too late for the door to open? I'm still waiting.

FROM MOLINER G.S.: What exactly happened on that Sunday night in 1946?

POEM BY ROBERT FROST: Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,And sorry I could not travel bothAnd be one traveler, long I stoodAnd looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth;Then took the other, as just as fair,And having perhaps the better claim,Because it was grassy and wanted wear;Though as for that the passing thereHad worn them really about the same,And both that morning equally layIn leaves no step had trodden black.Oh, I kept the first for another day!Yet knowing how way leads on to way,I doubted if I should ever come back.I shall be telling this with a sighSomewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood,And sorry I could not travel bothAnd be one traveler, long I stoodAnd looked down one as far as I couldTo where it bent in the undergrowth;Then took the other, as just as fair,And having perhaps the better claim,Because it was grassy and wanted wear;Though as for that the passing thereHad worn them really about the same,And both that morning equally layIn leaves no step had trodden black.Oh, I kept the first for another day!Yet knowing how way leads on to way,I doubted if I should ever come back.I shall be telling this with a sighSomewhere ages and ages hence:Two roads diverged in a wood, and I-I took the one less traveled by,And that has made all the difference.

FROM PR J.S. IN MI: I think that there are events that leave the past behind and demand something new. We have to take advantage of those events. Such an event was WW I. Unfortunately, our leadership didn't take advantage of that confusion and it led to the depression and WW II. The collapse of our economy in the 70s....the virtual collapse of our moral structure and of our morale along with it....opened up an opportunity for us to reshape this country and we did. Now a very unfortunate Presidency has virtually wrecked us again. In the 70s it was the Left that did us in. This time it is the Right. I hope that we can take advantage of this confusion and reshape some things and point forward to the future. I hope....and I emphasize HOPE....that Obama is the person to do this. Most assuredly, McCain is not. So that only leaves one avenue open for us. I hope that Obama is elected and chooses to reshape us in a new way that will last for another 30 years or so. We'll see. Much , of course, is up to us. Not just to vote but to reshape things. Out with the 70s and now out with the 00s. In with the new!!!

FROM B.G. IN MI: Yes, it does…I voted early this morning; arrived at 6:45 a.m. and was the 50th person to cast a ballot in our precinct. I am, as you know, more invested in this election than any previous one. Whatever the outcome, God’s kingdom will come on earth…as it is in heaven. However, since heaven can wait, I hope for a particular outcome in this earthly election. Whatever the case, Jesus is Lord.

FROM M.L. IN IL: i have had a few moments like this. let's hope today's opening into the future will be like dorothy's opening the door to munchkinland. remember the surprise of color? one of the most exciting scenes ever! i'm ready for a truely rainbow world here. we shouldn't have to travel over the rainbow to find it. it's time.

FROM EMT SINGS IN MI: Dare I ask, the occasion? REPLY FROM JACK: I received an unexpected phone call from my pastor's wife, asking if I had ever considered becoming a pastor. It had never entered my mind until that call.

FROM N.L. IN FL: Amen to that Jack:

FROM B.M. IN MI: This quote made me think about such moments; and I do mean more than one. The three for me which first come to mind are the following: The day John Kennedy was elected (I had just turned twenty) ; the second was the day that I realized I was in love with Margie; the third was the first day that I started my own accounting practice. There could be others, of course, especially the births of each of our children and, later, our grandchildren. What do you think about all this? Should there be just "one moment" as Graham Greene suggested?

FROM DMF IN MN: Mrs. Tillberg?

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: Another democrat . . . and also a president, JFK. We have voted and are ready to accept responsibility under, we hope, a democrat president!

FROM MOLINER LIZ: Glad to hear what happened to you on that fateful Sunday nite. It was a fateful nite for many people actually, your future parishioners and people like me who have never even met you except thru your blog. As one of your "cyberspace parishioners," I'd like to say thank you to you and to the pastor's wife who opened the door to your future. Your thoughtfulness, caring and humor have helped me thru many days.

FROM ERIN DiM: I just voted, so exciting!! :)PS. I'm wearing my favorite election day t-shirt. In red, white, and blue it reads "I VOTE FOR HAPPY HOUR" :) I think those waiting in line for hours would agree ;)

FROM G.C. IN SAN DIEGO: Just a quick word.This is the big day for Mr. Obama and Co. I am one of the large number of persons who perceive that Barack Obama is one of those very special people who come along every once in a while. You and I can name a few in our life times. Let's see first if he makes it today and then how he leads/performs in the many months ahead. Herren valsigne Barack Obama!

FROM CJL IN OH: Yep!

FROM MARY ANN & RAY IN MI: Okay Jack. What was it? My mind is not creative today!!!

Monday, November 03, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 11/3/08
“Let us not seek the Republican answer or the Democratic answer, but the right answer. Let us not seek to fix the blame for the past. Let us accept our own responsibility for the future.”
(Guess Who) Without looking it up, can you guess (or do you know) who said these words? They seem appropriate for the election which is before us tomorrow. We vote to accept our responsibility. ;-) Jack


FROM D.G-H. IN NYC: My guess is, FDR.

FROM THE JUDGE: Jack Kennedy

FROM J.H. IN OH: hmmmm... Barrack said something similar at the '04 convention... "not a Republican America or a Democratic America"... so I'll say he said this. If not, sounds like JFK to me?

FROM PR J.S. IN MI: You need to know what failed in the past and why it failed if you are to make the future better. I am always willing to know my failures to make certain that I don't make the same ones twice.

FROM B.G. IN MI: well-said, Jack. I think it was George Bush.

FROM MOLINER G.S.: Good words. Thank heavens, only 1 more day!

FROM MOLINER A.E.: His last name starts with K right? "K E N N E D Y said it one day". Right?

FROM MKH IN MI: I am afraid that God is going to let us get what we deserve in this election, maybe he is tired of playing with us? I have a terrible pit in my chest about this election I pray that I am totally wrong entirely off base.

FROM L.S. IN MI: I dont know but my guess would be FDR. Just a guess.

FROM M.T. IN PA: Sounded like JFK, so I Googled and sure enough!

FROM CJL IN OH: You!

FROM P.O. IN MI: I had to guess, but I was right. Have a great day! REPLY: But what did you guess?

FROM VINCENTRIC DMF: Burton Cummings REPLY FROM DAD: My son is sooooomart. Burton Cummings OM (born December 31, 1947) is a Canadian musician and songwriter. A gifted showman, he was the lead singer for the Canadian rock band The Guess Who.

FROM C.P. IN CHGO: You're right-that is a good one!

FROM PR P.H. IN MN: it sounds like you, Jack...or maybe M L King...

FROM MOLINER LIZ: I know. I know. Barack Obama! Is there a prize?

Friday, October 31, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/31/08
“Without wearing any mask we’re conscious of, we have a special face for each friend.”
(Oliver Wendell Holmes) Just because it’s Halloween, you don’t have to wear a false face, or one that frightens people. I remember once asking a student to give a summary of the 10 Commandments. The reply was simply: BE NICE! ;-) Jack


FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Good Winning Words, especially during an election. I have been appalled at some people's reaction, even on your blog-site along the name calling, against people with different opinions. Just think how wonderful this world would be if everyone was just...nice.

FROM K.B. IN MI: My mask for you is always a respectful smile-- JACK'S RESPONSE: That's scarey.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Nicely said. REPLY: You're just being nice.!

FROM CJL IN OH: Not bad. Certainly easy to remember....

Thursday, October 30, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/30/08
“Silence is an opinion.”
(Gil Atkinson) You don’t have to give a vocal answer to every question put to you. Sometimes a look is enough. I was born when Silent Cal was president. There are several opinions as to how Coolidge got his nickname. One source says that he married a very talkative woman. ;-) Jack.

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: I would answer, but it may be smarter for me to be silent.

FROM L.K. IN OH: Since I'm always talking, I do not seem to have many (perhaps) good opinions,ha!

FROM P.O. IN MI: Boo, hiss!

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Silence is golden. Let's get rich. JACK'S RESPONSE: SPEECH IS SILVER, SILENCE IS GOLDEN - "The value placed upon saying less, rather than more, as reflected in this proverb can be traced as far back as the early Egyptians, who recorded one such saying: 'Silence is more profitable than abundance of speech.' The current proverb was rendered for the first time in the Judaic Biblical commentaries called the 'Midrash' (c. 600), which gave the proverb as 'If speech is silvern, then silence is golden.'
One witty adaptation in Brian Aldiss's 'The Primal Urge' (1961) seems particularly appropriate to modern times: "Speech is silver; silence is golden; print is dynamite." MORE FROM C.F.: As Abe Lincoln said, "It is better to remain silent and reach your golden years than to speak and remove all the silver from your teeth."

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: I always appreciate your daily winning word . . . I don't always respond because I just digest . . . and 'silence is an opinion.'

FROM WATERFORD JAN: Did you really have to include that reason for Coolidge being Silent? That's too close to home (mine).

FROM EMT SINGS IN MI: That is what my husband's friends say if he is too quiet!

FROM J.D. IN MN: JACK, THAT WILL DO IT.

FROM MKH IN MI: I did read it, have you been talking to my husband?

FROM MOLINER CROC: " Silent Cal." Couldn`t get a word in edgewise , maybe.

Wednesday, October 29, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/29/08
“Today’s trying times in about twenty years will have become The Good Old Days.”
(Bernard Meltzer) This morning I heard a “financial expert” make that same prediction at a meeting of The Optimist Club. I’ve learned not to trust some of those financial experts. Quoting from Annie: “The sun’ll come out Tomorrow. Bet your bottom dollar That tomorrow there’ll be sun!” Tell me in twenty years if I’m wrong. ;-) Jack

FOLLOW UP QUOTE: You must continue to gain expertise, but avoid thinking like anexpert. (Denis Waitley)

FROM N.L. IN FL: We are just mere mortals, not much we can do, I was just another Joe the Plumber. Now look at what the Congress accomplished in such a short time, and all the Wall Street attorneys and MBA's. What a billion dollar mess.

FROM J.H. IN OH: I bet you are right.... but let's do talk about it in 20 years!

FROM MOLINER LIZ: Let's hope it doesn't take 20 years! Perhaps that "financial expert" should speak at the Pessimist Club for his next engagement... Annie's right and that's one of my favorite songs ever.

FROM THRIVENT TOM: Now don't bear down too hard on us financial people! JACK'S RESPONSE: Notice that I said....I've learned not to trust SOME of those financial expects. YOU, I trust!

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: That paints an extremely bad picture for the future. God is with us and will be with us then and now. JACK'S RESPONSE: If you believe what is painted.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: As the old saying goes, "The more things change, the more they stay the same." Tell me. Then why should I vote for Obama? REPLY: I've already voted, and I haven't even watched tonight's half hour before the ball game. MORE FROM C.F.: Also in Annie, "You're never fully dressed without a smile." Try one on for size today.

FROM WATERFORD JAN: With people losing jobs and homes and financial security, no one will look back on this particular time and consider it good. My personal life is in good shape, but I have family and friends who are hurting. We must keep faith and give thanks that we can overcome these bad times and know the future can be better.

FROM M.L. IN IL: ...just thinking about tomorrow... MORE: ...i love you tomorrow...you're always a day away.



Tuesday, October 28, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/28/08
“Believe in the magic of tomorrow, and your spirits will be lifted on wings of hope.”
(Kobi Yamada) I like the TOMORROW song from Annie. I like the music and the lyrics. Tomorrow can be an excuse for putting off what needs to be done today. But I would rather look at it as a belief in and a hope for the future. Tomorrow lifts my spirits. ;-) Jack


FROM L.P. IN MI: When I was a kid, say 8 or 9, I used to put my Annie record on and sing "Tomorrow" out my west facing bedroom window every night before the sun set. I was sure that if I did not remember to do this it would rain the next day. I wonder what funny habits my little one will pick up in her tomorrows?

FROM MOLINER C.F.: The rest of the lyrics go..."You're always a day away". I think I like today better. I can touch it. AND MORE: I'll bet a nickle that one ofyour other favorites is "The Rainbow Connection."
AND STILL MORE: Took a couple of minutes off and youtubed Kermit and then "Rainboow Connection." It's gonna be a happy afternoon!!!. www.youtube.com.

TOMORROW LYRICS: [ANNIE]The sun'll come out TomorrowBet your bottom dollar That tomorrow There'll be sun! Just thinkin' aboutTomorrow Clears away the cobwebs, And the sorrow 'Til there's none! When I'm stuck a day That's gray, And lonely, I just stick out my chin And Grin, And Say, Oh! The sun'll come outTomorrow So ya gotta hang on 'Til tomorrow Come what may Tomorrow! Tomorrow!I love ya Tomorrow! You're alwaysA dayA way!

FROM S.G. IN TAMPA: I totally agree and have a music box with the song Tomorrow. We were lucky enough to see the Broadway play in New York with standing room only. The play was much better than the movie in my opinion.

FROM B.G. IN MI: Nice reflection, Jack

Monday, October 27, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/27/08
If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity.”
(JFK) Last week I was part of a discussion group of 25 adults and 25+ high school students from our community. At my table of eight were an Iraqi, a Syrian, 3 Asians, an African American and 2 Caucasians. It was agreed that what we liked best about our community was its diversity. Our differences seemed to melt away. What do you like best about your community? ;-) Jack.


FROM MOLINER G.S. NOW LIVING IN iOWA: Is this Heaven? No, it's Iowa. HAWKEYE COUNTRY! I've strived for our company to be Rainbow.

FROM MOLINE LIZ: Were your tablemates Americans? It's a shame we still feel the need to label ourselves and each other in our country. Perhaps someday we'll get past the "you're African American, I'm Caucasian" mentality. We should all be proud of where we came from-- but we're Americans, first and foremost. Once we get past the labels, our corner of the world will be safer for diversity.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Every community is diverse and it has nothing to do with ethnicity. Put any two people in a room and yoiu have diversity. The thing I like best about our community is its diversity. As my old daddy used to say, "It takes all kinds..."

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: Our diversity - not just of the races but economic too!

FROM D.S. IN MI: It’s what I like best as well. There aren’t too many places I’ve visited quite like this. Glad you came last week.

FROM PR C.H. ON CAPE COD: Unfortunately our community is not very diverse. However, some of the things I like best include: beauty and rhythms of the land, the weather and the seasons, the sense of "special place" -and rootedness to the land and sea that many have here, the small town feeling and more sane feeling here than in metro-Boston or Detroit - and yet we still manage to make our lives hectic!

FROM GRANDMA GUFFEY IN TAMPA: Hi Jack, I wanted to share your winning words experience on diversity, and this is the first time I have found the time. Your experiences sounded very interesting. Mine have been mostly with our family and with our church. When we came to Tampa in l963, our church was a quonset hut and the families were large ones, mostly from the Midwest and East. Now it is like the United Nations. Our priests used to all be from Ireland. Now they are from Scotland, Poland, Colombia, Ghana,and the Phillipines. In our family Tom and Laurie have adopted two boys from Kasakhstan., a girl from Korea and a girl from Guatemala. They also have their oldest girl. Their world is a community that has many families with internatrional adoptions, and that is a very vibrant community. Our oldest daughter in Orlando has had a swim team there for 17 years. and other coaches have told her it is like the United Nations, too. Her swimmers have been from Viet Nam, Singapore, Sweden, Germany. any many others. Our twins, one in Texas and one in Tampa, have had many friends from all over the world. Susie's roomates a the University of Denver and Georgia Tech were from Iran, Japan. Venezuela, etc. Jeannie;s roommates at the U. of Denver were from France and at the U. O M iami Medical School there were many friends from Vietnam and the Phillipines and Cuba, of course. Our youngest daugher;s good friends are from Ethiopia and Cuba. Along the way there are friends of everyone from Trinidad and Buenos Aires. This is truly an amazing world we live. The fun for me is meeting the grandmothers, and we all seem to think alike when it comes to our families. MORE: I forgot to mention my experiences at USF in my Learning in Retirement classes through the past few years. My last class included a grandmother from China. She had come from Taiwan in l960 to go to college in Kentucky and has stayed. Another was a Japanese woman who was 11 when Doolittle bombed Tokyo. Most of the people in the classes have come from all over the United States. They are pretty diversified, to say the least.

Friday, October 24, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/24/08
“I never cease being dumbfounded by the unbelievable things people believe in.”
(Leo Rosten) This Polish-born humorist died 20 years ago. He really would have been dumbfounded today, listening to Talk-Radio. But enough of that. Our beliefs really are important and should not be taken lightly. Don’t be afraid to examine them and to adjust them, if necessary, and to stand up for them. Incidentally, we all have stories of persons and events that have shaped our belief system. Give thanks for them, today. ;-) Jack

FROM QUOTE A DAY: Fere libenter homines id quod volunt, credunt. Men willingly believe what they wish. (Caius Julius Caeser}

FROM MOLINER LIZ: I am dumbfounded listening to the mainstream media. JACK'S RESPONSE: We have a dunbfounded nation, because both sides can't believe what the other side is saying. One dumbfounded side will prevail. It always happens that way. MORE FROM LIZ: Hi. I am especially dumbfounded by this new "early voting." When I was in college I voted absentee. Since when can we just go vote when we feel like it? It's seems like that is leaving a lot of room for error and potential intentional tampering with the vote.

FROM B.P. IN FL: Why pick on talk radio??? What about TV News and todays biased newpapers? Half the country is dismayed........Where did the truth become fiction?????

FROM MOLINER, C.F.: Some people believe in the unbelievable some of the time and some prople beieve in the unbievable all of the time, but not all people believe in the unbelievable all of the time. Abe Engwall JACK'S RESPONSE: The key question in today's WWs was this...Who shaped your belief system? C.F. ANSWERS: Joan. She was a highly principled woman who was loving and wasn't afraid to let you know it. A real classy lady. I miss her terribly.

FROM B.S. NEAR ORLANDO: I support Leo. PEOPLE WHO INFLUENCED B.S.: Wow, what a question!!!! We'll start with Ma and Pa, then Unc John & Aunt Laura, maybe next Grandma Stevens, Grdpa died before he could directly influence me, but indirectly I am sure his presence came from his children to me. Next I suspect our neighbors and friends, my Sunday School teachers, my Sunday School companions, my teac hers at Roosevelt School, at Lincoln Jr High. ( coach Liddicoat, wow what a man ), Mr Brown my printing teacher, Miss Erickson ( she was not my teacher directly but she asked me to stop singing in the hall, ( on my way to ??))( she was one of the first teachers from Lincoln to came to hav e her Rx's filled ( from Lincoln, many followed including Coach Liddicoat). We cannot forget Mz Charlotte Moody, bless her pea pickin hide (I'll never forget that lady).Are U aware of the dozens of people in between these names, and the names of teachers at UW Extention, all my teachers at Wilmot High, especially Mr Marlin Schnurr ( he was extroadinary) and my music teachers esp. Gladys Smallfelt, Mz Hammond (River is black with the shadows on it, river and the rain are the things I love ). Dean Uhl at U.W. school of Ph is passed on but Dr. Louis Bussie is still alive. Dr. LLoyd Parks went to Ohio and they built a new Pharmacy bldg and named it after him. Dr. Wurster would not let me join the School of Pharm because I had not sent the required paper work and I wasn't schmardt enuff to go to Dr. Uhl and plead my case. I later convinced to allow me to graduate on time because I had attended summer school in Milwaukee when Dr. Eunice Bonnow was the director and so technically it was apart of U.W. sustems. Jack & Mary these people were so important to my education. And please my brother John, my sisters Peg and Marylou, my close friend Tony Parise, and the gent we named our son Rom after ( Ramchaundra Paracharum Bang ). These paragraphs do not do justice to the many people who are not listed. I am sorry , I apologize to them. They were so important in my life. One gent I will not forget was Mr Strom, pres of the First National Bank of Kenosha, After borrowing money from the bank, and talking awhile I realized I had to get back to work, so Iasked him where he wanted me to sign the papers. ,He said,"your name is your bond".


FROM S.G. IN TAMPA: Remember how the houses were marked in some way so that the hobos knew where to go for food. My grandmother was the reason our house was on the marker somehow.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/23/08
“Anyone can count the seeds in an apple, but only God can count the apples in a seed.”
(Robert Schuller) I have an apple seed taped to my computer, along with this saying. It’s a daily reminder of the miracles that are around us all of the time. Perhaps you can think of others and share them. ;-) Jack

FROM R.I. IN BOSTON: Such a provocative thought...it's no wonder I cannot fully perceive the depth of God's power.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Your computer room must be a fright. You've got more "stuff" posted there than wall space. Too much "stuff" confuses the brain. Pretty soon you will be asking yourself, "Who put this apple seed here? Johnie?"

FROM M.S. IN MI: Could you add a friend of mine, Kim, to your Winning Words list? I have been forwarding to her daily and she loves them as do I. Your winning words are the best possible start to my day.

FROM EMT SINGS IN MI: Have you by any chance read "Three Cups of Tea" or are you familiar with the humanitarian Greg Mortenson? I just finished reading it and am totally capitavated by him and what he has and is doing to "promote peace, one school at a time". He is the son of Lutheran missionaries and from MN. Need I say more?

FROM S.H. IN MI: Our property used to be an apple orchard. My husband has pretty much left them alone, cutting some, but it seems to be the case that new apple trees are growing next to each old trunk.
I'm always fearful that people around us might think we are an eyesore and actually people driving around in landscaping trucks routinely ask us if we need help, but so far so good because my husband seems to be intent on exploring the adventure of seeing what actually nature, God of Creation is doing here if we just pretty leave her/Him alone. Your Winning Words today made me think of our yard here.

FROM PR D.L. IN OREGON: I have this taped to my computer: "HOPE is the ability to look for the Music of the Future:FAITH is the ability to dance to it today". -- from a Bishop in one of our ELCA Pennsylvania synods

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/22/08
“Hope is the poor man’s bread.”
(George Herbert) One of my grandsons recently asked me, “How does today’s economic crisis compare with The Great Depression?” I had a chance to talk to him about poverty, and our responsibility to help the needy. I told him how people helped one another in those difficult times. I could and should have told him about the rich man and Lazarus (Luke 16:19 ff). Google it! ;-) Jack

FROM P.L. IN MI: I always enjoyed thinking abut the saying that defines the difference between "recession" and "depression." A recession is when you don't have a job. A depression is when I don't have one. I think today's economy is so complicated that this analysis is probably right.

FROM PR J.S. IN MI: The reverse of Hope is Hopelessness. Who can live in hopelessness? That is a suicidal condition. I am reading The Rites of Spring by Eckstein and the condition of those poor people in the trenches in WW I was virtually hopelessness. They had to blank out their condition or they could not exist. MORE:
Socialism is the ownership of the means of production. Nothing in Obama's plan is anything like that. These conservaative fools have never read Marx or the great Socialist thinkers and they simply think that anything that smacks of governmental action is socialism. In that case, David was a terrific socialist since he had a kind of welfare system in Israel. Jeremiah must have preached socialism because he wanted the poor to be taken care of. The same with Jesus. Our church was founded by a socialist....if we use the conservative definition. They are goof balls.

FROM MOLINER J.T.: One of my favorite passages during this difficult time.

FROM B.S. NEAR ORLANDO: My Pa was a milkman during the depression. On select Saturedays after his 50 hr plus workweek he had xtra duty of delivering special orders. Some times I went with him. He delivered one pound of butter to Erna Muellenschlaeder on the corner of ?? 58th street and 37th ave., more than 10 miles distance and she said to Pa, "Charge it", yep 15cents. I know gas was only 19 cents a gallon, but my Pa's time was worth something. I don't think I said a word to Pa about it, but I never forgot how he worked his butt off for his family. How could I do any less when it was my turn to support a family? Also I still remember how John Fischer fixed my computer in his kitchen after store hours.Ya John I remember. Get well buddy.

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/21/08
“My life has a superb cast, but I can’t figure out the plot.”
(Ashleigh Brilliant) The unexpected twists and turns that life’s story takes can be confounding at times, but our faith assures us that there will be a happy ending. A,B. is one of my favorite authors. I have five books of his sayings and cartoons. One of them is titled: I May Not Be Totally Perfect, But Parts Of Me Are Excellent. ;-) Jack


FROM EMT SINGS IN MI: Just had to tell you how much I also enjoy A.B. Besides the book you mentioned I also have Appreciate Me Now and Avoid The Rush. I just opened that book up to P.55 read "There has been so much concern about what might happen that what's actually happening has passed almost unnoticed." Ain't it the truth?

FROM THRIVENT TOM: I like this one. I'm sure that God has designed the plot, but I'm with you about the superb cast!

FROM D.S. IN MI: I love the title of that book.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Had my arm in a cast once.

FROM M.L. IN IL: this quote is particularly meaningful to me this week...month...year. many changes that have challenged my libran balance. i'm still standing-haven't fallen yet! JACK'S RESPONSE: Evidently, your birthday makes you a Libra.
Traits of a Libra:
Desires popularity
Loves art
Neat
Dresses up for the occassion
Slight perfectionist
Narcisstic
Charitable
Bossy at times
Plans ahead
Attention to detail
Loves public service
Likes...
Beauty
Gifts
Debates
Attention
Intellectual conversations
Admiration
Credit cards
Mingling
Subtle colours, textures
Haute Coutoure
Dislikes...
Noise
Confusion
Sloppiness
Ugliness
Dirt
Pressured decisions
Being rushed
Criticism

FROM CJL IN OH: great. good to remember the good & revise the bad

Monday, October 20, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/20/08
“You can observe a lot just by watching.”
(Yogi Berra) People tend to make fun of Yogi-isms, and today’s quote is one of them. But what he says here makes sense. Watching and observing are not the same, just as reading and understanding are not the same. Watching TV is not the same as comprehending the message, for good or bad. I encourage you to be a good observer of what’s happening around you. You can learn a lot by just observing. ;-) Jack


FROM N.L. IN INDY: I LEARNED WHAT I KNOW FROM WATCHING AND LISTENING.! LOOK AT WHAT I LEARNED.

FROM EMT SINGS IN MI: One of my "official" titles is "amateur writer and observer of the human scene". I cannot agree with you more! (As usual)

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Watch what you observe!

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Observation is a gift most people don't use. I can't tell you the number of times when us kids would sit on the banks of the AuSable River people watching. Some were intent on just getting their trip finished, some spent the whole trip trying to control their canoes, some too drunk to care, some playing Indians, some racing each other, some intent on tipping everyone, some just goofing around and a very few...just a few, actually enjoying the wonderful sights on the river. Each canoe would pass the same stuff...beavers, minks, muskrats, Great Blue Hurons, deer, rainbow trout, water snakes, brown trout...but only the silent observer really saw the wonder! MORE: I tend to observe a lot. The last 4 weeks I have been out each morning, noon and evening observing my three praying mantis. One's about 5 1/2 inches long, with a brown back...she's the biggest. One is a beautiful lime green, the second biggest and one I call "Inj" because she's injured. She is out a lot on our deck. Sometimes "Greeny" comes up there too but I have never seen the "Queenie" up there. Each day they are out and I must admit, I can't believe one hasn't eaten the other. Interesting to because Inj has been on the same bush as Queenie...who is the bigger. Somewhere there has to be an egg sack or two but I have been unable to find one. They keep me busy and each day I can't wait to get out there too see them. They live about a year and I have no idea where they spend winter. I have been trying to find more information on them. I just find the general information o n the internet I already know. Maybe I will ask for a book on them for Christmas! I have been good!

FROM M.L. IN IL: i learn the art of observing each day by watching three year olds. their power of observation is unparalleled!

Friday, October 17, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/17/08
“You lose, you smile, and you come back the next day. You win, you smile, and you come back the next day.”
(Ken Griffey, Jr) Junior is one of my favorite ball players. But his quote isn’t about baseball, it’s about life and how we deal with the ups and downs that come to all of us. Today, I’m putting on the blog (click below), part of an essay by a favorite writer of mine, Harry Golden. I hope you have time to read it. ;-) Jack

FOLLOW UP FROM JACK: The Show Must Go On (Harry Golden) I am indebted to Dr. Frank Kingdon for my interest in the poetry of Sir Rabindranath Tagore. The great Hindu poet tells us a story in exquisite poetry. His servant did not come in on time. Like so many philosophers and poets, Tagore was helpless when it came to the less important things in life, his personal wants, his clothes, his breakfast, and tidying up the place. An hour went by and Tagore was getting madder by the minute. He thought of all sorts of punishments for the man. Three hours later Togore no longer thought of punishment. He’d discharge the man without any further ado. It was midday. Without a word the servant proceeded with his duties as though nothing had happened. He picked up his master’s clothes, set to making breakfast, and started cleaning up. Tagore watched this performance with mounting rage. Finally he said it: “Drop everything, and get out.”
The man, however, continued sweeping and after another few moments, with quiet dignity he said: “My little girl died last night.”
The show must go on.

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Quite a story....sad on many parts....both on a man's inability to take care of even the basic in his life, and of another man's choice to continue with his job even with the lose of his child. But, life is like that isn't it? We still get out of bed, still eat to stay alive, still work, still proceed with life. It's your attitude about what does happen everyday...whether normal or tragic or happy or sad. Us Christian's rely on God's blessings, mercy, grace and love to get us through...hopefully with a smile. But if not, He still gets us through. They're good Winning Words....I will smile today and tomorrow!

FROM MOLINER J.T.: Yes, Jack, the show must go on !!

FROM M.T. IN PA: Yes, indeed! I never put it so succinctly, but being a good-natured stoic has gotten me through some tough times. I read the essay snippet, too. You may recall that the sculpture I did in a library was called "Thoughts on Wings". The title came from a song that a college friend of mine wrote, the inspiration for which he credited to Rabindranath Tagore.

FROM R.M. IN MI: The message came thru today and was great. I look forward to this everyday. Starts me out on the right foot. Am trying to smile as I send this.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Some people winn all of the time and some people lose all of the time but all people don't smile all of the time/ Abe Froelich

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/16/08
“Either you run the day, or the day runs you.”
(Jim Rohn) Rohn is an entrepreneur and motivational speaker. He was over his head in debt at age 25 and a millionaire by age 31. His “way” is not for everyone, but I agree with today’s quote. It works to begin each day with a positive attitude. Negativism has a way of feeding upon itself. Don’t let today run you. There’s nothing that God and you can’t handle together. ;-) Jack

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: My days sometimes do run away with me trailing far behind to catch up....but I do try to rein them in sometimes successfully sometimes not, but I don't let them take completely over....most of the time. How's that for a politically correct answer!!!

FROM MOLINER G.S.: In helicopter flight school, it was, "Either you fly the chopper, or it flys you." It was a tremendous help.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Glad you ran that past me. Good, positive advice. CARPE DIEM !

FROM M.L. IN IL: well, i have to believe that god is with me and she will be by my side and we can do anything together in the next few days. we sold our house on friday, closed on tuesday, and are moving tomorrow. we bought a house on the lake. three blocks can seem like a long way after 14 years in a roomy victorian! pray for me...seriously...pray for me.

FROM EMT SING IN MI: My take on three answers to prayer is this: Yes, No or I have better plans for you.

FROM I.D. IN MI: Long time ago, i decided to dedicate my life for serving God and I'll try to do everything possible to be a good servant.

FROM PR P.H. IN MN: what about when the day runs over you?

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 1015/08
“The only time my prayers are never answered in on the golf course.”
(Billy Graham) When I was teaching young people about prayer, I said that God always answers prayer in three possible ways: Yes, No, and we’ll wait and see. The skeptic might say that it’s a cop-out. Believers have told me that it’s worked for them. What prayer experiences have you had? ;-) Jack


FROM PR J.S.IN MI: I don't think that God has ever said "Yes" "No" or "Wait and see" to me. I think God takes our prayers in and directs our hearts and thoughts toward the answer that has already been given in his Word. That's why that word is so critical and what the liberals are doing to it is a crime. Look at the Lord's Prayer. God isn't listening to give those types of answers. God directs us to the Kingdom of God and its importance for our lives. God directs us to see that everyone needs daily bread and we are to be the persons who make certain that it happens. God directs us toward a forgiving and honest lifestyle. God directs us to see that we are weak and need to avoid temptations but while in them to look to the Lord for a way out. However, I have never experienced God to say "Yes" to me in any fashion at all. REPLY FROM JACK: Here I stand.

FROM K.B. IN MI: Don't we always have to remind folks that no or maybe is an answer just like yes--but much harder to hear. REPLY FROM JACK: Children don't like to hear their parents say, NO or MAYBE, either.

FROM MKH IN MI: I often say its a good thing I don't have a gun on the golf course or I would kill myself. I play with a bunch of WB cops and I have asked them if they are carrying so I can put myself out of misery! Why do we love that game? REPLY FROM JACK: Maybe it's because you're seeking that hole in one. And...children shouldn't play with guns!

FROM R.I. IN BOSTON: My prayer results have mostly been "yes" but not often arriving in the manner that I expected. Also, does wishful thinking count as prayer? Countless times I've thought about good things I hoped to attain at some future time, only to have it happen unexpectedly early. The Lord is in charge. REPLY FROM JACK: I agree, and, incidentally, will it do the Red Sox any good to pray that they can beat the "Devil" Rays? MORE FROM R.I.: No...God doesn't jump in and come to the rescue in matters where the needy can handle matters on their own. As for Boston teams and Boston fans, it's the blind leading the blind. MORE:
Boston sports fans are like no other creatures on earth. Civility, admiration for accomplishment, sportsmanship, competitiveness, the high road, are all things that too many Boston fans are oblivious to. All they want is to win, at any cost. An easy win against a bum team elates the fans here, like it was some great accomplishment. And win or lose, there is a complement of macho airheads who go out and destroy the Fenway, as if that is bravura celebrating. The Green Monster, Fenway Park, isn't the ugly image in Boston sports...it's that bottom stratum of asinine fans who go there. (OK, now off my soap box.)

FROM OUTHOUSE JUDY: Only God knows how He answers prayers but He has never failed to stand by my side...no matter what I need....or don't need.

FROM G.M. IN MI: Jack I will let you know after the 4th of November

FROM I.D. IN MI: God always answers my prayers. It's just a matter of patience time and faith. In my life He did many miracles and I'm really relying on Him. We can't say that prayers it just words,It's a divine personal dialog with your creator that will always have good conclusion at the end.

Tuesday, October 14, 2008

Jack’s Winning Words 10/14/08
“There are disillusioned people who have three sneers for everything and three cheers for nothing.”
(E. Stanley Jones) This a paraphrase from his book, Abundant Living. He seems to be saying that we should be more positive in our thinking, and that too many people are living by a NO when they ought to be living by a YES. This is particularly true when trying to follow God’s direction. ;-) Cheerleader Jack

FROM OPTIMIST P.L.: I just came back from our KH Optimist meeting and noticed the sign on the Church next to Roosevelt School, On one side of the sign it read: "Good without God equals nothing." It really made me think. Does the Pasteur really believe that doing good in this world means absolutely nothing unless that person believes in God? So, if an atheist pulls someone out of a fire and a believer does the same act, the only person who really did good was the one who believed in God. I wonder what your take on this is. RESPONSE FROM JACK: My first response: That's a clever sign. My relective response: I think that you are right My theological response: The sign doesn't say anything about believing in God. G-d, to many people, is the source of all being, and the ultimate source of all that is good. To remove G-d from good, does result in nothing. Just because the atheist denies a god does not eliminate G-d. The agnostic is probably more honest when he says, "I don't know." The words of this hymn speak to the subject at hand.
God moves in a mysterious way,
His wonders to perform;
He plants his footsteps in the sea,
And rides upon the storm.
Deep in unfathomable mines
Of never failing skill,
He treasures up his bright designs,
And works his sovereign will.
Judge not the Lord by feeble sense,
(Someone, by mistake, once sang SAINTS instead of SENSE. That could be true.)
But trust him for his grace;
Behind a frowning providence,
He hides a smiling face.
Blind unbelief is sure to err,
And scan his work in vain;
God is his own interpreter,
And he will make it plain.
William Cowper (1731-1800) was a British poet and hymnist. He struggled throughout his life with depression, doubts, and fears.

FROM P.O. IN MI: And a hearty "AMEN!" from Cheerleader Pat.

FROM MOLINER C.F.: Some of the people sneer all of the time, and all of the people sneer some of the time, but all of the people do not cheer all of the time, Abe Lipkoowitz

FROM PR F.M. IN WI: Your quote today reminds me of the pastor who confirmed me . . . he quoted in almost every sermon from E. Stanley Jones. Thanks for sharing. I don't have a copy of the book, ABUNDANT LIVING.